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COMMUNICATION
KEYS
TEN10 HIDDEN KEYS
TO TEAM, TIME,
& SERVING
OTHERS
by tim miles
Team Engagement
Time Management
Servant Leadership
In the particular is
contained the
universal.
“
James Joyce
DADDY,
I HAVE A
QUESTION
by
tim
miles
“Daddy, I have a question.
Yes, Will.
How old do I have to be
to own a jetpack?
“
Will Miles
Scientist, Philanthropist, Bon Vivant
Do you need a permit to
own a raygun?
Will Miles
Scientist, Philanthropist, Bon Vivant
“
When I become a Jedi,
who decides what color
my lightsaber will be?
Will Miles
Scientist, Philanthropist, Bon Vivant
“
Do me a favor...
So how does it feel to be autistic when you are
overstimulated? It feels like: 20 cologne smells (all
people around you are wearing different things, etc.
Autistics smell all of it), like hundreds of kids
running around you asking you questions in
different languages, like you’re sitting in a chair that
is missing one leg and trying to balance it while all
that is going on, and lights flickering…too much,
hence why autistics have Meltdowns.
“
Kristina DesJardins
Author, Autist
November 20, 2005
November 21, 2005
WHATIS AUTISM?
• Qualitative impairment
in social interaction
and communication
• Restrictive and
repetitive behaviors.
January 18, 2018
10 KEYS
TO TEAM, TIME, AND
SERVING OTHERS
10 BLESSINGS
TO TEAM, TIME, AND
SERVING OTHERS
And God is able to bless you
abundantly, so that in all
things at all times, having all
that you need, you will
abound in every good work.
“
2 Corinthians 9:8
COMMUNICATION
KEY
1
ONEJUST
THING
COMMUNICATION
KEY1
ONE
CHANGE
COMMUNICATION
KEY1
You cannot expect someone else to
change his behavior until you’re first
willing to change your own.
COMMUNICATION
KEY1
Meet people where they are.
COMMUNICATION
KEY1
“Have you seen ______?”
COMMUNICATION
KEY
“Have you seen ______?”
1
Be kind.
Everyone you meet is
fighting a hard battle.
“
Plato
Change requires motivation.
The motivation can come
from fear or love.
The choice is yours.
“
Becky Bailey, Ph.D.
COMMUNICATION
KEY1
Observe & Point Out
What People Do Well
COMMUNICATION
KEY1
Chris Ulmer
Change your thoughts,
and you
change your world.
“
Norman Vincent Peale
COMMUNICATION
KEY2
TW
CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
COMMUNICATION
KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
COMMUNICATION
KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
“He can’t speak to you…”
COMMUNICATION
KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
“…but he can hear you…”
COMMUNICATION
KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
“…and he can understand you…”
COMMUNICATION
KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
How will you measure greatness?
Comparison is the
thief of joy.“
Theodore Roosevelt
By autistic standards, the “normal” brain is
easily distractible, is obsessively social, and
suffers from a deficit of attention to detail
and routine. Thus people on the spectrum
experience the neurotypical world as
relentlessly unpredictable and chaotic,
perpetually turned up too loud, and full of
people who have little respect for personal
space.
“
Steve Silberman
COMMUNICATION
KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
COMMUNICATION
KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
COMMUNICATION
KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
COMMUNICATION
KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
COMMUNICATION
KEY3
THR
CLEAR v. CLEVER
COMMUNICATION
KEY3CLEAR v. CLEVER
Literal Thinking
COMMUNICATION
KEY3CLEAR v. CLEVER
COMMUNICATION
KEY4
FOU
OVERSTIMULATED
COMMUNICATION
KEY4OVERSTIMULATED
How many of you check your phone
before you get out of bed?
WILLIPEDIA
Will Miles
7th Grade
F.C.S.
62.28%
(525)
37.72%
(318)
62.28%
(525)
37.72%
(318)
Tony Schwartz
New York Times, 11/28/15
According to one recent survey [by Adobe], the average white-
collar worker spends about six hours a day on email. That
doesn’t count time online spent shopping, searching or keeping
up with social media.
