Talking about difficult topics like race can raise anxiety for many people, and yet we must have the conversation in our schools and our lives in order to be more inclusive and change the world for the better. What are the fears and common pitfalls that keep us from broaching topics like race? Gain practical skills for facilitating as well as participating in the conversation.
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Train the Trainer Skills
1. Train the Trainer:
Interruption and Facilitation Skills
for Student Leaders
Seattle Girls’ School
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
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3. What Calls You into Leadership?
About Seattle Girls’ School
Think about the time or experiences that
got you interested in diversity work and/or
being a student leader. What keeps you
going? What do you hope for?
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4. Agenda
Courageous conversations
What keeps us from having them?
Priming for the conversation
Interruption skills
Practice makes less heart-attack-inducing
Facilitation skills
Practice makes feeling more comfortable
Wrap up
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6. Fears and Anxieties that Keep Us
from Having Conversations
Offending
Losing Face
Tokenism
Social Risk
Bursting the Bubble
Rocking the Boat
Conflict
Lack of “Authority”
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7. Pitfalls and Obstacles that Keep Us
from Conversing Again
Outbursts
Silence
Denial
The Good Talk
Teacher vs. Facilitator
Personal Attacks
The Quick Fix
Leadership Oppression
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10. NCBI Effective Interventions Model
Reduce Defensiveness
– Tone
– Body Language
– Respect
Keep the Conversation Going
– Hear Them Out
– Ask Open-Ended Questions
– Set Aside Your Feeling for the Moment
– Dialogue
Build the Relationship
Win an Ally
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11. Everything You Ever Wanted to Interrupt
But Didn’t Know How To…
Think of trigger events of phrases
Which ones have proven most challenging?
Which ones would you like to strategize effective
interventions for?
Strategize for different people: strangers,
acquaintances, friends, family members, younger
people, etc.
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13. Practice Makes Less Heart-Attack-Inducing
Two Lines Facing Each Other
-Line 1 say trigger phrase
-Line 2 respond
-Line 2 move one person
-Repeat for several rounds
After 10 minutes, we will
switch roles (Line 2 say
trigger, Line 1 respond) and
practice another 10 minutes.
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16. Facilitation Skills
Space
Confidence and Competence
Relationship Building
Credibility
Flexibility and Authority
Optimism
Modeling
Multiple Learning Styles
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17. Facilitation Tips
Co-facilitation
Depersonalization
Vulnerability
Relationships
Saving it for Later
Discomfort
Clarification
Listening
Hot Buttons
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18. Avoiding the Pitfalls and
Overcoming the Obstacles
Powerful stories
Powerful statistics
Powerful analogies
Facilitation Skills
Welcoming environment
Clear and strict norms
Willingness to sit with
discomfort
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22. Structure
Groups of 6
– 1 Facilitator
– 3 Participants
– 2 Challengers
Discussion
Feedback for the Facilitator
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23. Goals to Strive For
Be Real
Don’t End Early
Don’t “Admire the Problem”
Sit With All the Feelings
Support the Facilitator
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24. Discussion Time
Discussion One : How does
socioeconomic difference and privilege
show up at your school? How does it
impact students? How might the
situation improve?
Round One
Discussion
Round One
Feedback and
Discussion
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25. Discussion Time
Discussion Two : How does gender
difference and gender bias show up at
your school? How does it impact
students, particularly leaders? How
might the situation improve?
Round One
Discussion
Round One
Feedback and
Discussion
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26. Large Group Share
What were some:
Ah-ha moments
Great strategies
Heads up
Questions or Concerns
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27. Next Steps
Attend more Train the Trainer workshops
Have more real discussions with people
who affirm you
Have more real one-on-one dialogue with
people who may or may not affirm you
Continue to learn and grow in your
knowledge base for content AND skills
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29. Presenter Information
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
6th Faculty and
Professional Outreach
Seattle Girls’ School
2706 S Jackson Street
Seattle WA 98144
(206) 805-6562
rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org
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30. Resources
• Anti-Defamation League
• Cross Cultural Connections
(www.CulturesConnecting.com)
• Facilitation First
• Jimpact Enterprises, Inc.
• National Coalition Building Institute
• The People’s Institute
• Stirfry Seminars
• The Thiagi Group
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