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- 2. Have you ever been…
a change agent?
asked to coach a team?
new to a group?
recipient of feedback?
in conflict?
asked to create a solution?
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- 8. Behavior that conveys your…
Authenticity
Acceptance
Appreciation
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This infrastructure scares me to death
So… the
infrastructure
scares you to
death…
Hmm… the
infrastructure
frightens you… So… you feel
like this
infrastructure
is a house of
cards
- 12. Tentative, Clarifying, Confirming
Would this be
an
example?...
Let me
recap…
Did I get that
right?
It sounds like
your thinking
was…
Thank-you
for…
What I think I
heard was …
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- 16. Same Words,
Same Meaning,
Or Inference?
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Mark doesn’t have a clue about
technology; he is totally
unqualified for the PO role
Hmm… Mark is clueless about technology…
I see… you think Mark is unqualified as the PO…
Ahh… Mark’s lack of skill makes it impossible for
him to be effective in the PO role…
So.. You’re stuck working with an ineffective PO;
You must be really frustrated….
I know what you mean; my PO doesn’t have a
clue either.
Maybe you could find him a different job.
So… being technical is a pre-requisite for the PO
role?
- 20. Curious, Clarifying, Non-Judgemental
Can you give
me an
example?
And then
what
happened?
What else?
Tell me more
about…
I’m curious…
<non judgmental
question>
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Thank you
- 22. You don’t need to agree, you do
need to understand
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- 24. Let’s Practice
• Triads – talker, listener, observer
• Talker, start the conversation
– Issue, frustration, dilemma,…
• Observe listener’s
– Reflective responses
– Exploratory responses
• Debrief
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- 25. Debrief
• How did you feel?
• What did you notice?
• What surprised you?
• What patterns emerged?
• What would you like to try?
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- 27. It’s Difficult
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• Reptile brain
• Corporate Culture
– Efficiency
– Prove-your-worth
– Hierarchy