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TheJoyof 7ailure
tX/hatdo you do when a trick doesn't
work?
There'sa scarythought.That'sthemagi-
cian'snightmare,isn'tit? Butmaybeit
shouldn'tbe.Maybe- jwstmaybe- we
shouldfail more.
Let'seaseinto thisslowly.Considera
methodwherementalists(if not magicians)
havesomecomfortlevelwith makinga
mistake:whentheperformerhasto fish
for cluesto determinewhich thing, out
of a smallrangeof options,a volunteeris
thinkingof. On theuideoMindDyD,Max
Mavendiscussesthepainsthat havebeen
takento devisewaysof doingthissothat
theperformeravoidsany "No" answers,a
questhecalls"an exercisein futility":
I don'tthink there'sanythingwrong
with gettinga "No" responsewhenyou
arepumpinginformation,becausethe
wholeideahereisthat youaretryingto
getinformationfrom someone'smind.
And that is,at leastin theory,not a sirnple
task.Becauseif it was,you'diusttossit
backto themimmediately.If you'retrying
to pull out thissortof vagueandintan-
gibleinformation,stepbystep,thenit
makessensethatyou'dstumblea litle bit
alongtheway.That'swhatmakesit excit-
ing.Whenatightropewalkerisgoing
acrossandstumbleshalfway,that'smuch
moreexciting.And evenif tightrope
walkersarecapableof walkingacrossthe
ropewithoutamiss,they'restillgoing
to giveyoutheimpressionthat theyare
aboutto fall, becausethat'swhatkeeps
theinterestandthetensionforemost
in theaudience'smindandkeepsthem
involved.SoI thinkactuallyhavingno
.l{osisnot necessarilyagoodthing.
Laterin the video,Max goesfurther:
"I think the negativeanswershereactu-
2 0 M A G r C l u L Y 2 O r 3
ally makethis better;it givesit a dra-
maticbuild."
If we canacceptthat theoccasional
smallmistakecanheightenthedramaof
theperformance,is it possiblethat a bigger
mistakecouldhavesomebenefitaswell?
Andy Nymanhasa storyabouta per-
formancethat wentterriblywrong,a tale
herecountedfor BenCummrngs'Conuer-
sationswith Mind Readers.ltwasAndy's
veryfirsthigh-payinggig,a prenuptial
partyat a champagnebar beforealarge,
wealthyfamily.During a performanceof
Heart & Stone,helosttrackof thecorrect
envelope.Try ashemight,hecouldn'tfind
it. Soheguessed:
I openit up andit's wrong.It's
completelywrong.It's thewrong-
estit could be.Wenow haveopened
all theenvelopesandit'sthelast.I
couldn'thavegottenit morewrong.
There'sthis horriblesilence.Then
thepatriarchof the familg this very
smartlooking75- or 80-year-oldman
goes,"Thar hascompletelyf---edme
up. I justdon'tknow what to think!
il/hywould we bepayingyou a lot
of moneyfor you to comeand stand
hereand die like that in front of us
if thiswasn'treal?I justthoughtthis
wastricks.Thismustbereal!" At
whichpoint,someoneelsesays"Me,
too! I justdon'tknow what to think
anymore."Well,from that moment
on,I couldhavedoneDippyDuck
andthey'dhavebeenoverthemoon.
"lnterestingr"a magicianmight answer,
"That may bewell andgoodfor mentalism,
but it justdoesn'tapplyro magic!"
Oh no?On hisexcellentCardopolis
blog,DavidBritlandtellsthestoryof a
seeminglyimpossiblebut failedtrick that
BobbyBernarddid for him at a maqiccon-
ventionoverthirty yearsearlier:
Had I seena nearmiracleor a
fluke?Bobbydid assuremethat the
effectusuallyworked,that hehadper-
formedit successfullymanytimes,and
hada stackof noteson theworkings
of PrincipleX at home.But hedidn't
repeatthetrick. I wasremindedof a
satiricalessayin JonRacherbaumer's
Hierophant that advisedif you want
to fry your fellowmagicians,attempt
a trick that cannotpossiblywork.
