As Christians, there are many times when we are caught in an argument or are put into a position to act as a peacemaker between two people. What is the biblical approach to resolving conflict?
Presented by Dr. Melvin W. Wong, Ph.D. at WCCCC 2017
4. Prince of Peace Isaiah 以賽亞書 9:6
For to us a child is born,
to us a son is given;
and the government shall
be upon his shoulder,
and his name shall be called
Wonderful Counselor,
Mighty God,
Everlasting Father,
Prince of Peace.
因有一嬰孩為我們而生
有一子賜給我們
政權必擔在他的肩頭上
他名稱為奇妙 策士
全能的神 永在的父
和平的君
34. Four Horsemen of Apocalypse
婚姻沖突的四大殺手
1. 批評
2.辯護
3.藐視
4.撤退
預防
降低
35. Interpersonal Conflict Management Priority-Mindset
Worship: Obedience & Service
Significance Meaning Joy: Purpose
Happiness: Fun Pleasure Enjoyment Satisfaction
Harmony: Communicate-Resolve: Conflicts vs Denial
Personal Preferences: Me vs We vs Us: Getting Along
Safety Values: Punctuality: Timeliness
Principles: Subjective Style: Right vs Wrong Yes vs No
Logistics: Things and Tasks: Big vs Small Cheap vs Expensive
39. Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In
William Ury
1. Separate People from the Problem 人與事分開
2. Focus on Interests, not (your status) Positions
專注於關心的事,而不是個人地位
3. Generate a variety of Possibilities before deciding what to do
探索各種解決問題的可能性
4. Insist that the Result be based on Some Objective Standard
在決定做什麼之前 堅持解決的結果是基於 一些客觀的標準