This document discusses communication and negotiation skills. It covers types of communication, techniques for influencing people, active listening skills, common communication barriers, the definition and purpose of negotiation, different negotiation behaviors, and the negotiation process. Key points include the three fundamental techniques in handling people, six ways to make people like you, dos and don'ts of communication, and types of negotiation behaviors being red, blue, and purple.
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Comm. & neg. skills
1. Instructed on: 2-Dec-2011| Session: #03
By: Iman Adel
Topic Code: SKL-03-2012
All Copy Rights Saved to the 7 th Students’ Conference on Communication and Information Based in the Faculty of Computers and Information Cairo University – Egypt 2011/ 2012 www.scci-cu.com
3. Agenda
Types of Communication
How to Win Friends and Influence People
Dos & Don’ts
Active Listening
Communication Barriers
What is negotiation?
Why do we need negotiation?
Negotiating behavior
Negotiation process
5. How to win friends and influence people
• 3 Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
• 6 Ways to Make People Like You
6. How to win friends and influence people
• 3 Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
1. Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.
7. How to win friends and influence people
• 3 Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
2. Give honest and sincere appreciation.
8. How to win friends and influence people
• 3 Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.
9. How to win friends and influence people
• 6 ways to make people like you
1. Become genuinely interested in other people.
10. How to win friends and influence people
• 6 ways to make people like you
2. Smile.
11. How to win friends and influence people
• 6 ways to make people like you
3. Remember that a person’s name is to that person the
sweetest and most important sound in any language.
12. How to win friends and influence people
• 6 ways to make people like you
4. Be a good listener and Encourage others to talk about
themselves.
13. How to win friends and influence people
• 6 ways to make people like you
5. Talk in terms of the other person’s interests.
14. How to win friends and influence people
• 6 ways to make people like you
6. Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.
16. Dos & Don’ts
Dos
• Listen with opened
arms and legs and
body forward
• Keep eye contact.
• Ensure the agreement.
• Use terms like yes and
certainly.
• Rephrase
17. Dos & Don’ts
Don’ts
• Interrupt, try to finish
the sentence for the
sender.
• Smoke, bite nails, or
chew pens.
• Tap finger or feet.
• Openly disagree like
(no).
• Say, yes but …
35. Types of negotiation behavior
RED behavior
• Manipulation
• Aggressive
• Always seeking the
best for you
• No concern for the
person you are
negotiating with
36. Types of negotiation behavior
BLUE behavior
• Win-win approach
• Cooperation
• Trusting
• Pacifying
• Relational
37. Types of negotiation behavior
PURPLE behavior
• Give me some of what I want (red)
• I’ll give you some of what you want (blue)
• Good intentions
• Two way exchange
39. Summary
• Types of communication:
-Verbal
-Vocal
-Visual
• 3 Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
• 6 Ways to Make People Like You
• Dos and Don’ts
• How to be an active listener
40. • Types of communication barriers
1. Psychological barriers
2. Language barriers
3. Individual linguistic ability
4. Physical barriers
5. Emotional barriers
• Definition and needs of negotiation
• Types of negotiation behavior:
-RED -BLUE -PURPLE
• Negotiation process:
• 1.Prepare 2. Debate
3. Propose 4. Bargain
Hinweis der Redaktion
1-Prepare: wants, weaknesses and strengths, what do I want, gain and losses, timescale…2-Debate: act positively, watch none-verbal signs, built rapport, listen to what the other party says..3-Propose: decide who’ll speak first, act PURPLE ( use “ if u then I , not if we will u “)Avoid – ‘wish’, ‘hope’, ‘would like’ – this is not assertive4-Bargaing: ending the negotiation , conclusion of the negotiation