Warning: Do NOT confront a cheater before you learn these critical rules!

1. How to Confront a Cheater
And Get the Truth Out of Him

2. • ll start with a warning: Do NOT
confront a cheater without a
good plan. If you don’t follow
some critical rules, most
chances he will either angrily
run out of the house (allowing
him to get his story straight), or
stay and turn the focus to you
(by attacking you for snooping
on him, or blaming you for your
problems etc). This guide will
show you the right way to
confront cheating and getting
the truth out of him – Today.

3. Rule #1 – Prepare Yourself for
Complete Denial
Before you learn how to confront a cheater,
prepare yourself to this: The majority of
cheating spouses will deny-deny-deny
infidelity until they are blue in the face. Some
cheaters will deny an affair even if you present
them with hard evidence.
WHY?
He will deny because even if you thought he was
your best friend, the one person that would
never lie to you this way, the fact is that you will
probably catch him unprepared.

4. • have his story straight yet, he hasn’t
decided whether he wants to admit
cheating, how to tell you about it, how
much to reveal and in case of a long term
affair – Admitting usually means he will
have to end the affair, which is also
something he may have not decided about
yet.

5. Rule #2 – Do Not Confront a
Cheater before You have
Evidence
• I can’t stress this
enough. If you don’t
have physical
evidence, such as
nude pictures, emails
describing his passion
and love for her, a
receipt for jewelry or a
motel – Do NOT
confront him.

6. • If you don’t have proof you will only give him a
warning to be more careful from now on and he
will start to hide the affair much better, which
means you may never find proof. Second, if you
don’t have proof - You might be wrong. He
could be faithful to you, and if you wrongly
accuse him you could destroy your
relationship.
• (If you have trouble finding proof – This Report
will teach you how to easily do it – Right now).

7. Rule #3 – Keep Calm and
Collected
• I know it is the HARDEST thing to do in this
situation. You are upset, hurt beyond belief,
your whole life is crumbling under your feet –
But you have to confront him when you are calm
and collected. Focus on the facts and don’t let
your emotions control you. If you attack him and
scream at him he will probably use it to storm
out of the house saying he can’t talk to you and
use this time to get his story straight.

8. • Be prepared with your proof and don’t let
him turn the focus to your snooping. You
can say, “Yes, I admit it was wrong to
snoop on you, but the FACT is that I had a
good reason to do that – Here’s the
evidence.”

9. Rule #4 – Don’t Let Him Turn the
Tables on You
• He will probably try to blame the whole
thing on you. It’s much easier than
providing an explanation to his behavior.
He will instinctively call you crazy, stupid,
insecure, childish and a psycho. Don’t let
him do that. You can say – “O.k., I am
stupid and childish. Who is she and how
long have you been cheating on me?”

10. • Demand an explanation. He may also try to get
you to admit that he had a good reason for
cheating. He may ask you “Why would I look for
sex outside my relationship?” and get you to
think of an excuse for him (clever, right?) or to
make you believe that he has no reason to
cheat. Make him answer his own questions by
saying nothing. Just look in his eyes as long as it
takes and wait for him to answer it by himself.

11. Rule #5 – If He Still Won’t Admit
– Try This Jedi Mind Trick
• If he insists on denying, and your proof has
“holes” in it, try to take some of the blame on
yourself. You don’t have to mean it; it’s just a
tactic to get him to confess. Bring up the
possibility that you may not have been giving
him what he needs – Sexually, emotionally or
otherwise. If he is close to confessing, it will
make it much easier for him to tell you the
truth. He will not feel like the only one to blame
in this overwhelming crisis in your relationship.

12. Rule #6 – The Most Important
Rule of All
• Do not assume that an
affair will end your
relationship. You may find
it hard to see right now,
but an affair is just a
symptom of a
“diseased” relationship.
You can go with the
“Once a cheater always a
cheater BS, or you can
stop, think about it a little
and consider giving your
relationship one more
chance.

13. • But I have to warn you: Do NOT
attempt to do it alone. You need
professional help. Start right now
with this excellent Free Report to
discover the first steps in surviving
an affair.

14. • Remember – even if he cheated, it doesn’t
mean he has no love for you anymore.
(There is a simple tactic to discover if he
still loves you – In This Article).
Something went terribly wrong along the
way, but if you both commit to the healing
process, you have a chance of winning a
better relationship than ever.