Christian Marriage
“And Adam said, this is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman because she was taken out of man.” Gen 2:23
1. Before Marriage
2. The reasons for marriage
3. Marriage is for adults
Christian marriage is a type of covenant
It is a divine arrangement through which God populates the earth and entrenches His dominion.
It is a channel through which the baton of His kingdom is passed from generation to generation (2 Tim 2:2)
Oldest institution
Bedrock of the church
Sacred and honourable (Heb 13:4)
Marriage is a holy institution created by God
God has set the guidelines for marriage consummation
Failure to adhere to these guidelines will result in calamity.
2. Memory Verse:
Gen 2:23
“And Adam said, this is now bone
of my bones, and flesh of my flesh:
she shall be called Woman, because
she was taken out of man.”
4. Introduction
Topic: Christian
Marriage
o Christian marriage is a type of covenant
o It is a divine arrangement through which God populates the earth
and entrenches His dominion.
o It is a channel through which the baton of His kingdom is passed
from generation to generation (2 Tim 2:2)
o Oldest institution
o Bedrock of the church
o Sacred and honourable (Heb 13:4)
5. 21 And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he
took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
22 And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and
brought her unto the man.
23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall
be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto
his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed..
Bible Reading - Gen 2:21-25
6. 1. Before Marriage
Topic: Christian
Marriage
Bible Reading-
Gen. 2:21-25
The best time to start learning about marriage is now.
You are single and complete (Col 2:10)
Your choice of spouse will influence where you will spend
eternity
Marriage won’t make you better automatically
Marriage is like an unfurnished room or an empty plate
7. 1. Before Marriage
Topic: Christian
Marriage
Bible Reading-
Gen. 2:21-25
We are sexual beings - some are celibates (1 Cor 7:7)
If you can't control it, get married (I Cor 7:2)
Its better to marry than to burn (1 Cor 7:9)
Sex in marriage is legitimate, pure, and godly
(Gen 2:25, 4:1)
Sex outside marriage is a sin (Col 3:5-6)
To choose not to marry without being a celibate is to
be out of God’s will (Gen 2:18)
8. 2. Reasons for marriage
Topic: Christian
Marriage
Bible Reading-
Gen. 2:21-25
Companionship & mutual fellowship (Gen 2:18-22, 24)
To carry out God's command of reproduction, multiplication and
domination (Gen 1:28, 9:1)
To satisfy sexual desire & prevent fornication (1 Cor 7:2)
Two are better than one (Ecc 4:9-11)
It takes a man and a woman to become one flesh (Gen 2:24)
9. 3. Marriage is for adults
Topic: Christian
Marriage
Bible Reading-
Gen. 2:21-25
Requires: physical, emotional (Mk 10:7-8), financial
(1 Tim 5.8), and social (Tit 1:8) maturity
Contains responsibilities only adults can handle
(1Sam 25:18-25)
Requires the consent and blessings of parents of both
parties (Gen 24:50-51, 59-60)
10. Conclusion
Topic: Christian
Marriage
Bible Reading-
Gen. 2:21-25
Marriage is a holy institution created by God
God has set the guidelines for marriage
consummation
Failure to adhere to these guidelines will result
in calamity.