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Nilesh Lolayekar
iPhone study proves what Yoga knew !


“It was surprising to learn that people’s mind
  wander so often- and that mind wandering
  almost never increases and almost always
  decreases happiness”- Prof. Daniel Gilbert-
  Harvard University

Focus on job at hand to be happy : don’t let
  your mind wander ! Live in the present !!
What is living in present ?

   It means that your awareness is completely
    centered around here and now
   It means that when you are living in present ;
    you are living where life is happening

“ The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for
   the past, worry about the future , but to live the present
   moment wisely and earnestly ” – Buddha
Why living in present will change your life .


   Improves your emotional well being
   Impacts your physical health positively
   Increases you acceptance to life the way it is
    .
   You forgive yourselves for the mistakes that
    you have made.

“ If you wonder what might be and wonder what might have
   been, you will ignore what is ”
Start living and stop conceptualizing.


   Living in past or future makes you loose your
    personal power to create.
   To make the changes that you want in life
    , the best time is to do it NOW.For this….
   You got to accept the life as it is .
   You mind is the only thing keeping you from
    living in the present !!!
“There is no distance on this earth as far away as yesterday”
Why is it difficult to live in present?


   We constantly talk to our self
   We do not hear what anyone has to say
   We have nothing to think about other than
    the thoughts and are never in relationship
    with reality .
Ways to start living in the present.


   Don’t try to quite your mind ..simply witness
    your thoughts; don’t judge them
   You are not your thoughts …do not identify
    and believe the noise , you are much more
    then your thoughts …a force that moves
    through the mind , spirit and body.
   Breathe, you’re alive…practice conscious
    breathing ( it’s co-creative !)to bring your
    mind back to present.
Ways to start living in the present (cont’d)


   Music for meditation…helps clear your mind
    and restore peace
   Practice mindfulness…focus on any activity
    that you do , bring in your full attention
    whether making tea, tying shoelace, speaking
    to your prospect.
   Fully appreciate the moments of today…soak
    in as much of today as you possibly can; the
    sights, the sounds, the emotions , the
    triumph and the sorrow
Ways to start living in the present (cont’d)


   Love your job! If you survive the work week
    constantly waiting for the next weekend “to
    get here” you are wasting 75% of your life
    (5 out of 7 days). There are two solutions 1.
    Find a new job that you actually enjoy 2. Find
    something that you actually appreciate about
    your current career and focus on that rather
    than the negatives .
   Don’t dwell on past accomplishments .
   Stop worrying about tomorrow ; tomorrow
    will happen anyway.
   Think beyond old solutions to the problem
Remember !
   You can live only one moment at a time ; you
    might as well make it the “present”



                Thank you.

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Focussed approach

  • 1. LIVE AND WORK ON YOUR TERMS Nilesh Lolayekar
  • 2. iPhone study proves what Yoga knew ! “It was surprising to learn that people’s mind wander so often- and that mind wandering almost never increases and almost always decreases happiness”- Prof. Daniel Gilbert- Harvard University Focus on job at hand to be happy : don’t let your mind wander ! Live in the present !!
  • 3. What is living in present ?  It means that your awareness is completely centered around here and now  It means that when you are living in present ; you are living where life is happening “ The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future , but to live the present moment wisely and earnestly ” – Buddha
  • 4. Why living in present will change your life .  Improves your emotional well being  Impacts your physical health positively  Increases you acceptance to life the way it is .  You forgive yourselves for the mistakes that you have made. “ If you wonder what might be and wonder what might have been, you will ignore what is ”
  • 5. Start living and stop conceptualizing.  Living in past or future makes you loose your personal power to create.  To make the changes that you want in life , the best time is to do it NOW.For this….  You got to accept the life as it is .  You mind is the only thing keeping you from living in the present !!! “There is no distance on this earth as far away as yesterday”
  • 6. Why is it difficult to live in present?  We constantly talk to our self  We do not hear what anyone has to say  We have nothing to think about other than the thoughts and are never in relationship with reality .
  • 7. Ways to start living in the present.  Don’t try to quite your mind ..simply witness your thoughts; don’t judge them  You are not your thoughts …do not identify and believe the noise , you are much more then your thoughts …a force that moves through the mind , spirit and body.  Breathe, you’re alive…practice conscious breathing ( it’s co-creative !)to bring your mind back to present.
  • 8. Ways to start living in the present (cont’d)  Music for meditation…helps clear your mind and restore peace  Practice mindfulness…focus on any activity that you do , bring in your full attention whether making tea, tying shoelace, speaking to your prospect.  Fully appreciate the moments of today…soak in as much of today as you possibly can; the sights, the sounds, the emotions , the triumph and the sorrow
  • 9. Ways to start living in the present (cont’d)  Love your job! If you survive the work week constantly waiting for the next weekend “to get here” you are wasting 75% of your life (5 out of 7 days). There are two solutions 1. Find a new job that you actually enjoy 2. Find something that you actually appreciate about your current career and focus on that rather than the negatives .
  • 10. Don’t dwell on past accomplishments .  Stop worrying about tomorrow ; tomorrow will happen anyway.  Think beyond old solutions to the problem
  • 11. Remember !  You can live only one moment at a time ; you might as well make it the “present” Thank you.