1. In my humble opinion the great lessons learned in life are always learned the
hard way. None of us learns a lesson while still leading a peaceful life. When
everything in our life is at stake and our life is a mess then the nature bestows us
with something that helps us through the entire life. There is a famous quotation
“Life is not a bed of roses”
And I am sure no one can disagree with that. How much it may appear to us that
MR. XYZ or Miss ABC is leading a very successful and happy life let me assure you
that they also would have faced problems in their life. It appears to us that our
problem is greatest and no one can deal with what I am dealing right now. STOP
right there and take a look around you REALLY look and I am sure you would be
thanking god and realizing that your life really is a bed f roses as compared to
some people. When the greatest tension in our life is getting low marks, or some
family matter some monetarily issues then think about the people who don’t get
food who don’t have the luxury of their own house who spend nights at footpath
think of the people who died in the last bomb blast and think about their families
and then you would realize there are greater problems. I am by no means
degrading you NO your problem is your concern I agree but thinking that it is the
greatest problem will lead you to lose hope quickly. Life has many folds.
Disappointment at any stage will never take you to your destination, but of course
optimism will... To solve your problem be optimistic get motivation from people
around you who have survived worst hardships and then say it loud
I CAN I WILL
Keep your hopes high and trust God. Yes ordeals in our life bring us closer to our
lord. Only in our hard time we really pray to our god and deep in our heart we
always know that the lord above is the only one who can solve all of our troubles.
Always remember that God has perfect timings, never early, never late. It takes a
little patience and faith but it is worth the wait. No matter how bad the
circumstances maybe but everything is right in schedule. God does things in his
time, not yours. In order for you to get out of something you must go through it
first. When God lands you in a tight spot he trusts that you can pave way out of it
2. and you have to trust him back that he will never give you anything that you
would not be able to handle.
When things go wrong, contrary to the word of God, only those with great faith
can say
“No matter what happens I will still trust God!”
So when things look darkest, don’t look down ….look up! Don’t be fearful and
discouraged but keep believing and obeying no matter what happens!!! You’ll
be glad you trusted God in the end!!!
So we can conclude that you may not always have a comfortable life and you will
not always be able to solve all of the world’s problems at once but don’t ever
under estimate the importance you can have because history has shown us that
courage is contagious and hope can take on a life of its own. Courage means to
keep working a relationship, to continue seeking solutions to difficult problems,
and to stay focused during stressful periods. If you have a positive attitude and
constantly strive to give your best effort, eventually you will overcome your
immediate problems and find you are ready to face greater challenges.