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Leading Age New York
      presents Dave Caperton with:


The Fezziwig Principles

 Success through Joyful, Compassionate,
      People-Centered Leadership

           DNS/DSW
           The Sagamore
          November 14, 2012
The Ghost of Jacob Marley on
  the Business of Business

              "But you were always a good man of
              business, Jacob," faltered Scrooge, who
              now began to apply this to himself.
              "Business!" cried the Ghost, wringing its
              hands again. "Mankind was my business.
              The common welfare was my business;
              charity, mercy, forbearance, and
              benevolence, were, all, my business. The
              dealings of my trade were but a drop of
              water in the comprehensive ocean of my
              business!"
                 (Dickens, C. 1843. A Christmas Carol)
“A Small Matter” said the ghost...
“to make these silly people so full of gratitude.”
“Small.” echoed Scrooge.
The Spirit signed to him to listen to the two
apprentices, who were pouring out their hearts in
praise of Fezziwig: and when he had done so, said,
“Why. Is it not. He has spent but a few pounds of your
mortal money: three or four perhaps. Is that so much
that he deserves this praise.”
“It isn't that,” said Scrooge, heated by the remark, and
speaking unconsciously like his former, not his latter,
self. “It isn't that, Spirit. He has the power to render us
happy or unhappy; to make our service light or
burdensome; a pleasure or a toil. Say that his power
lies in words and looks; in things so slight and
insignificant that it is impossible to add and count
them up: what then. The happiness he gives, is quite
as great as if it cost a fortune.”
Lack of TRUST is
 epidemic

  11% of employees see consistency
  between manager’s words and actions
  7% trust their senior leaders to look out
  for their best interests
  7% trust co-workers to do so


                  Maritz poll, March 2010
The Power of Perception




How many triangles?
The Virtues of Fezziwig
• JOYFUL -Fun, Positively Engaged,
  Celebratory

• COMPASSIONATE -Open, Caring,
  Grateful

• RESPONSIBLE -Fair, Principled and
  Accountable
The Effects of Power
       When people wield power they:

Become more focused on
their own needs and wants

Become less focused on
others’ needs, wants, and
actions

Act as if unwritten rules that
others are expected to follow
don’t apply to them

                         Robert Sutton, HBR, June 2009
The Cookie Experiment
      Dacher Keltner, Deborah Gruenfield,
          Cameron Anderson, 2003



                        QuickTime™ and a
                          decompressor
                are needed to see this picture.




Even when arbitrarily given, power over others
changes us and our awareness of other people.
The Toxic Tandem

Followers devote immense
energy to watching,
interpreting and worrying
about even the smallest
moves their superiors make

People tend to interpret
what they see the boss do
in a negative light
The Fallacy of Centrality
The assumption that
because one holds a
central position, one
automatically knows               QuickTime™ and a
                                    decompressor
                          are needed to see this picture.




everything necessary to
exercise effective
leadership.
High Powered Danger
         source: Karolinska Institute and Stockholm University, 2008


10 year study of 3,100 men aged
19-70

Those with “bad” bosses had                                        QuickTime™ and a
                                                                      decompressor
                                                            are needed to see this picture.




24% increased risk of heart
disease (<4 years exposure)

Long term exposure increased to                    “Now that we know that
64% risk                                           abusive bosses cause heart
(>4 years)                                            disease, we’re taking
                                                      action. We’re putting
                                                         defibrillators in
Risk was independent of other                         every department.”

risk factors (smoking, etc.)
What Employees Want
According to Employers:

    High Pay

    Opportunity for
    Advancement

    Job Security
What Employees Want
According to Employees:
     Recognition for the
     work they do

     To feel a valued part of
     the organization

     To know that someone
     cares about them
     personally
Why Employees Leave
From: The 7 Hidden Reasons Employees Leave, by Leigh Rivenbark, 2005

                                                  Employees quit bad
                                                  relationships more than bad
                                                  jobs
                                                  90% leave because of
                                                  issues with their job,
                 QuickTime™ and a
                   decompressor                   manager, culture or
                                                  environment.
         are needed to see this picture.


