2. Denial
“Not me”
Anger
“why me?”
Bargaining
Bargaining with God
Depression
Reality setting in
Acceptance
Begin making plan for their departure…getting their
affairs in order
3. Different responses and viewpoints to death
Cultural
Past experiences with death
Religious beliefs
4. Even if can’t respond, explain everything you are
doing
Assume resident can hear you
Diminished senses
Mouth and nose care
Skin care
Comfort – a priority
5. Emotional and spiritual support
Listen.
Pay attention
Stop in frequently-do not avoid
Don’t treat differently than other residents
Place call light within reach
Take time to sort out your own feelings about death
6. Be cared for by competent individuals
Not to die alone
Be free from pain
Able to express feeling in own way about
impending death
7. Listen, listen, listen!
Keep resident clean and dry
Report any c/o pain promptly
Keep resident comfortable
Don’t be afraid to communicate
Respect rights of privacy between resident and
family.
8. End of Life Care or Comfort Care
Be understanding and respectful
Pt has 6 months or less to live. Care focused on
making the resident comfortable
Be there for the family, as well.
9. Unfocused eyes…sometimes glazed
Decreased blood pressure
Cheyenne-Stokes respirations
Rattling or gurgling during breathing
Disorientation
10. Rigor mortis
Body stiffens after death
Post-mortem care – care of body after death
Bathe body
Leave tubes in or take out, per RN discretion
Present for family viewing
Give family privacy
Comfort family/Others
“I’m sorry”
Just listen