They'll spendweekstrying to figure
out what mighthavehappenedif all
hadgoneright.Despitemy reserva-
tions,I did spenda longtimethinking
abouthow Bobby'sPrincipleX might
work. StephenTuckerandI discussed
all kindsof methods.
And all thisfor a trick that failed!
Of course,manyof ushavehadexperi-
encesin which a trick screwedup and for
somestrangereasonit didn't makeour
reputation.What'swith that?/Couldthere
besomerulesat work here?Is it possible
that thereis "a correctway to fail"?
I think so.And to find theseelusiveprin-
ciples,let'smakea detourinto thenarrative
arts.In film, plays,novels,andtelevision,
heroesdon't succeedall thetime.There
arestrugglesandfailures- sometimesa
lot of failures.In a typicalepisodeof the
TV showHouse,how manytimesdoesDr.
Housetry andfail to curesomeonebefore
ultimatelyfindingsuccess?And he'ssup-
posedto bea genius!
But evenwith lesserror-proneheroes,
thereis oftena momentwhenfirilureseems
soinevitablethatyoudoubrr-icrorr-iseven
possible."lt's likein thegrearsrories,"Sam
saysin TbeFellowshipof the Rin,q."The
I'
)nesthat reallymattered.Full of darkness
:nd danger,theywere.And sometimesyou
iidn't want to know theend.Becausehow
;ould theendbehappy?How couldthe
,i'orldgo backto theway it waswhenso
:ruchbadhadhappened?"
Failureis an essentialingredientin Hol-
.r.s'oodmovies,codifiedin thenear-oblig-
irory "dark moment"betweenthesecond
:nd third act,wheneverythingseemsbleak-
rst - which only intensifiesthe audience's
:nvolvementin thehero'sultimatevictory
:n actthree.
ConsiderTheAuengers.At the endof
.rcttwo, theteamis scattered,the helicar-
:ier nearlydestroyed,agentPhil Colsonis
Jead,andthetwo peoplewho reallycared
rbout him, Tony Stark
.rnd Captain America,
s'eren't able to do a
:hing about it. Bruce
Banner has failed to
;ontrolhisrage,Hawk-
.).e feels awful about
retrayingtheteam(and
:re looks like crap),
BlackWidow hasfailed
:o face her fear (the
Hulk) or her feelings
for Hawkeye), Thor
ras been easily out-
smartedby his brother,
rnd the teamhascom-
pletelyfailedin theonly
rvo jobstheyhad:hang
t)nto Loki andfind the
Tesseract.And they're
=@$%ingsuperheroes!
Let'sdetoura little further,out of
:heartsandinto science.And why not?
lentalistsoftenframetheireffectsas
rrperiments,and experimentsarenot win/
,osepropositions.MichelsonandMorley
:houghtthey'dfailedwhentheirexperi-
:rentsshowedthat the speedof lightwas
-iis'avsthesame,no matterif it wasmea-
.rred with themovementof theEarthor
.iqainstit. It took Einsteinto sayno, this
:,rilurewasin facta greatsuccessthat
rrinted theway to Relativityanda new
:rderstandingof theudiverse.
As it is in art and science,soit seems
:,r bewith everythingelse:"Do not fear
:rrstakes.You will know failure.Continue
:rrrexchout," wroteBenjaminFranklin.
-tany
of life'sfailuresarepeoplewho
;rJ not reahzehow closetheywereto suc-
.essrvhentheygaveup," notedThomas
F.Jison.And AbrahamLincolnsaid,"My
i:eat concernis not whetheryou have
failed,but whetheryou arecontentwith
your failure."
In the artsand sciences,and life itself,it
seemsthe only realfailureis to giveup.
Sowhy arewe magiciansand mentalists
soafraid of failure,evenin the controlled
andcontrivedway of a fakedmisstepby a
tightropewalker?
