By Jim Kouzes and Barry Posner
Are you on this planet to do something or are you here just for something to do?
That's a big question, but leadership is an important matter. The purpose of leaders is to mobilize others to serve a purpose. And if you're here to serve a purpose, the purpose comes first. You'll have to make sacrifices in service of that purpose.
In this execuBook, authors Jim Kouzes and Barry Posner note that the most significant contributions leaders make aren?t to today's bottom line but to long-term development of individuals and institutions that adapt, prosper and grow.
This summary explores some of the key aspects of leadership that are needed for a lasting legacy. It will be of interest to corporate leaders and those who aspire to leadership roles.
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well you kept others warm, how well you illuminated of us, whether we intend to or not, will become at
the night to make them feel safe, and how beautiful you some point a character in someone else’s story. We all
left the campsite for those who would come after you talk about people when they’re not around, and others
to build the next fire. will talk about us when we’re not around. The obvious
question is: what will they say?
The Best Leaders Are Teachers That should make each of us wonder about a few
The best way to learn something is to teach it to things:
someone else. No matter whether you’re a leader or a • What lessons am I teaching in every interaction I
student, if you’re really serious about helping others have? The “moral of the story” I’m relating may be
learn, you start to think, study and prepare from the obvious, but what else am I teaching? Am I even
moment you’re asked to take on that role. In that aware of it?
process, you become consumed by learning. You • What stories will others tell about me in the fu-
know you’re on the line. You know you’re going to ture? What will others learn from those stories? What’s
have to perform live in front of others, and you’d better the legacy being passed along? What’s the legacy I
have your stuff down cold. want to pass along?
One of the things that leaders do is to mentor and • What am I learning from others as I teach?
teach. And when they’re teaching — at least, when Put that together with some lessons Jim Kouzes
they’re teaching with intensity — they’re learning. and Barry Posner discovered when analyzing the
Each and every interaction teaching evaluations at the
you have with your asso- Leavey School of Business
ciates can be framed as a A new feature topic every week at Santa Clara University,
learning opportunity for where they work. The
them — and for you. most highly rated teachers
Take a performance are those who are most
appraisal, for example. You enthusiastic about their
can view it as a perfuncto- Leading thinking material.
ry exercise in describing by thought leaders. That probably squares
someone’s scores on cer- directly with your own ex-
tain measures and compe- Join in at perience. When you’re in a
tencies, or you can look at class with someone who’s
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it as a mutual learning op- truly passionate about a
portunity. These sessions subject, don’t you get
become mutual learning opportunities when you ap- jazzed about it? Doesn’t that person really turn you on
proach them as chances for people to teach you about to the subject? Don’t you wish all your teachers could
their strengths, weaknesses, aspirations, goals, disap- be that way?
pointments, confusions, vulnerabilities and the like. The same applies to leaders. The best leaders are
They become mutual learning opportunities when you the most passionate about their work, their organiza-
approach them as chances for you to teach your asso- tions and their disciplines. Their enthusiasm is conta-
ciates about your own struggles with these issues and gious, and others catch that enthusiasm and display it
what you’ve learned from your experience, and for in their own work. Those are the leaders we’ll tell the
them to teach you about the same. most positive stories about in the future. Those are the
It transforms the experience from a monologue to a teachers who continue to make a difference long after
dialogue. It also elevates your relationships from boss- we, and they, have moved on.
subordinate to mentor-protégé.
But there’s a second lesson to keep in mind about We All Need Loving Critics
this element of teaching and mentoring: our teachers The late John Gardner, leadership scholar and presi-
continue to teach as we go on to tell their stories. Each dential advisor, once remarked, “Pity the leader caught
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between unloving critics and uncritical lovers.” That at a higher level or whether they’ve sent motivation
phrase should be put on a poster to hang over every heading south.
leader’s desk — or a screen saver on every leader’s All leaders want to have a positive impact on per-
computer — and it should be read and contemplated formance. It’s part of their legacy. The only way they
several times a day. can know if they’re having the desired impact is to get
None of us likes to hear the constant screeching of regular feedback on how they’re doing. Leaders need
harpies who have only foul things to say. We close our more loving critics.
