2. What is Forgiveness?
Forgiveness is not an emotion. It is an action that delivers
us from our debilitating, negative emotions. You have to
put forth the effort to get through the process
Forgiveness is a lifestyle. You have to practice it daily,
maybe even hourly. The process never end
Forgiveness is achieved by making a decision in your mind,
sealing the deal with your heart, and then surrendering to
the process
3. Myths of Forgiveness
Forgiveness is not:
Weak
Stupid
Settling
Being soft
Condoning behavior
Removing your offender from their responsibility
Reconciliation
Trust
Conditional
4. Un-forgiveness Truths
When operating in un-forgiveness you are cheating yourself and
everyone around you of the real you
You are cheating yourself out of your purpose
Un-forgiveness has a more negative impact than the actual offense
You make yourself pay price constantly for the pain you’ve experience
Un-forgiveness is self abusive and a liar
Un-forgiveness is a false sense of pride, egotistical
Un-forgiveness keeps in bondage. Heartache, anger and pain
5. So What is the Power of Forgiveness
Forgiveness is taking control of your life, accountable
Forgiveness is maturity,, wisdom, resilience, strength
Forgiveness takes one, you don’t need the your offender in the picture
Forgiveness allows us to confront our issues, instead of coping
Forgiveness allows you to turn you pain into your purpose
Forgiveness tears down the walls you built and to build bridges
6. Forgiveness Facts
You cannot heal from the same level of consciousness as the pain
occurred
You have to go through it in order to get through
It is scary to face the past, the mistakes, the hurt, the anger but even
scarier not to
You have the right to be upset, hurt, disappointed, bitter, enraged but
you have the right to be happy joyful, in peace, sane
Forgiveness kills the silent killer un-forgiveness
Forgiveness breaks generational curses, restores relationships,
beneficial to your health and state of mind/being
8. Let IT Go!!!!!!!!!!!
All of IT!!!
The next time you fight to hold on
to those bags, think about these
things:
• Whatever you hold on to with
tightly closed fist, will
eventually hold on tighter to you
• When you let go of who you are,
you may become who you might
be
• Label your bags, then decide is
it worth holding on to or letting
go