I think it betraysa certainway of think-
ing:theideathat a magicshowis a compe-
tition betweenmagicianand audience,with
themtrying to figureit out and ustrying to
fool them.No doubtaboutit, that'spart of
theexperienceof a magicshow.But I seein
manyof the greatestmagiciansa tendency
to try to escapethis dynamicandfind
somethingmoreprofound.Audienceshave
a greatetcapacltyto
besweptawayand
suspendtheir disbelief
than to try to figure
out how trickswork,
which is why we can
happilywatch the
magicin a three-hour
Harry Pottermovie
while an hour of
mind-blowing"how'd
hedo that?" effects
canbeexhausting.
I believethat fail-
urein a magicor men-
tal routine,handled
well, is potentiallyone
of our mostpower-
ful dramaticdevices.
First.it is an actof
generositytoward your audience- you
allow themto seeyou asvulnerable,imper-
fect,andhuman.Failuremakesyou relat-
able,andhandlingthe failurewell makes
you likeable.
How do you handlefailurewell?The
sameway a characterin a moviemight.
First,allow yourselfto feelthedisappoint-
mentof theloss.Instinctively,we like
characterswho arevulnerable,andour
heartsgo out to thosesufferingpain,loss,
or humiliation,especiallywhenundeserved.
(Conversely,we distrustthosewho seem
imperviousto suffering.)But painmustbe
bornewith graceandwithout complaining,
self-pity,or blamingothers.Weadmirethose
who worry aboutothersin theirmoment
of loss- soworry moreaboutyour volun-
teer'sfeelingsandtakethetimeto makesure
theydon't think theyhavefailedin anyway.
Acceptall theblameyourself.
But thething we admiremostof all in a
characterisperseverance.You keepgoing.
Own thefailurebut - andthis is essential-
do not let it stopyou! Here'stherestof Sam's
speechon darknessandfailurefromFellow-
shipof the Ring:"But in theend,it'sonly a
passingthing,thisshadow.Evendarkness
mustpass.A newdaywill come.And when
thesunshines,it will shineout theclearer.
Thosewerethestoriesthat stayedwith you,
that meantsomething,evenif you weretoo
smallto understandwhy.But I think, Mr.
Frodo,l do understand.I know now.Folk in
thosestorieshadlotsof chancesof turning
back,onlytheydidn't.Theykeptgoing."
A herodoesnot giveup. Yes,hefails
andhe suffers,but heusesthis failureas
fuel- hegainsinsightfrom it. He refuses
to giveup. And thenherisesup and suc-
ceedsin theend.
A heroacceptsfailure.He doesnot
acceptdefeat.In fact,heis willing to face
an evenbiggerchallenge.lnThe Auengers,
whentheteamis defeatedby Loki and a
smallshipof henchmen,theygo on to face
not justLoki, but an entirearmyof Chi-
tauri! On flyingscooters!And a bunchof
hugearmoredflyingwhalethings!
Soif you fail, you try again.And You
try bigger.
To givea specificexampleof how this
might work in a mentalismshow,I'll
relatean effectthat wassharedwith me
by BenCummings.He endshis actwith
a three-phasebook testroutine,starting
with The Mother of All Book Testsand
endingwith my own theTossedOut Book
Test(whichis why he sharedthis with
me).But it's his secondphasethat I want
to talk abouthere,andyou'll readilysee
how this strategycanbeappliedto other
situations.His secondphaseis this:he
doesa book testwith an ungaffedbook,
the strictestconditions,and absolutely
no methodJIt's designedto fail, andfail
big! But it failsat just theright moment
in his routine:long afterhehascreateda
rapport and establishedhis skill - pretty
muchexactlywhereyou'd find the "dark
moment" in a movie,iust beforethe final
challenge,settingup the big finish.He tells
me that whenhethengoesinto theTossed
Out Book Test,in which he facesthe even
longeroddsof readingfivemindsat once'
it just slaysthem.