The brain’s craving for novelty, constant stimulation and
immediate gratification creates something called a
“compulsion loop.” Like lab rats and drug addicts, we need
more and more to get the same effect.
Endless access to new information also easily overloads our
working memory. When we reach cognitive overload, our ability
to transfer learning to long-term memory significantly
deteriorates. It’s as if our brain has become a full cup of water
and anything more poured into it starts to spill out.
“
MULTITASKING?
There's no question whatsoever that
multitasking, especially among those who do it
the most, is at the very least ineffective and at
the worst, harmful.
Basically, they are worse at most of the kinds
of thinking not only required for multitasking
but what we generally think of as involving
deep thought.
“
Dr. Clifford Nass
Stanford University
COMMUNICATION
KEY4OVERSTIMULATED
COMMUNICATION
KEY5
FIV
LISTEN
COMMUNICATION
KEY5LISTEN
it seems like a bazillion people
want to be heard?
But, like, maybe six want to listen?
COMMUNICATION
KEY5LISTEN
Listening is a MUSCLE…
COMMUNICATION
KEY6
SIX
COME TOGETHER
6COMMUNICATION
KEY
COME TOGETHER
COMMUNICATION
KEY7
SEV
PROCESS ROCKS
COMMUNICATION
KEY
SIX
PROCESS ROCKS
7
Transitions should be marked,
milestones commemorated,
and pits filled.“
Chip and Dan Heath
Authors, The Power Of Moments
COMMUNICATION
KEY8BLACK HOLES
EIG
a
Jesus said, "Father, forgive
them, for they do not know
what they are doing." And
they divided up his clothes
by casting lots.
“
Luke 23:34
COMMUNICATION
KEY9
NIN
WHAT IS NROMAL?
The goal of life is to take
everything that made you weird
as a kid and get people to pay
you money for it as an adult.
“
David Freeman
Screenwriter
Why is it everybody wants their
children to be normal, but no
one wants them to be
average?
“
Roy H. Williams
CEO, Williams Marketing
WHAT IS NROMAL?
Retweeted by Thinking Persons Guide to Autism
“
Jordan Mills
@JAMills1014
“
For too long, we've assumed that there
is a single template for human nature,
which is why we diagnose most
deviations as disorders. But the reality is
that there are many different kinds of
minds. And that's a very good thing.
“
Jonah Lehrer
Wall Street Journal, 3/31/12
I’ve learned that every human being, with or
without disabilities, needs to strive to do their
best, and by striving for happiness you will arrive
at happiness. For us, you see, having autism is
normal— so we can’t know for sure what your
“normal” is even like. But so long as we can
learn to love ourselves, I’m not sure how much it
matters whether we’re normal or autistic.
“
Naoki Higashida
The Reason I Jump
We all have special needs.
COMMUNICATION
KEY10
TEN
COMMITMENT
COMMUNICATION
KEY
1JUST
THING
10COMMITMENT
Change
Celebrate Differently
Clear v. Clever
Unplug
Listen
Come Together
Process Rocks
Black Holes Are Doorknobs
Recalibrate Nromal
Commitment
The magic is not in
the size of your steps.
But in the Will
to just keep going,
and in encouraging
others to do the same.
FALL DOWN 7 TIMES
STAND UP 8
FALL DOWN 7 TIMES
簡単に世界を変えた
ことはありません
簡単に世界を変えた
ことはありません
EASY NEVER
CHANGED THE WORLD
The Lord said to Joshua,
“Stand up! What are you
doing down on your face?“
Joshua 7:10
GO!
.
GO!
.
ABOUND IN
EVERY
GOOD WORK!
DO NOT
GROW WEARY
IN
DOING GOOD!
.
THANK YOU!
.
GetTims.Email
by
tim
miles
DADDY,
I HAVE A
QUESTION

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