Ever wonder why a girl doesn't text back?
It used to happen to me all the time. You'd get
into long text conversations and you feel like she's
giving you more and more signals that she likes you...
And then POOF, the girl stops texting you back... which
leaves you wondering...
Did I do something wrong?
Did some other guy catch her attention?
What's going on here?!
This presentation gives you 5 simple reasons a girl won't text you back. They are called the 5 toxic texting mistakes that kill attraction with a girl... and you need to stop them right now.
2. Mistake #1: Revealing Your Feelings Too Soon
"Hey I think I'm starting to really like you“
This is a BIG no-no… and it might be pretty obvious, but if
you send her this kind of text, you will shortly get the "let's
just be friends" talk.
3. A (less obvious) variation: "had a great time with
you last night, can't wait to see you again!"
This isn't as obvious as the previous text, but if you
send this to a girl too early in the relationship or
"talking" phase, she's going to sense that you're too
“HUNGRY” and it will push her away.
4. Mistake #2: Sending The “Checking in” “Nice
Guy" Text
"hey how's your day going?"
or
“I hope you’re having a great weekend!”
These are the type of texts that have no purpose...
other than to seek an "instant hit" of validation when
she responds.
5. You might send this text when you keep
thinking about a girl and you feel the urge to
"check in" with her
However… whenever the girl picks up her
phone and reads a text that doesn't strike
emotions in her, it only lowers her intrigue for
you…
6. Mistake #3: Being too Available For Her
Remember This: Those Who Look Hungry,
NEVER Get Fed
In other words, don't jump at every opportunity you
have to be available to her.
For example, you're out with your friends having fun
on a Friday night. The girl you really like texts you
"what are you doing?”
And then…
7. You naturally get excited and say to yourself "this is
my big chance!"
...so you agree to drop what you're doing and
respond to her message RIGHT AWAY, or you even
leave your friends to go hang out with HER.
This is a big mistake guys make... which I've done
plenty of times in the past…
And here’s why…
8. When a girl sends you “what are you doing?” on a
Friday night, what she really is doing is TESTING
YOU.
And she is wondering the following:
- How much does this guy like me?
- How quickly will he reply?
- Will he leave his friends and go hang out with me
on a Friday night?
9. If you fail her test and do whatever she wants, what
you're really saying is:
"I'm not doing anything as important as talking to you"
And once you suggest to a girl (who isn’t your girlfriend)
… that she is too important to you… she senses that
you have her on a PEDESTAL, and her attraction for
you PLUMMETS.
10. Mistake #4: The “Trap” of Getting into Long Text
Conversations
This is a HUGE mistake almost all guys have fallen into.
They get into LONG, drawn out conversations with a
girl... and slowly… but surely… they text themselves into
the FRIEND ZONE.
And let me tell you why…
11. See, when you’re texting a girl, and you’re not
ESCALATING towards the next step… too much rapport
will build up and sexual tension will EVAPORATE.
So always escalate towards the next step of getting a
girl out.
Your goal in texting should be simple: Trigger her
emotions, propose a meet-up, and get her out.
12. Mistake #5 Not Knowing How to Trigger Her
Emotions
In the previous slides of this presentation… you probably
read that you NEED to trigger a girl’s emotions if you want to
get her interested in you…
Let me tell you a bit on how to do that…
13. Remember this… EMOTIONS = ATTENTION
So when you spark a girl’s (or anybody’s) emotions,
you catch her attention… and she suddenly has
YOU in her mind.
Girl doesn’t text back? Well, catch her attention
enough, and she WILL text you back!
(By the way, this is the underlying principle of my
3 hook texts to text her back FREE cheat sheet)
14. Some examples of emotions you can create on a
girl… to catch her attention... are
Laughter, Excitement, Curiosity, Suspense, and
even some mild ANGER.
15. If a girl doesn’t text back, it is an extremely powerful tactic to
use an EMOTION CREATING TEXT that COMPELS her to
text you back…
Specifically, a CURIOSITY-creating text will do the trick
(remember, curiosity is one of the emotions)
So I went on and created a PDF “cheat sheet” for you called
the 3 types of hook texts to get her to text back…
How to Make a Girl Text You Back
16. 3 Types of Hook Texts That Get Her to
Text Back
it’s a Free PDF report, and you can
click here to get it.
Go ahead and read it… I know you’ll get
something useful from it.
Specifically, the texts on page 4 of the
report have proven to be very effective in
getting a girl to text you back.