Gracein failure.Disappointmentwith-
out self-pity.Acceptanceand learningfrom
mistakes.Perseverancein thefaceof an
evengreaterchallenge.This is what gives
the final victory meaning.This transforms
a simplevictory into redemption,which is
themostpowerful story of all.M
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The joy of failure (philpott)

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  • 2. viewpoint C H R I S P H I L P O T T TheJoyof 7ailure tX/hatdo you do when a trick doesn't work? There'sa scarythought.That'sthemagi- cian'snightmare,isn'tit? Butmaybeit shouldn'tbe.Maybe- jwstmaybe- we shouldfail more. Let'seaseinto thisslowly.Considera methodwherementalists(if not magicians) havesomecomfortlevelwith makinga mistake:whentheperformerhasto fish for cluesto determinewhich thing, out of a smallrangeof options,a volunteeris thinkingof. On theuideoMindDyD,Max Mavendiscussesthepainsthat havebeen takento devisewaysof doingthissothat theperformeravoidsany "No" answers,a questhecalls"an exercisein futility": I don'tthink there'sanythingwrong with gettinga "No" responsewhenyou arepumpinginformation,becausethe wholeideahereisthat youaretryingto getinformationfrom someone'smind. And that is,at leastin theory,not a sirnple task.Becauseif it was,you'diusttossit backto themimmediately.If you'retrying to pull out thissortof vagueandintan- gibleinformation,stepbystep,thenit makessensethatyou'dstumblea litle bit alongtheway.That'swhatmakesit excit- ing.Whenatightropewalkerisgoing acrossandstumbleshalfway,that'smuch moreexciting.And evenif tightrope walkersarecapableof walkingacrossthe ropewithoutamiss,they'restillgoing to giveyoutheimpressionthat theyare aboutto fall, becausethat'swhatkeeps theinterestandthetensionforemost in theaudience'smindandkeepsthem involved.SoI thinkactuallyhavingno .l{osisnot necessarilyagoodthing. Laterin the video,Max goesfurther: "I think the negativeanswershereactu- 2 0 M A G r C l u L Y 2 O r 3 ally makethis better;it givesit a dra- maticbuild." If we canacceptthat theoccasional smallmistakecanheightenthedramaof theperformance,is it possiblethat a bigger mistakecouldhavesomebenefitaswell? Andy Nymanhasa storyabouta per- formancethat wentterriblywrong,a tale herecountedfor BenCummrngs'Conuer- sationswith Mind Readers.ltwasAndy's veryfirsthigh-payinggig,a prenuptial partyat a champagnebar beforealarge, wealthyfamily.During a performanceof Heart & Stone,helosttrackof thecorrect envelope.Try ashemight,hecouldn'tfind it. Soheguessed: I openit up andit's wrong.It's completelywrong.It's thewrong- estit could be.Wenow haveopened all theenvelopesandit'sthelast.I couldn'thavegottenit morewrong. There'sthis horriblesilence.Then thepatriarchof the familg this very smartlooking75- or 80-year-oldman goes,"Thar hascompletelyf---edme up. I justdon'tknow what to think! il/hywould we bepayingyou a lot of moneyfor you to comeand stand hereand die like that in front of us if thiswasn'treal?I justthoughtthis wastricks.Thismustbereal!" At whichpoint,someoneelsesays"Me, too! I justdon'tknow what to think anymore."Well,from that moment on,I couldhavedoneDippyDuck andthey'dhavebeenoverthemoon. "lnterestingr"a magicianmight answer, "That may bewell andgoodfor mentalism, but it justdoesn'tapplyro magic!" Oh no?On hisexcellentCardopolis blog,DavidBritlandtellsthestoryof a seeminglyimpossiblebut failedtrick that BobbyBernarddid for him at a maqiccon- ventionoverthirty yearsearlier: Had I seena nearmiracleor a fluke?Bobbydid assuremethat the effectusuallyworked,that hehadper- formedit successfullymanytimes,and hada stackof noteson theworkings of PrincipleX at