It just takes some basic knowledge, search & learning skills and patience to be Successful in Life

1. Do you want to be Successful?
Success By Definition:-
Plain Synonyms; achiever, winner
An event that accomplishes its intended purpose
An attainment that is successful
A state of prosperity or fame
A person with a record of successes
Being successful is not just being able to make a lot
of money, it also means to make a difference in the
community that you associate to Not just the religious
community but the social community too....
Success is a journey and not a destination...
So what does it take to be successful in life?

2. Basic Education / Knowledge
Its not necessary to have High fly Education or fancy degrees like MBA and MCA etc
Basic Education just means proper Schooling till the 10th Grade; HSC
Simple Math BODMAS ; Bracket, Operator, Division, Multiplication, Addition & Subtraction
Tables (2 to 12) and
Logic like 1/2 litre milk takes 20 mins to cook so how much time for 1 litre
I know people who are ultra successful
even with basic education
Bill gates was a Harvard Institute
College drop-out
Real Life Eg: - A. V. (12th Sci) (Makes More that 1lac Rs P.M. ; 12.6Lacs p.a. )and F. R. 8.4 p.a. (11th Sci)
One of my friends is not Just know as a MVP (Microsoft certified Most Valuable professional back to back twice
for same technology makes him 1 of the only 40 Max professionals chosen in the world to get that kind of a
certificate that year) he is also know as a Extremely well skilled Salsa practitioner
and F. R. besides being a Techie Owns a restaurant and also partners in an other.

3. Skill or Professional Expertise
Skill By Definition:-
An ability that has been acquired by training
Ability to produce solutions in some problem domain
Skill / Professional Skill like a
Drawing Artist, Potter, Jewelry carver,
Speaker, Motivator, Banker, Analyst
Skilled mechanic, Sports person, Actor, Marketing personnel,
Sales skills. Negotiation Skills.
Even Bill gates had to have them in him to sell his products that he made at Microsoft. But well you can even
hire a Sales Manager only one thing’s not certain; his dedication, loyalty to your organization in the long run.
Devoid of all other skills U already have, U need to have other soft skills in your kitty, like communication
skills, interacting with co-workers and developing a rapport required for team work and team spirit.
Selling the Brand ‘U’ and always Negotiating for a ‘Higher Income’

4. Duniyadaari/ (Negotiation) & Social connect
Please Zara mera ek kaam karega/karegee?
Will U please do this thing for me?
How many people do U have who can stand by Ur side when the need arises....?
That list is what I call my people. (friends, real friends.)
U must have done enough for someone that they will stand for U when U need them.
IT takes a team to do a task,
You have to Invest enough time and efforts on someone to say that they are my people.
Its only when U have helped someone when they needed Ur help the most will they return you the favor.
U have to keep on building relations, U do that by imparting the knowledge that U have that is an edge over others.
Ur attitude and activities should be the motivating factor for others. (Ur Tai’s Example for Ur neighbors)
What all topics are supposed to be Topics of greatness, try venturing in to them:
Main Heads of life where people spent their time are:
1. Money Making/ being rich and managing wealth
2. Way to God head, knowledge about God, Spiritual awareness, natural healer, religious literature, mantras by heart
3. Philosophy, Worldly wise, art of living, speaker, Motivator, knowledge about books and literature.
4. Sports Fanatic, Arts and Craft maniac.
5. Professional expert.
6. Social Service and philanthropy.
Show me which of the above heads do U spend your time into?

5. Doing what U know / Decision making
Decision By Definition:-
The act of making up your mind about something, conclusion.
We are = What Decisions we take and what choices we make.
If U choose to stay in to a career that is not lucrative and sucks then your life will continue to suck since
its Ur own decision and U are leading yourself to nowhere....but Still no one else is to be blamed about
than U yourself.
If U do not take a decision, someone else will take it for you.
So be at least knowledgeable enough to not allow others to take a decision for U and be responsible for
Ur own decisions.
After 8 years of a career in Graphics and Web design I did choose to change my career stream in to Web
development. Its my decision and I am in a better position financially because of this decision.
At some point of time we are faced by a dilemma where which decision of the two decisions to take. If
both the decisions are equally weighing then U should take one of them and move on. Its better to take
a decision and move on instead of procrastinating it and staying in a state of not taking any decision due
to which U might end up loosing up both sides of the deal.
Once a decision is taken the consequences are also faced and a real life lesson is learned which will
make further decisions more accurate.

6. Confidence – freedom from doubt
Confidence By Definition:-
Confidence - belief in yourself and your abilities
confidence in life comes from knowing that U can do it.
U have confidence when U have moral support and when U
know that there are people behind U to support U & to guide U.
Confidence comes from doing a thing a repeatative no of times. which means that confidence just
comes with practice.
Practice to lead, Practice to just do the things need to be done.
In the N attempts of practice you will face many failures,
but failure itself is the stepping stone to success

7. It takes time!
Time By Definition:-
An instance or single occasion for some event
An indefinite period (usually marked by specific attributes or activities)
Nothing just happens in a jiffy1
The fruit bearing age of Mango trees is approximately 6-10 years.
Mango Sapling – 19 days old Mango Sapling – 5 Mths old
Grafted and air-layered trees are engineered from branches of mature trees, so the young plant
behaves as a mature plant immediately. Thus, grafted and air-layered trees can be as small as 3 feet tall
and already have fruits on them.
In general grafted trees will begin to produce
in the third year after establishment.
Jiffy (A very short time (as the time it takes the eye to blink or the heart to beat))

8. We get output based on our Input
Input Mango => Output Aamrass!