2. Introduction
• Breaking up with somebody that you love can
be one of the most difficult things that you
can ever do. Often only one partner wants the
break up to happen and there are ways that
the other person can get their ex partner
back.
3. Illogical Books
• There have been thousands of books written
with regard to getting your ex back following
the breakup of a relationship.
• Most of these often give very illogical advice
of what you actually need to do in order to get
him or her back in your life.
4. • It is really very hard to get the right advice
from these books and if you are looking for
some good tips then you should pick up an
online publication called “the Magic of Making
Up” which can provide the right ideas to get
your loved one back.
5. Don’t Rush In
• It is very natural that you may want to rush in
with all guns blazing after the breakup but this
is not the right way to deal with it. You should
give enough space and time to your ex before
beginning to show how much you love and
care about them.
6. Initial Strategy
• You should not contact them too much but
still you have to show that you are always
thinking about them without making them
feel that you are obsessed about the whole
situation.
• Phone or text them and ask how they are
doing and you can talk about something that
you used to enjoy together. This is the very
initial strategy that you should follow.
7. Take The Blame
• It is really important that you do take the blame
for any of your actions that could have spoiled
your relationship with your ex, avoid taking well
intended advice that others give to you about
what you should do and shouldn’t do in order to
make them return to you.
• Always remember one thing that you are the
person who is going to be the one who has to live
with the consequences of what you do in terms
of your life and relationship.
8. Take Responsibility
• Obviously you should never be fully influenced
by what others say or the advice given to you.
Yes, maybe they are trying to share your pain
but they don’t really know what could be best
for you and for your ex.
• It is really important to realize one thing that
you are going to take the right decision in
order to save your relationship and here you
are alone.
9. Take It On The Chin
• So it is your decision and responsibility and
you should do it in the proper way. At the end
of the day, you have to accept the joy or the
pain, whatever it be; you are alone to face it.
10. Avoid At First
• You should try to avoid your ex
initially, instead of talking to them over the
phone or texting them constantly.
• Use this time for yourself and think what has
actually caused the relationship to end and
make a good plan to resolve this particular
issue.
11. Conclusion
• If you are in the situation where your partner
has broken up your relationship then it is
really worth reading the Magic Of Making Up
and follow the advice there to get them back.