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Using Questions to Change the
Way We Think, the Way We Act and
the Results We Get
A system of tools for transforming
thinking, action and results
through skillful question asking –
questions we ask ourselves as
well as those we ask others
Involves being conscious and intentional
about the questions we ask ourselves and
others (and the mindset we are operating
from when we ask those questions)
Fuels a positive, solution-oriented approach
to problems, challenges, opportunities
Strengthens your ability to observe yourself
and your role in processes and in outcomes
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Responsive, thoughtful Reactive, automatic
Values not knowing Knows it already
Flexible and adaptive Inflexible and rigid
Defends assumptions
Questions assumptions
Sees possibilities as
See possibilities as
limitless
limited
Primary mood:
Primary mood: Curious Protective
Learner Mindset Judger Mindset
What’s working? What’s wrong?
What’s my part? Who’s fault is it?
What might I learn How can I make them
from/about this? see I’m right?
What other possibilities What other problems
will this present?
might there be?
Learner Questions Judger Questions
Learner Leaders build loyalty, trust,
cooperation and risk-taking
Judger Leaders generate fear, distrust and
conflict
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Empower your observer
◦ Notice “what is”
◦ Be mindful of the role our own emotions, opinions
or attachments play in the results we are getting
◦ Invaluable skill for negotiating change, making
decisions, operating effectively under pressure and
relating well to others
◦ Places us in an ideal position to recognize where we
are at on the Learner/Judger continuum
Using a “Choice Map”; Correcting Course
◦ When faced with a difficult situation or decision,
imagine yourself at a crossroads between Leaner
Path and Judger Path
◦ Experiment by taking each path separately – asking
yourself both learner and judger questions
◦ Course Correction: When on the Judger Path,
consider what “Switching Questions” might get you
into the Switching Lane and return you to the
Learner Path
A (Aware)-B (Breathe)- C (Curiosity) – C (Choice)
Putting the Power of Questions to Work
◦ Internal Questions
Questions we ask ourselves
How do our questions influence our behavior
Are we more inclined to make statements or ask
questions?
◦ Interpersonal Questions
Questions we ask others
How do our questions impact interactions, results
Are we more inclined to make statements or ask
questions?
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Make Friends with Judger
◦ Awareness and acceptance of existence within
ourselves and others liberates us to make better
choices
◦ With awareness comes ability to recognize and
switch to learner mindset, learner questions
Question Assumptions
◦ Making an assumption involves believing something
is true without necessarily having any basis in fact
◦ Best way to uncover our own blind spots-
assumptions – is to ask ourselves skillful questions
What assumptions might I be making?
How else can I think about this?
What other possible explanation (reality?) might there
be?
Q-Storming
◦ Good approach when seeking breakthroughs in
decision-making, problem solving, strategic
planning, innovation
◦ Based on three premises:
1. Great results begin with great questions
2. Most any problem can be solved with enough
of the right questions
3. The questions we ask ourselves often provide
the most fruitful openings for new thinking and
possibilities
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Q-Thinking Group Exercise
◦ Review scenario and related assumptions
◦ Discuss among group
◦ Build 8-10+ Learner Questions
Mix of Internal Questions and Interpersonal Questions
Question Guidelines:
First person (using I or we)
Open-ended vs. yes/no (How can I/We? vs. Can I/We?)
Assume a Learner Mindset when framing questions
Need questions to think with, open up the possibilities - not
drive to the first answer
Any questions that indicate the need for “Course Correction”?
…ABCC…
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