6. Core Needs & Values BLUE
Relationships
Authenticity
7. Core Needs & Values GREEN
Intellectual
Competence
Knowledge
8. Esteeming Others
With Your Primary Color Group
What is the one thing that is most
misunderstood about you/your color?
Answer the Question “People think I am
_____ , but really I am _____.”
What environments or behaviors
stress you out?
9. Reframing ORANGE
OTHERS MAY ORANGE MAY
PERCEIVE ORANGE AS: PERCEIVE SELF AS:
Goofing off too much Flexible, easy-going
Manipulative Having a playful attitude
Untrustworthy Exploring new possibilities
Unable to stay on task Clever, good negotiator
Scattered Open to change
Taking unnecessary risks Having many interests
Resisting closure or decisions Able to do many things
Obnoxious Adventurous, courageous
Immature Valuing freedom
Self-centered Bold, assertive
Fun-loving, enjoying life
Independent
10. Reframing GOLD
OTHERS MAY GOLD MAY
PERCEIVE GOLD AS: PERCEIVE SELF AS:
Rigid, inflexible Consistent
Controlling, bossy Providing structure
Too serious Goal-oriented
Resistant to change Firm or traditional
Opinionated Knowing right from wrong
System-bound Loyal to organization
Lacking imagination Realistic
Judgmental Decisive, seeking closure
Boring Dependable
Uptight Concerned about security
Predictable Following a routine
Autocratic Having leadership ability
11. Reframing BLUE
OTHERS MAY BLUE MAY
PERCEIVE BLUE AS: PERCEIVE SELF AS:
Very emotional Having feelings
Overly sensitive Compassionate
Mushy Romantic
Too tender-hearted Idealistic
Easily persuaded Empathetic
Too nice Caring
Too trusting Seeing best in others
Smothering Nurturing
Too soft, too giving Liking to please people
Weak Wanting harmony
Talking too much Great communicator
Illogical Valuing feelings
12. Reframing GREEN
OTHERS MAY GREEN MAY
PERCEIVE GREEN AS: PERCEIVE SELF AS:
Arrogant, a know it all Confident
Cold, hard Mentally tough, strong
Insensitive Logical, rational
Head in the clouds Visionary, inventive
Cool, aloof, unfeeling Self-controlled
Afraid to open up Enjoying one’s own company
Critical, fault-finding Good at analysis
Lacking compassion Objective
Unappreciative of others Having ability to reprimand
Intellectually demanding Having high expectations
Argumentative Knowledgeable
Absent minded Thinking deeply
13. Turning Up the Lights on
Your Least Bright Color
GOAL:
To help participants strengthen
their least bright color.
THE PROCESS: Separate into your least bright color.
•In your least bright color groups:
•Create a 1 minute commercial that would
appeal to this color. Be respectful and truly
try-on this perspective. It is not a parody
activity.
• Be Creative! It can be a commercial for a
resort, a restaurant, office, vacation, toy, book.
TV show, etc.
•Report out to the larger group.
14.
15. Valuing Differences…
Creating Unity
We have all four colors
It is the blend of these colors that makes us
special and unique.
By seeing Primary Colors brightened in
others, we can see these paler colors in
ourselves.
It is because of our differences that we need
each other and value each other’s POV.
16. Valuing Differences…
Creating Unity
GOAL:
To bring a level of appreciating differences.
PROCESS:
Separate into your assigned group. Select a leader to record your
comments and ideas.
In groups develop your ideal small group experience for the
weekend that would bring out the best in all colors.
As you work together consider how you are interacting (i.e. the
means), not just the ends (i.e. the results).
Each person has a sticker that identifies a need, think about how
you can stretch yourself to include this need in the process.
17. Creating Unity Groups
GROUP GROUP GROUP GROUP
Angela G. Genesis Hanna Andrew
Esteban Justin Joshua Angela J.
Karesa Kailey Ivan Janis
Robert Sarah Sarah Peggy
Vilma Ross