In this presentation we will examine how you can find your true core identity.

1. Have you already identified the desires
of your core identity?
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2. Your true core identity
In this article, we will
examine how you can find your
true core identity.
In the previous article, I clarified
that the core identity is the part
of your personality that contains
your true self, the feelings and
desires that really motivate you.
You know, the big problem of material goals is that they are
always illusory. Why is that? If you think about it, you will
realize this: when you purchase a new home it is not the tons
of new bricks and windows that you want, but the feeling the
new house will give you.
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3. The ultimate goal
The house is not essential, but the new life that
you will experience with the help of the house.
Essentially, you do not buy a house, but a feeling. I
think this refers to all things in the world.
New car, lots of money, traveling - each of these is
used to generate good feelings. We do it because it
evokes feelings, hopefully positive feelings. That is,
the ultimate goal is evoking feelings in each case.
We want to feel, we want to live, we want to
experience. Life is nothing else than a constantly
flowing stream of experiences and feelings.
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4. Just feel emptiness
Many people fall into the trap
of chasing a goal for many
years, and when they reach it,
they just feel emptiness.
The achievement of the goal is followed by burnout, as it did
not give real feelings, it was just an illusion, or it did not give
the feelings related to the core identity.
Your core identity needs experiences and feelings, not
objects and targets. If your shell and core identities work in
harmony with each other, you can live a full and harmonious
life.
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5. How can you find your true
core identity?
There is a very-very simple exercise for this. Although the task is
simple, it is a little time consuming.
You have to be honest with yourself and you must dedicate the
time for it.
The task is the following:
Imagine what the perfect day would be for you. Imagine an
average day, a day that you would live every day - if you could. We
think in days because life is the summary of the experiences make
during our days.
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6. How can you find your true
core identity?
The smallest component is a day and the feelings experienced intraday.
Imagine that there are no limits, neither financial nor geographical, nor
health-related. What would a completely unrestricted day look like?
In other words, what would the day that you compulsorily ought to live
every day look like? Plan the day so that even if you were forced to do it,
you would still be happy doing it every single day.
So the question is the following:
If there would be no limits and consequences, what would be the
ideal/perfect day for you that you could live every day until the end of
your life?
Sit in a chair with a notebook, get yourself a nice cup of tea and meditate
on your ideal day. There are no limits, just write out of yourself what you
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7. How can you find your true
core identity?
The following questions may lead you:
-> When would you get up?
-> What would you eat that day?
-> Who would be around you?
-> What would you do during the day?
-> Where would you live and with whom?
-> Where would you spend the evening and with whom?
-> What thoughts would you have?
-> How would you feel about yourself during the day?
-> Who would be your friends?
-> What would you talk about with your friends?
-> What sports would you play?
-> In what activities would you accomplish yourself?
-> What would make you happy?
-> What would be the highlight of the day?
-> What would be the purpose, the sense of your life?
-> How would your relationship with your partner be?
-> What would you like in your partner and what would your partner like
in you?
-> What would be the last thing you would think about at the end of the
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8. How can you find your true
core identity?
It is important that you do not
write down the things you want to
own, but the feelings.
As it is about the ideal day, look
for the feelings and experiences
that you would live every single
day.
Do not think of the tangible assets, think about the feelings and
experiences, your life is about these and not about objects.
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9. How can you find your true
core identity?
Answering the above questions, you will get closer to the
identity who you really want to be.
In the previous article, I outlined the general desires of the
core identity. In addition, you can determine
your specific core identity desires with the help of this
exercise.
If you got clear about your real desires, you will also receive
an answer to the question whether the stock market is the
right path for you.
Or is the stock market just a tool to achieve a higher purpose?
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10. How can you find your true
core identity?
You can be really happy if you
live according to the desires of
your core identity. The shell
cannot bring break through,
only temporary illusory
happiness.
So it is worth spending some time on this to ponder
about what you really want.
Only a few people take a break to think about it these days.
We pursue superficial things, money, objects, etc. When we
reached these goals, we are surprised because of the
emptiness. At least you already know how to avoid this.
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11. How can you find your true
core identity?
Find out the desires of your
core identity and start to live
according to them.
And last but not least, answer
the following question:
What kind of new life (experiences, feelings) do you desire that
the stock market might help you to achieve?
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12. Feel free to ask me!
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