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Foundations Applied Conversation                                    and Education Tool 1 Facilitating Discussion          in Marriage Preparation    Using FACET Inventory
A Discussion Inventory is a facilitative instrument which: ,[object Object]
Provides the facilitators with a “map” for discussion
Invites couples into dialogue
Affirms strengths
Problem solves around weaknesses2
FACET or FOCCUS? Your parish has chosen to use one of two good discussion tools  to aid  communication and self-discovery. 3
FACET is… ,[object Object]
Couple centered
Elicits couple discussion
Emphasizes facilitation
Affordable and flexible
Available in English and Spanish4
Discussion Tools are not … ,[object Object]
LABELING or PREDICTIVE devices
Not to be used to determine permission for a couple to marry.5
About FACET… FOUNDATIONS   Applied Communication  & Education  Tool 6 From the Authors of FOUNDATIONS  Catholic Newly-wed Newsletter
7 Based on 16 years of research and writing for newly-married couples • 30 years of working with engaged couples • 25 years of facilitating premarital inventories
FACET GUIDES LEARNING I know / understand discover/reveal what each knows I believe sharing my values   I will  promoting growth and commitment Take-home Discussion Extenders 8
9 174 statements in 13 categories • Family of origin • Roles in Marriage • Budget/Finance • Values • Habits • Work/Family Issues • Friends/Leisure • Sexuality/Intimacy • Commitment • Communication • Parenting • Faith/Religion/Spirituality • Catholic Section
10 Statement booklet is illustrated – All statements are grouped according to topic: – No more than two topics to a page – Language is simple, straightforward – Contains issues from current culture
More about FACET FACET is done on paper FACET includes a take-home section Features a unique Catholic Section 11

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Facet Information

Hinweis der Redaktion

  1. a DISCUSSION INSTRUMENTan INVENTORY of 175 basic questions on marriage FACET is divided into 13 Topics. Each topic has three parts: I know/understand, I believe, and I will.the source of a PROFILE of unique couple issues, challenges, strengths, realities an OUTLINE for FACILITATING appropriate and on-target, discussion and educational support to couples by marriage preparation providers.Includes a take-home section for further discussion.
  2. I know (understand)Exploring what my partner knowsBoth persons discover or reveal some basic information important for their relationship.I know (understand)Exploring what my partner knowsBoth persons discover or reveal some basic information important for their relationship.I believeEach person expresses what he or she holds as important. This includes opinions, values, beliefs, and convictions that may be or may not be consistent with their partner’s. Reveals unspoken assumptions, to allow the couple to talk about differences. I willDraw on insights for some useful action steps.Name what they each are willing to take on as a life plan for creating a great marriage.Christians understand that marriage is a lifelong journey toward each other and toward God.
  3. Facilitate Discussion with CoupleUnderstand dynamics of facilitation to allow couples to:Maximize their ownership of issues and create in them a “felt need to learn.”Avoid “over learning.”Maximize use of “distributed practice” learning principle.Allow facilitators to carry out appropriately both facilitation and teaching tasksGive couples sufficient discussion time.Integrate Educational Phase and ReferralsDirect couples to educational options or make connection to specific educational materials being presented.Make immediate and specific or long range referrals as needed.Destroy printout.
  4. Have each partner complete FOCCUS for the Futurein order to integrate what has been learned in the FOCCUS process and to make a personal plan of action.Have couple share their responses and take them home to review periodically.