home.But hedidn't repeatthetrick. I wasremindedof a satiricalessayin JonRacherbaumer's Hierophant that advisedif you want to fry your fellowmagicians,attempt a trick that cannotpossiblywork. They'll spendweekstrying to figure out what mighthavehappenedif all hadgoneright.Despitemy reserva- tions,I did spenda longtimethinking abouthow Bobby'sPrincipleX might work. StephenTuckerandI discussed all kindsof methods. And all thisfor a trick that failed! Of course,manyof ushavehadexperi- encesin which a trick screwedup and for somestrangereasonit didn't makeour reputation.What'swith that?/Couldthere besomerulesat work here?Is it possible that thereis "a correctway to fail"? I think so.And to find theseelusiveprin- ciples,let'smakea detourinto thenarrative arts.In film, plays,novels,andtelevision, heroesdon't succeedall thetime.There arestrugglesandfailures- sometimesa lot of failures.In a typicalepisodeof the TV showHouse,how manytimesdoesDr. Housetry andfail to curesomeonebefore ultimatelyfindingsuccess?And he'ssup- posedto bea genius! But evenwith lesserror-proneheroes, thereis oftena momentwhenfirilureseems soinevitablethatyoudoubrr-icrorr-iseven possible."lt's likein thegrearsrories,"Sam saysin TbeFellowshipof the Rin,q."The
  • 3. I' )nesthat reallymattered.Full of darkness :nd danger,theywere.And sometimesyou iidn't want to know theend.Becausehow ;ould theendbehappy?How couldthe ,i'orldgo backto theway it waswhenso :ruchbadhadhappened?" Failureis an essentialingredientin Hol- .r.s'oodmovies,codifiedin thenear-oblig- irory "dark moment"betweenthesecond :nd third act,wheneverythingseemsbleak- rst - which only intensifiesthe audience's :nvolvementin thehero'sultimatevictory :n actthree. ConsiderTheAuengers.At the endof .rcttwo, theteamis scattered,the helicar- :ier nearlydestroyed,agentPhil Colsonis Jead,andthetwo peoplewho reallycared rbout him, Tony Stark .rnd Captain America, s'eren't able to do a :hing about it. Bruce Banner has failed to ;ontrolhisrage,Hawk- .).e feels awful about retrayingtheteam(and :re looks like crap), BlackWidow hasfailed :o face her fear (the Hulk) or her feelings for Hawkeye), Thor ras been easily out- smartedby his brother, rnd the teamhascom- pletelyfailedin theonly rvo jobstheyhad:hang t)nto Loki andfind the Tesseract.And they're =@$%ingsuperheroes! Let'sdetoura little further,out of :heartsandinto science.And why not? lentalistsoftenframetheireffectsas rrperiments,and experimentsarenot win/ ,osepropositions.MichelsonandMorley :houghtthey'dfailedwhentheirexperi- :rentsshowedthat the speedof lightwas -iis'avsthesame,no matterif it wasmea- .rred with themovementof theEarthor .iqainstit. It took Einsteinto sayno, this :,rilurewasin facta greatsuccessthat rrinted theway to Relativityanda new :rderstandingof theudiverse. As it is in art and science,soit seems :,r bewith everythingelse:"Do not fear :rrstakes.You will know failure.Continue :rrrexchout," wroteBenjaminFranklin. -tany of life'sfailuresarepeoplewho ;rJ not reahzehow closetheywereto suc- .essrvhentheygaveup," notedThomas F.Jison.And AbrahamLincolnsaid,"My i:eat concernis not whetheryou have failed,but whetheryou arecontentwith your failure." In the artsand sciences,and life itself,it seemsthe only realfailureis to giveup. Sowhy arewe magiciansand mentalists soafraid of failure,evenin the controlled andcontrivedway of a fakedmisstepby a tightropewalker? I think it betraysa certainway of think- ing:theideathat a magicshowis a compe- tition betweenmagicianand audience,with themtrying to figureit out and ustrying to fool them.No doubtaboutit, that'spart of theexperienceof a magicshow.But