Children with low self-esteem often have feelings of worthlessness and lack confidence in their own judgment and abilities. This can be caused when children are overprotected and do not learn to make their own decisions for fear of making mistakes, or when they are neglected and get the message that they are not worthy of attention. To build confidence, parents should allow children to make choices and learn from mistakes, avoid labeling them negatively, and promote feelings of acceptance so children feel free to make choices without fear of criticism.