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1. Norvegija – Šiaurės pašvaistė 45lessons in life 人生的 45 个教诲 Jan2010 He Yan Music: snowdream

3. 3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone . 3. 人生太短，短到来不及浪费时间去恨任何一个人。 4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch. 4. 生病的时候，你的工作不会照顾你。 你的朋友和父母会。 保持联络。

4. 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 5. 每一个月付清你的信用卡。 6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 6. 你不需要每一次都吵赢。 同意你不同意的。

5. 7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 7. 找人一起哭。 它比独自啜泣更加疗愈。 8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it. 8. 对上帝生气没有关系。 祂受得了。

6. 9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 9. 退休存款从你的第一张薪水条开始。 10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 10. 讲到巧克力，抗拒只是徒劳无功 。

7. 11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 11. 和你的过去和解，它不会搞砸你的当下。 12. It's OK to let your children see you cry. 12. 让你的孩子看到你哭没有关系。

8. 13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 13. 别拿自己的人生和他人做比较。 你根本不清楚他们的人生是怎么一回事。 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 14. 如果一段亲密关系要偷偷摸摸，你根本不应该涉入。

9. 15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks. 15. 一眨眼的功夫什么都会变。 但是别担心 : 上帝从来不眨眼。 16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind. 16. 深吸一口气。 它会安定你的大脑。

10. 17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. 17. 没用的，不美的，或不喜悦的东西都丢掉。 18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. 18. 没让你死的事情，真的会让你更坚强。

11. 19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 19. 重拾快乐童年永不嫌晚。 但这第二次只能靠你不靠人。 20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 20. 当关乎追求你生命的所爱，不要把不要当答案。

12. 21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 21. 点蜡烛，用好的床单，穿上炫丽的内衣。 不要特殊场合才用。 今天就是特别的一天。 22. Over prepare, then go with the flow. 22. 准备要周全，然后随遇而安。

13. 23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 23. 现在就离经叛道。 不要一把年纪了才开始穿上紫色。 24. The most important sex organ is the brain. 24. 最重要的性器官是脑袋。

14. 25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you. 25. 除了你，没有人在主宰你的快乐。 26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ''In five years, will this matter?". 26. 把你所有的不幸用这一句话把它表框起来 :” 五年后，这还重要吗 ?”

15. 27. Always choose life. 27. 永远选择快乐地生活。 28. Forgive everyone everything. 28. 原谅每一个人，每一件事。

16. 29. What other people think of you is none of your business... 29. 别人怎么看你根本不关你的事。 30. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time. 30. 时间会痊愈几乎每一件事。 给时间 , 时间。

17. 31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 31. 无论情况多好或多坏，它都会变的。 32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 32. 不要那么认真的看待自己。 没有人会这样看待你的。

18. 33. Believe in miracles. 33. 相信奇迹。 34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. 34. 上帝爱你是因为祂就是爱你这个人，不是因为你做了什么或是没做什么。

19. 35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now. 35. 不要谨慎地稽查人生。 现在就呈现出你最大的发挥。 36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. 36. 变老了是胜利，它打败了另一种选项 - 死得早。

20. 37. Your children get only one childhood. 37. 你的孩子只有一个童年。 38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. 38. 真正最重要的是你爱过。

21. 39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 39. 每一天都出门。奇迹在四处等着。 40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 40. 如果我们都把我们的问题都丢成一堆，然后看看其它人的 , 我们会把我们的捡回来。

22. 41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. 41. 别忌妒别人浪费时间。 你已经拥有你所需要的了。 42. The best is yet to come. 42. 相信你最好的都还没来。

23. 43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 43. 不管你感觉如何，起来，穿好和呈现。 44. Yield. 44. 善待每一个人。 45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift. 45. 人生最终不会被打上蝴蝶结，但它仍然是一份礼物。

24. It's estimated 93% won't forward this. If you are one of the 7% who will, forward this with the title '7%'. I'm in the 7%. Remember that I will always share my spoon with you! Friends are the family that we choose for ourselves. 大约百分之 93 的人看完而没有转发给其他人。希望你成为百分之 7 的人，看完后转发给他人分享。我是百分之 7 的人之一，总是和你们分享。 朋友是我们自己可以选择的。

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