A group program using Compassion Focused Therapy, adapted from the book CFT Made Easy by Russel Kolts, and The Power of Self Compassion by Mary Welford and the Untethered Soul by Michael Singer
3. This session:
3 Types of emotional systems
1. Driven, excited, vital
2. Contented, safe, connected
3. Anger, Anxiety, Disgust
All are normal, all helped us to survive, we all
have them…
4.
5. The Threat system:
Make us pay attention to threat: things that
might harm us…
Emotions: Anger, fear, anxiety, disguist
Activates powerful bursts of emotion that
activate our survival response:
Fight
Flight
Freeze/submit
6. Threat emotions are pushy…
We have evolved to pay more attention to
threat:
7. Better safe than sorry….
Threat emotions are very efficient (fast and
automatic)
Kept our ancestors alive
Threat based learning can persist very
strongly from one incident (imagine what
happens after repeated incidents??)
9. How?
New brain (ability to think about the future,
worry, create imagery) feeds the initial fear,
keeping it going, sometimes for a lifetime (e.g.
worry and rumination)
When it’s balanced with the other systems, it
can keep us safe
But.. it often takes up more than it’s fair
share of brain space.. Not in balance.
10. The Drive System:
Our ancestors needed to acquire things to survive
and prosper: food, shelter, comfort, mates, social
position
Feelings: Excitement, lust, ambition
Actions: wanting, pursuing, achieving, consuming
Activates Dopamine (related to addiction),
continual pursuit of pleasure rushes…
When balanced, keeps us goal-oriented
11. The Soothing System
Associated with feelings of safeness, calm,
peacefulness, contentment
Associated with experiences of kindness,
affection, acceptance and connectedness
During this state, our attention opens,
becomes reflective, relaxed.
We want to explore, be curious, giving to
others, and social
12. Safeness and Social Connection:
Disrupted attachment histories,
interpersonal trauma causes
closeness to be associated with
threat instead of safety
13.
14. Dilemma?
What do we do when experience has taught
us to fear the very connections that we need
to feel safe?
15. Getting the safeness system
“online”
Different systems “organize the mind” in
different ways:
20. Summary:
The three circles allow us to shift from,
“there’s something wrong with me” to we all
have these feelings because they helped our
ancestors survive
We see that self-attacking continues to
activate the threat system, compassion gets
the safeness system working
21. Homework:
Complete the self-critical vs self compassion
thought record
Catch, Challenge then Change!
Hinweis der Redaktion
Work through an example with the group, a common threat situation (pg 66)
Work through an example with the group, a common threat situation (pg 66)
