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where we did this weird exercise.
3. The instructor had us look around the
room, and choose two people, based
only on first impressions BEFORE we
had a conversation with anybody.
6. A second time to choose two people
we didn't want ANYTHING to do with.
9. Most people had no problems
choosing people they wanted to have
their backs.
10. And at the same time, it felt good
thinking that maybe somebody else
was choosing us.
12. The reason was to elevate to conscious
thinking what we do subconsciously,
all the time.
13. A LOT of that isn't stuff we like to think
about. So we pretend it doesn't exist.
19. One thing that spends out a "weird" or
"creepy" vibe is if you are incongruent.
20. Like if somebody is sitting next to you
on the train, and they are sort of trying
to start a conversation with you, but
they're super nervous.
23. If YOU are the one that's incongruent,
THAT'S the vibe you're sending out.
24. But if you understand this, you can fix
it. Become more congruent.
33. They sit right there in the middle of a
busy mall on a Saturday afternoon and
ball their eyes out!
35. Same when they're happy. And you
KNOW when you see a happy kid
running around, few things are cuter.