ears to constant complainers who are predictable in The reason that leaders aren’t eager to ask for
their whining. At the same time, we never benefit from, feedback is that they’re afraid of feeling exposed — ex-
nor truly believe, the syco- posed as not being per-
phants whose flattery is fect, as not knowing
obviously aimed at gaining
favor. To stay honest with
simple smart everything, as not being as
good at leadership as they
ourselves, what we really should be, as not being up
need are “loving critics” — to the task. But if you’re a
people who care deeply leader, you’re already ex-
enough about us to give posed. You’re effectively
us honest feedback about dancing naked on the
how we’re doing. table, so there’s no use
The higher up you go pretending you’re wearing
on the corporate ladder, clothes.
the less likely it is that The better strategy is
leaders will ask for feed- to accept the importance
back about their perform- See page 4 for details of seeking feedback about
ance. Leaders want to our performance. Learning
know how others are doing, but rarely do they ask how to be a better leader requires great self-awareness and
they’re doing themselves. Senior executives are quite it requires making ourselves vulnerable. Make sure you
happy to prescribe 360-degree feedback for others — have processes for getting regular feedback.
it’s the rage these days. But when it comes to getting
feedback, it’s not for them. And if they’re getting it, Leaders Should Want to Be Liked
that’s probably because an outside consultant or Lasting success depends on whether we like our lead-
coach told them they should be getting it, not because ers. It’s only logical, then, that all leaders should like to
they took the initiative to ask. be liked. But leaders often say, “I don’t care if people
Think about this for a moment. From a behavioral like me. I just want them to respect me.” Get real! That
perspective, credibility, which is at the foundation of statement is utter nonsense — contrary to everything
leadership, is about doing what you say you’ll do. But we know about effective leadership.
how can you do what you say if you don’t know how Think about it for a moment. Is this a binary
you’re doing? If you never ask for feedback on your be- choice? Are we restricted to either liking or respecting
havior and on how well your behavior affects how oth- someone? Can’t we have both? Can’t we both like and
ers are doing, how can you really expect to align your respect a person?
words and actions over the long haul? The leaders people want to follow are the ones for
There’s solid evidence that the best leaders are whom they have genuine affection. Love is not too
highly attuned to what’s going on inside themselves as strong a word to use for how the best leaders feel
they’re leading and to what’s going on in others. about their constituents and how their constituents feel
They’re very self-aware and they’re very socially about them. If you can’t have both liking and respect,
aware. They can tell in short order whether they’ve then you should choose liking over respect.
done something that has enabled someone to perform Of course, some leaders worry that if they get
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close enough to people for them to like the leader, Related Reading
then it will be tough doing the difficult parts of the Leading at a Higher Level: Blanchard on Leadership
leadership job — things like firing people, reprimand- and Creating High Performing Organizations, by Ken
ing them for poor performance or holding them ac- Blanchard, Financial Times Prentice Hall, 2006, ISBN
countable for living up to high standards. A tough 0132347725.
truth about leading, however — and one that doesn’t
get talked about enough — is that sometimes you Leading Quietly: An Unorthodox Guide to Doing the
hurt others and sometimes you get hurt. You can’t hit Right Thing, by Joseph L. Badaracco, Jr., Harvard
the delete key and eliminate those times from your Business School Press, 2002, ISBN 1578514878.
job. You can’t delegate them to others. They come
with the territory. The Likeability Factor: How to Boost Your L-Factor and
That truth should not deter us from wanting to be Achieve Your Life’s Dreams, by Tim Sanders, Crown
liked. Being motivated to have others like us will result Publishing, 2005, ISBN 1400080495.
in more empowering actions on our part than just
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ABOUT THE AUTHORS: Jim Kouzes is an executive fellow tive advantage by equipping each other with a world-
at the Center for Innovation and Entrepreneurship at class business education easily and effectively right
the Leavey School of Business at Santa Clara Univer- where they work.
sity. Barry Posner is dean of the Leavey School of Contact us for more information at clientcare@
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