                                                  90% of managers believe
                                                  employees stay or go mostly
                                                  for the money
                                                  Top reason for leaving:
                                                  feeling unappreciated.
The Recognition Gap

65% of American workers
surveyed reported that
they had experienced
NO recognition for work
in the past year
(Gallup, 2004)
The Cost of Disengagement
                                     22 million workers are
                                     extremely negative or
                                     “actively disengaged”
           QuickTime™ and a
             decompressor
   are needed to see this picture.
                                     $250-300 billion a year
                                     in lost productivity

                                     As high as $1 trillion
                                     with work injury, illness,
                                     turnover, etc. or 10% 0f
                                     GDP
                                            -According to Gallup
The Power of Focus

“We found that one person,
specifically the manager in this
context, can eliminate almost
ALL of the active
disengagement in the workplace if
he or she focuses primarily on an
employee’s strengths.”

  -Tom Rath, How Full Is Your Bucket?
We Tend to Get What We Focus On



JOY                                            PAIN
  Everything that happens in life places us somewhere
   on our personal continuum between joy and pain.
   Except for the relatively rare extremes of tragedy
  and triumph, we get to decide what each experience
   means. That’s the amazing ability of being human.
The Power of
 Shared Laughter

   Is associated with Joy
   Is a Coping tool
   Reduces Stress
   Connects people like almost nothing else
The Humor Response
 Smile
 (the primary humor response)

 Laughter

 Violent Laughter

 Finally …you pee
The workplace environment of:
   In a
        Value of TRUST
Strong trust                Weak trust
More committed to their    High levels of active
organization               disengagement
                           4% completely satisfied
58% completely satisfied
                           with their job
with their job
                           7% would be willing to
63% happy to spend         spend entire career
rest of career there
                           Just 3% look forward to
50% look forward to        coming to work
coming to work
Worth a Fortune
Positive emotions are
perhaps more powerful
than negative emotions

One person’s                                      QuickTime™ and a


happiness continues to
                                                     decompressor
                                           are needed to see this picture.



have a significant impact
at a third degree of
separation
  Fowler, J.H. & Christakis, N.A. (2008)
Words and Looks
 Attitudes and Feelings in
Face-to-Face Communication

       Words = 7%

       Voice = 38%

      Physical = 55%
               Dr. Albert Mehrabian, UCLA
The Magic Ratio

A 5 to 1 ratio of positive
to negative interactions
can predict a successful
marriage

Workgroups with a 3 to 1
+ ratio were significantly
more productive

At 13 to 1, production
worsens.

         John Gottman, 1992
The Power of P.R.A.I.S.E.

P ersonal      Meaningful and specific
               praise is vastly superior
R ecognition   and more useful than
               general and platitudinous
A ppropriate   recognition. Individuals
I ndividual    crave attention and
               respond to it most
S pecific      positively when it is
               personal, specific and
E arnest       sincere.
Compassionate Leadership
What it Means to be a Leader

“The first responsibility of a leader is to
define reality. The last is to say ‘Thank
you’. In between the two, the leader must
become a servant and a debtor. That sums
up the progress of an artful leader.”

                -Max De Pree, Leadership Is an Art
The Cost of Employee Dissatisfaction



“Research [...] shows that employees who
perform better and have more training,
education and ability are the most likely to
quit if dissatisfied.”
         -Anthony J. Nyberg and Charlie O. Trevor,
               Harvard Business Review, June 2009
Herb Kelleher on the Business of Business


 “The business of business is people. The
 synergy in our opinion was simple: Honor,
 respect, care for, protect and reward your
 employees regardless of title or position. And in
 turn they will treat the external customers in a
 warm, caring and hospitable way. This causes
 external customers to return, thus bringing joy to
 the shareholders.”
Words and Looks
       The Golden Rule
 “Do Unto Others as You Would
   Have Them Do Unto You”

       The Platinum Rule
“Do Unto Others as THEY Would
    Have You Do Unto Them”
                Tony Allesandro - The Platinum Rule
A Short Course in Leadership

Ph.D in leadership. Short course: Make a
short list of all the things done to you that
you abhorred. Don’t do that to others.
Ever. Make another list of all the things
done to you that you loved. Do them to
others. Always.
                        -Dee Hock, founder of Visa
Things Slight and Insignificant
 Whether a manager focuses on strengths, weaknesses, or nothing makes all the
       difference to whether or not workers are engaged and positive.


   No focus on strengths
   or weaknesses = 40%
   chance of A.D.

   Focus on weaknesses=
   22% chance of A.D.