I seein manyof the greatestmagiciansa tendency to try to escapethis dynamicandfind somethingmoreprofound.Audienceshave a greatetcapacltyto besweptawayand suspendtheir disbelief than to try to figure out how trickswork, which is why we can happilywatch the magicin a three-hour Harry Pottermovie while an hour of mind-blowing"how'd hedo that?" effects canbeexhausting. I believethat fail- urein a magicor men- tal routine,handled well, is potentiallyone of our mostpower- ful dramaticdevices. First.it is an actof generositytoward your audience- you allow themto seeyou asvulnerable,imper- fect,andhuman.Failuremakesyou relat- able,andhandlingthe failurewell makes you likeable. How do you handlefailurewell?The sameway a characterin a moviemight. First,allow yourselfto feelthedisappoint- mentof theloss.Instinctively,we like characterswho arevulnerable,andour heartsgo out to thosesufferingpain,loss, or humiliation,especiallywhenundeserved. (Conversely,we distrustthosewho seem imperviousto suffering.)But painmustbe bornewith graceandwithout complaining, self-pity,or blamingothers.Weadmirethose who worry aboutothersin theirmoment of loss- soworry moreaboutyour volun- teer'sfeelingsandtakethetimeto makesure theydon't think theyhavefailedin anyway. Acceptall theblameyourself. But thething we admiremostof all in a characterisperseverance.You keepgoing. Own thefailurebut - andthis is essential- do not let it stopyou! Here'stherestof Sam's speechon darknessandfailurefromFellow- shipof the Ring:"But in theend,it'sonly a passingthing,thisshadow.Evendarkness mustpass.A newdaywill come.And when thesunshines,it will shineout theclearer. Thosewerethestoriesthat stayedwith you, that meantsomething,evenif you weretoo smallto understandwhy.But I think, Mr. Frodo,l do understand.I know now.Folk in thosestorieshadlotsof chancesof turning back,onlytheydidn't.Theykeptgoing." A herodoesnot giveup. Yes,hefails andhe suffers,but heusesthis failureas fuel- hegainsinsightfrom it. He refuses to giveup. And thenherisesup and suc- ceedsin theend. A heroacceptsfailure.He doesnot acceptdefeat.In fact,heis willing to face an evenbiggerchallenge.lnThe Auengers, whentheteamis defeatedby Loki and a smallshipof henchmen,theygo on to face not justLoki, but an entirearmyof Chi- tauri! On flyingscooters!And a bunchof hugearmoredflyingwhalethings! Soif you fail, you try again.And You try bigger. To givea specificexampleof how this might work in a mentalismshow,I'll relatean effectthat wassharedwith me by BenCummings.He endshis actwith a three-phasebook testroutine,starting with The Mother of All Book Testsand endingwith my own theTossedOut Book Test(whichis why he sharedthis with me).But it's his secondphasethat I want to talk abouthere,andyou'll readilysee how this strategycanbeappliedto other situations.His secondphaseis this:he doesa book testwith an ungaffedbook, the strictestconditions,and absolutely no methodJIt's designedto fail, andfail big! But it failsat just theright moment in his routine:long afterhehascreateda rapport and establishedhis skill - pretty muchexactlywhereyou'd find the "dark moment" in a movie,iust beforethe final challenge,settingup the big finish.He tells me that whenhethengoesinto theTossed Out Book Test,in which he facesthe even longeroddsof readingfivemindsat once' it just slaysthem. Gracein failure.Disappointmentwith- out self-pity.Acceptanceand learningfrom mistakes.Perseverancein thefaceof an evengreaterchallenge.This is what gives the final victory meaning.This transforms a simplevictory into redemption,which is themostpowerful story of all.M M A G I C I U L Y 2 0 1 ' 3 2 1