6. SimilariOes
Between
my
Public
and
Private
Self
• Responsible
behavior
is
a
high
priority
on
both
sides.
• Although
I
don’t
show
as
much
emo:on
with
my
public
self,
I
s:ll
care
a
lot
about
what
I’m
doing
at
work
or
in
public
and
what’s
going
on
around
me.
• I
communicate
effec:vely
to
others
on
both
sides.
• If
I
get
to
know
someone,
say
at
work,
I
normally
remove
my
“work”
face
and
transi:on
to
a
“friend”
face
and
share
more
personal
informa:on.
They
are
geIng
to
know
my
private
self
a
liJle
more
and
the
same
can
be
said
for
me.
I
also
get
to
know
them
a
liJle
beJer
because
they
also
start
to
share
more
personal
informa:on.
• My
private
self
and
public
self
is
s:ll
just
me.
It
all
makes
up
who
I
am
as
a
person.
• My
public
and
private
communica:on
both
keep
the
same
respect
for
other
people
when
they’re
talking.
When
they
talk
I
face
them
and
listen
instead
of
trying
to
think
of
the
next
thing
I’m
going
to
say.
• I
try
to
have
fun
no
maJer
what
face
I’m
wearing
• For
my
internal
private
and
personal
public
self
at
home,
I
get
frustrated
at
my
girlfriends
daughter
quite
oPen,
but
I
keep
it
inside.
Publically,
I
just
con:nue
to
try
and
be
a
good
roll
model,
hoping
it
will
one
day
sink
in.
For
both,
my
goal
is
the
same,
which
is
to
develop
her
into
a
beJer
person.
7. Discrepancies
In
My
Self
• Some:mes,
I
let
my
private
self
feelings
leak
out
into
my
pubic
self
when
I
get
aggravated
• I
don’t
appear
approachable
in
public
• I
could
have
more
meaningful
conversa:ons
with
co-‐workers
and
people
I
don’t
know
very
well
8.
Ac:on
Plan
1. Get
Botox
to
remove
the
angry
marks
between
my
eyes!
2. Think
about
what
I’m
going
to
say
before
I
say
it
3. Consider
conversa:on
starters
for
people
I
don’t
really
know
4. Con:nue
to
analyze
the
differences
and
similari:es
of
my
private
and
public
self
5. Listen
to
how
other
people
communicate
to
determine
their
different
faces
6. Smile
more
in
public
7. Loosen
up
a
bit
more
in
public
and
stop
being
all
business
all
the
:me
8. Instead
of
being
blue
and
green,
try
to
be
a
liJle
more
orange:
take
risks
and
be
a
direct
communicator
