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Presentation Relationship Attachments

Have you ever been in love? We all have, at least once. The attachment bond is the term for your first interactive love relationship—the one you had with your primary caregiver as an infant, usually your mother. This mother-child attachment bond shapes an infant's brain, profoundly influencing your self-esteem, your expectations of others, and your ability to attract and maintain successful adult relationships. By learning about attachment, you can build healthier, attuned relationships, and communicate more effectively.

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Presentation Relationship Attachments

  1. 1. Genovieve Feasey Therapeutic Coach – Hypnotherapist Regulatory Bodies BACP & GHR www.thechiocetochange.com
  2. 2. Relationship Attachments Have you ever been in Love Genovieve – m 07833 196 474 - www.thechoicetochange.com t 01494 883 815 - thechoicetochange@gmail.com ?
  3. 3. Relationship Attachments Relationship between infants and their primary caregivers is responsible for: 1. Shaping the success or failure of future relationships 2. The ability to maintain emotional balance 3. The ability to enjoy being ourselves and to find satisfaction in being with others 4. The ability to rebound from disappointment, discouragement and misfortune Genovieve – m 07833 196 474 - www.thechoicetochange.com t 01494 883 815 - thechoicetochange@gmail.com
  4. 4. Relationship Attachments Neuroscience And Healing Past Pain • New discoveries about the brain • Childhood pain = traumatic event = leaves an imprint in our brain stem • This part of the brain works in black or white associated with fight or flight response. Genovieve – m 07833 196 474 - www.thechoicetochange.com t 01494 883 815 - thechoicetochange@gmail.com
  5. 5. Relationship Attachments Eric Erikson’s description of Psychological Development that occurs throughout the lifespan. Important Outcome Events Stage Infancy (birth to 18 months) Trust v Mistrust Feeding Genovieve – m 07833 196 474 - www.thechoicetochange.com t 01494 883 815 - thechoicetochange@gmail.com Children develop a sense of trust when caregivers provide reliability, care, and affection. A lack of this will lead to mistrust.
  6. 6. Relationship Attachments Basic Conflict Important Stage Events Autonomy V Toilet Early Childhood Shame (2 to 3 years) Training And Doubt Genovieve – m 07833 196 474 - www.thechoicetochange.com t 01494 883 815 - thechoicetochange@gmail.com Outcome Children need to develop a sense of personal control over physical skills and a sense of independence. Success leads to feelings of autonomy, failure results in feelings of shame and doubt.
  7. 7. Relationship Attachments Stage Preschool (3 to 5 years) Basic Conflict Important Events Initiative Exploration v Guilt Genovieve – m 07833 196 474 - www.thechoicetochange.com t 01494 883 815 - thechoicetochange@gmail.com Outcome Children need to begin asserting control and power over the environment. Success in this stage leads to a sense of purpose. Children who try to exert too much power experience disapproval, resulting in a sense of guilt.
  8. 8. Relationship Attachments Stage School Age (6 to 11 years) Basic Conflict Industry v Inferiority Important Events Outcome School Children need to cope with new social and academic demands. Success leads to a sense of competence, while failure results in feelings of inferiority. Genovieve – m 07833 196 474 - www.thechoicetochange.com t 01494 883 815 - thechoicetochange@gmail.com
  9. 9. Relationship Attachments Stage Adolescence (12 to 18 years) Basic Conflict Identity V Role Confusion Important Events Social Relationships Genovieve – m 07833 196 474 - www.thechoicetochange.com t 01494 883 815 - thechoicetochange@gmail.com Outcome Teens need to develop a sense of self and personal identity. Success leads to an ability to stay true to yourself, while failure leads to role confusion and a weak sense of self.
  10. 10. Relationship Attachments Stage Young Adulthood (19 to 40 years) Basic Conflict Intimacy v Isolation Important Events Relationships Genovieve – m 07833 196 474 - www.thechoicetochange.com t 01494 883 815 - thechoicetochange@gmail.com Outcome Young adults need to form intimate, loving relationships with other people. Success leads to strong relationships, while failure results in loneliness and isolation.
  11. 11. Relationship Attachments Stage Middle Adulthood (40 to 65 years) Basic Conflict Important Events Work Generativity And V Stagnation Parenthood Genovieve – m 07833 196 474 - www.thechoicetochange.com t 01494 883 815 - thechoicetochange@gmail.com Outcome Adults need to create or nurture things that will outlast them, often by having children or creating a positive change that benefits other people. Success leads to feelings of usefulness and accomplishment, while failure results in shallow involvement in the world.
  12. 12. Relationship Attachments Stage Basic Conflict Important Events Ego Integrity Reflection Maturity V (65 to death) on Despair Life Genovieve – m 07833 196 474 - www.thechoicetochange.com t 01494 883 815 - thechoicetochange@gmail.com Outcome Older adults need to look back on life and feel a sense of fulfilment. Success at this stage leads to feelings of wisdom, while failure results in regret, bitterness, and despair.
  13. 13. Relationship Attachments Help to Resolve Relationship Issue’s IMAGO THEORY EMDR THEORY “What we don’t dare look a, within ourselves, we tend to project out onto others!” “If you hate a person, you hate something in them that is part of yourself. What isn’t part of ourselves doesn’t disturb us.” Genovieve – m 07833 196 474 - www.thechoicetochange.com t 01494 883 815 - thechoicetochange@gmail.com
  14. 14. Genovieve Feasey Therapeutic Coach – Hypnotherapist Regulatory Bodies BACP & GHR Call m 07833 196 474 t 01494 883 815 www.thechiocetochange.com

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