1. I Want To Get Married Now
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Maria asks…
How can I convince my boyfriend that I don’t want to get married
right now!?
Me and my boyfriend have just got engaged which I am over the moon about, and he is, but he
is like I don’t want to get married now, and I said neither do I, and he thinks I am just going to
start planning everything like tomorrow, what can I do to convince him I don’t want to get
married for a long while, and being engaged to him is a celebration of our love, and we will get
married in the future, I think he is getting scared.
to the second answer, I don’t want to get married right now! I have college and stuff to think
about, I really want to get engaged but I don’t want to get married like now if you read the
question right, and I want him to understand that and not think I am going to start booking
places tomorrow.
What the hell is everyone talking about, I live with my boyfriend, I am at college in my home
town and I‘m not from America, we have been together over a year and I am 21 lol
Blissful Relationship answers:
To keep it simple, I’d decide on a timeline with him. For example, “let’s get married the
summer after I graduate. We’ve got lots of time so I probably won’t start any planning until a
year before then.”
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2. My husband and I wanted to get married as soon as possible. For us it was like the line from
“When Harry Met Sally”. “When you know you want to spend the rest of your life with
someone, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” But we were both in our
30s and didn’t have anything like education standing in our way.
Just agree with him on a general date and set aside the marriage talk for now. I would bet you’ll
have a hard time not looking at magazines or dresses but if you catch yourself showing him
something or talking about wedding plans, make sure to reference your agreement that its
something that’s 4 years or whatever down the road.
Jenny asks…
I really want to get married right now, but my parents will flip cuz
Im only 20. What should I do?
I want to get married now, but my parents don’t like my boyfriend because he may be the
father of another girls baby. They were together before we got together so it really doesn’t
bother me like it does them. They have been supportive of past boyfriends, but dislike the one
that actually treats me perfect. I don’t know what to do. I love him more than anything, I just
don’t know how or if I want to tell my parents about possibly getting married.
Blissful Relationship answers:
I don’t really see any reason to rush. Marriage is just a title, afterall…I was with my guy for six
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3. years before we tied the knot…we started dating at 19 and just got married now (age 25).
What’s the difference? He’s there for the long-term regardless of the title.
As to him possibly having a child–its a test of his character if he does the necessary paternity
testing to find out for certain and if yes…then to take responsibility.
Laura asks…
what should i do i actually want to get married now?
i love my boyfriend i always have even before we got together. im freaking out now because
before these past couple days ive never even wanted to get married or have kids but now with
him i do want the whole married with kids thing.
Blissful Relationship answers:
That’s nice
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4. Carol asks…
Is it terrible that I want to get married now instead of waiting until I
graduate from college?
My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 years now and we’ve talked about
getting married. He just graduated from college and has begun working full time. I don’t
graduate for another year and a half. I am ready to settle down and begin the next part of my
life. I don’t really have the nerve to talk to my boyfriend about it. All of my friends are getting
married and it seems like everyone is pregnant. I feel that I am ready to get married and start
a family. WHAT SHOULD I DO???
Blissful Relationship answers:
That is the same situation i am in sort of…i am 2 years away from graduation and getting married
next summer. The best advice i can give you is what my dad told me. That is to do what makes
me happiest but not to forget all of the things i want to accomplish. My fiance supports me and
wants me to finish school so i think getting married before i graduate will give me more
motivation to finish! Good luck
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5. Lizzie asks…
I married a fillipino girl, and now I want to immigrate there?
I meet the on a dating site I visited her and we got married, now I wish to live there how do I go
about it.
What I mean to say is I want to marry her but how do I go about locating there to be with her
Blissful Relationship answers:
Did you really, legally get married? Did you come here with all the papers you needed and go to
your Embassy and get the papers from them that you (MUST) have in order to get legally
married?
Did you get the paper work and police clearance for her that you (MUST) have to legally get
married?
Did you file and wait your 10 days for your marriage lic.?
Who married you? Was it a Pastor (non-Catholic) if so was he ordained and legally registered
able to perform weddings in the Philippines? (alot of them are not)
If you want to live here did you talk to your (wife) first about that before you got married? If not
and you do move here you may find a complete different person than the one you married, as
she may have had plans to go to the States (or wherever you are from).
How old are you? Do you have a pension or other steady income? If not how in the world do
you plan to live here?
If you are an American or Britt odds are you will never find a job and if you do are you happy
working for $2.00 a day?
If you plan to work here, do you speak the language? Yes many Filipino speak some English
but if you are going to be working and be around them in a business atmosphere you better
know how to talk to them in their own dialect.
If you are married and you do want to live here, bring all your papers that you think you might
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6. even need or want…..along with proof of income and have your wife file a (13A) visa for you.
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