3. Review
• We need to move out of systems, or groups of
people, or situations in which we are given love
only if we act or behave a certain way, and move
into systems, or groups of people, or situations
in which we are loved no matter who we are or
what we do.
5. Review
1. Psychologically examine our feelings, which means that we
pay attention, and are attuned to, our feelings, especially
feelings of conditional love and where those feelings came
from.
6. Review
1. Psychologically examine our feelings, which means that we
pay attention, and are attuned to, our feelings, especially
feelings of conditional love and where those feelings came
from.
2. Seek, establish, and engage in community, which means
that we rebuild the interpersonal bridge that was broken for us
at a young age because of conditional love.
8. Review
3. We accomplish this conversion of conditional love into
unconditional love when we ensure that individuals and
communities are unconditionally loving by exercising Truth,
Trust, and Territory.
11. Development and Exploration of Genuine
Faith
• Common Denominator
- We all want to live lives free of our Unwanted Sexual Behavior, free
of our addictions, and free to experience unconditional love in all of
its many wonderful varieties.
13. Development and Exploration of Genuine
Faith
• “How can our faith lives help us achieve freedom
from of our Unwanted Sexual Behavior?”
14. Development and Exploration of Genuine
Faith
• “How can our faith lives help us achieve freedom
from of our Unwanted Sexual Behavior?”
• Experiencing unconditional love.
15. Development and Exploration of Genuine
Faith
• “How can our faith lives help us achieve freedom
from of our Unwanted Sexual Behavior?”
• Experiencing unconditional love.
• Is your God a God of conditional love or
unconditional love?
17. Romans
• Romans 7.12 “So then, the law is holy, and
the commandment is holy, righteous and good.
18. Romans
• Romans 7.12 “So then, the law is holy, and
the commandment is holy, righteous and good.
• God wants us to save sex for marriage.
19. Romans
• Romans 7.12 “So then, the law is holy, and
the commandment is holy, righteous and good.
• God wants us to save sex for marriage.
• God wants us to abstain from Unwanted
Sexual Behavior.
21. Romans
• Romans 7:8-11 “But sin, seizing the
opportunity afforded by the commandment,
produced in me every kind of covetous desire.
For apart from law, sin is dead. Once I was
alive apart from law; but when the
commandment came, sin sprang to life and I
died. I found that the very commandment that
was intended to bring life actually brought
death. For sin, seizing the opportunity afforded
by the commandment, deceived me, and
through the commandment put me to death.”
26. Romans
• The only answer to that pain is unconditional
love
27. Romans
• The only answer to that pain is unconditional
love
• That sense of being valued and cherished and
loved beyond measure is the very nature of
Jesus Christ.
29. Romans
• Romans 8:1-4 “Therefore, there is now no
condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus,
because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life
set me free from the law of sin and death. For what the
law was powerless to do in that it was weakened by the
sinful nature, God did by sending his own Son in the
likeness of sinful man to be a sin offering. And so he
condemned sin in sinful man in order that the righteous
requirements of the law might be fully met in us, who do
not live according to the sinful nature but according to
the Spirit.”
31. Faith
• Ultimately, the greatest source of
unconditional love is from God Himself. And if
you’re willing to see God as unconditionally
loving, then you can access God’s power,
strength, support and love anytime you wish.
32. Faith
• Ultimately, the greatest source of
unconditional love is from God Himself. And if
you’re willing to see God as unconditionally
loving, then you can access God’s power,
strength, support and love anytime you wish.
• Begin to see God as unconditionally loving.
39. Farewell
• “Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes
from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God
and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know
God, because God is love. This is how God showed his
love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the
world that we might live through him. This is love: not
that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son
as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since
God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No
one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God
lives in us and his love is made complete in us.”
