The document discusses seeing the positive side of everyday situations and challenges. It provides examples of being grateful for things like a husband's snoring meaning he is home, a teenager complaining about chores meaning she is safe at home, and paying taxes meaning having a good job. It also discusses the benefits of smiling, how a smile can positively impact relationships and perceptions. Finally, it contrasts the mindsets of winners versus losers, how winners see opportunities while losers see obstacles, and winners are solution-oriented while losers focus on problems.

1. the beauty of being
P o s i t i v e
mm bagali
sanbag@rediffmail.com

2. for the husband who snores all
night, because he is at home
asleep with me and not with
someone else

3. for my teenage daughter who is
complaining about doing dishes,
because that means she is at
home & not on the streets

4. for the taxes that I / U pay because
it means that I am employed
handsomely

5. for the mess to clean after a party
because it means that friends
have surrounded me, and I also
have a room of my own

6. for the clothes that fit a little too
snug because it means I have
enough to eat

7. for my shadow that watches me
work because it means I am out in
the sunshine, and capable of
working under sun

8. for a floor that needs mopping,
and windows that need cleaning
because it means I have a home

9. for all the complaining I hear about the
government because it means that we
have freedom of speech, freedom of
expression

10. for the parking spot I find at the far
end of the parking lot because it
means I am capable of walking
and that I have been blessed with
transportation

11. for the noise I have to bear from
my neighbors because it means
that I can hear

12. for the pile of laundry and ironing
because it means I have clothes to
wear, and can afford to pay

13. for weariness and aching muscles
at the end of the day because it
means I have been capable of
working hard, a job to work

14. each time I pass to market, the
gate closes for the train, it means
economic activity is in progress

15. for that fast and heavy rain, it
implies that I am fortunate to have
rain

16. a time when u fail, it signifies that
u r fortunate enough to have
admission

17. for the alarm that goes off in the
early morning hours because it
means that I am still alive

18. benefitsofsmile

19. Smile shows friendship
Smile make new friends
Smile makes other people's day brighter
Smile improves your quality day
Smile looks better than a frown

20. Smile puts others at ease
Smile is always enjoyable to give and
receive
Smile leaves favorable impressions
Smile makes you look happy, confident,
self-assured
Smile could be the start of a lifetime
relationship

21. a smile is sign of good
p e r s o n a l i t y

22. Hay … how r winner v/s loser
Winners see the grains;
Losers see the pain
Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past
Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen
Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems

23. Winners have dreams;
Losers have schemes
Winners makes commitments;
Losers makes promises
Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team

24. Winners believe in win/win;
Loser believe for them to win, someone has
to lose
Winner says "It may be difficult but it is
possible";
Loser says "It may be possible but it is too
difficult"
Winner makes a mistake. he says "I was
wrong";
Loser makes a mistake, he says "It wasn't
my fault"

25. Winner always has a programmed
Loser always has an excuse
Winner says "Let me do it for you";
Loser says "That is not my job“
Winners say "I must do
something";
Losers say "Something must be
done

26. Winner is always a part of the
answer;
Loser is always a part of the
problem.
Winner sees an answer for every
problem;
Loser sees a problem for every
answer

27. mm.bagali@jainuniversity.ac.in