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Xscape Negotiation Training Victoria Pynchon, J.D., LL.M ADR Services, Inc. , Century City, California and  She Negotiates  Consulting and Training on the Web
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Negotiation is a conversation  leading to agreement
in a mixed motive exchange Compete for scarce resources Collaborate for mutual gain
Negotiate this . . .
Negotiate these . . .
 
Do you want some coffee? Only if you’re having some Well, do you want some? Do you? Well, I’m going to make some Great!  I’ll have some too!
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Could we talk about this later? I appreciate it but it was not what I was expecting We must not be on the same page My product is worth . . . .
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Dispute Resolution Tactics ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
 
recognize the  opportunity to negotiate
 
 
Women tend to value  relationship more than money
tit for tat S is for Shakedown Artist copyright 2010 Reason Press
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We measure our work by what we  need
We compare our income to our women friends’
often leading us to value ourselves less than male peers
We over-deliver to our clients and superiors and under-deliver to ourselves
We work 22% longer and 10% faster for the same reward
 
we can close the gap NOW
monkey economy 50  million  years
ANCHORING When we set our value in the market we set our own future value; we set our women colleague ’s value and we set the value for our children and children’s children Image credit istockphoto.com 2010
Recalibrate our Market value
Sk for it
we all have  universal tendencies of thought called cognitive  biases universal ways of thinking about what motivates other people
But we never learned to read one another’s minds ,[object Object],P is for Paranoid copyright 2010 Reason Press We needed to cooperate to survive
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What the HECK are they THINKING?
and will it be harmful to me?
Will they cooperate
or attack ?
How can I make them do what I want them to do?
we read signs and symbols in an effort to control our own destiny
and make common cognitive errors
We see patterns where none exist Clustering Illusion
we discount everything our bargaining partners say reactive devaluation
confirmation bias we search for and interpret information in a way that confirms our preconceptions
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Getting what you want Copyright 2010 Reason Press
Negotiate from Strength You are as strong as you believe yourself to be L is for Lawyer copyright 2010 Reason Press
how can we reach mutually beneficial and durable agreements? By ascertaining their  interests, preferences, priorities, needs, desires, constraints, strengths, and weaknesses
Z is for Zen Master copyright 2010 Reason Press Collaborative Problem Solving
Ask Diagnostic Questions C is for Coward copyright 2010 Reason Press
 
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Q is for Questioner copyright 2010 Reason Press
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],T is for Them and Us copyright 2010 Reason Press
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],T is for Them and Us copyright 2010 Reason Press
Framing ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
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Distributive Bargaining ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Competitive Bargaining Image credit istockphoto.com 2010 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Difficult people
Behind every accusation is a cry for help D is for Drama Queen copyright 2010 Reason Press
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],I is for Idiot copyright 2010 Reason Press
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],O Is for Outlaw copyright 2010 Reason Press
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[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],F is for Friend copyright 2010 Reason Press
Practice practice practice
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K is for Kin copyright 2010 Reason Press You can have it all Just not at the same time

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  1. Every time we teach our negotiation course, we ask our women questions about their attitudes toward, experiences of, and preferences for the outcome of negotiation. On a 1 to 10 scale, the most consistently similar answer we get both before and after the month-long course is that women value relationships over money and that, at a minimum, they want their bargaining partner to get as good a deal as possible while at the same time the negotiator gets as good a deal as she can for herself.
  2. When asked what we believe we deserve to be paid for our work, we undervalue ourselves by between 3 and 30% The wage gap is one-third
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