   Focuses on strengths =
   1% chance of A.D.
Coaching as Teaching


One day we visited six or seven restaurants in South Central L.A.
These were workplaces where employees typically didn’t get a ton of
praise or thank-yous. At each one, I’d go behind the counter, get on the
food prep line and catch an employee doing something right. I’d say,
‘Great job-that’s the perfect way to portion that taco’ and then turn to
the next person down the line and ask, ‘Did you see how well this was
done?’ Or I’d stand in the middle of the restaurant and half shout, ‘Who
did the walk-in today?’ There would be silence and then someone would
say, ‘I did.’ And I’d compliment him on the job and ask the people in the
kitchen to gather around so they could see what had gone right and what
could be done even better next time.
                                           -Julia Stewart, CEO, DineEquity
Leadership Models

“We’ve been looking at video of Herb Kelleher just
walking down the hallway at Love Field in Dallas and it’s
as though there were a circle of good feeling radiating
around him wherever he went. Everyone, passengers,
personnel, you know, passers-by all of a sudden light up
and beam because he was someone who engaged people,
was positive and who let you know that he was tuning into
you and was doing it with such positivity that it was
contagious.”
        -Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence and Social Intelligence
Fezziwig’s Inventory

1. How does your organization practice the Fezziwig principles?
2. How do you as a leader demonstrate Fezziwig’s virtues?
3. Which leader, in your view, is the clearest example of the Fezziwig
Principle and why?
4. Laughter is bonding. Share a funny story from your own experience
at work or home.
5. Brainstorm to come up with at least one concrete action, change or
initiative to make your leadership more joyful, compassionate, and
people-centered.
Things Slight and Insignificant

“When we think about leaders and the
variety of gifts that people bring to
institutions, we see that the art of
leadership lies in polishing and liberating
and enabling those gifts.”
             -Max De Pree, Leadership Is an Art

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The Fezziwig Principles.Ppt

  • 1. Leading Age New York presents Dave Caperton with: The Fezziwig Principles Success through Joyful, Compassionate, People-Centered Leadership DNS/DSW The Sagamore November 14, 2012
  • 2. The Ghost of Jacob Marley on the Business of Business "But you were always a good man of business, Jacob," faltered Scrooge, who now began to apply this to himself. "Business!" cried the Ghost, wringing its hands again. "Mankind was my business. The common welfare was my business; charity, mercy, forbearance, and benevolence, were, all, my business. The dealings of my trade were but a drop of water in the comprehensive ocean of my business!" (Dickens, C. 1843. A Christmas Carol)
  • 3. “A Small Matter” said the ghost... “to make these silly people so full of gratitude.” “Small.” echoed Scrooge. The Spirit signed to him to listen to the two apprentices, who were pouring out their hearts in praise of Fezziwig: and when he had done so, said, “Why. Is it not. He has spent but a few pounds of your mortal money: three or four perhaps. Is that so much that he deserves this praise.” “It isn't that,” said Scrooge, heated by the remark, and speaking unconsciously like his former, not his latter, self. “It isn't that, Spirit. He has the power to render us happy or unhappy; to make our service light or burdensome; a pleasure or a toil. Say that his power lies in words and looks; in things so slight and insignificant that it is impossible to add and count them up: what then. The happiness he gives, is quite as great as if it cost a fortune.”
  • 4. Lack of TRUST is epidemic 11% of employees see consistency between manager’s words and actions 7% trust their senior leaders to look out for their best interests 7% trust co-workers to do so Maritz poll, March 2010
  • 5. The Power of Perception How many triangles?
  • 6. The Virtues of Fezziwig • JOYFUL -Fun, Positively Engaged, Celebratory • COMPASSIONATE -Open, Caring, Grateful • RESPONSIBLE -Fair, Principled and Accountable
  • 7. The Effects of Power When people wield power they: Become more focused on their own needs and wants Become less focused on others’ needs, wants, and actions Act as if unwritten rules that others are expected to follow don’t apply to them Robert Sutton, HBR, June 2009
  • 8. The Cookie Experiment Dacher Keltner, Deborah Gruenfield, Cameron Anderson, 2003 QuickTime™ and a decompressor are needed to see this picture. Even when arbitrarily given, power over others changes us and our awareness of other people.
  • 9. The Toxic Tandem Followers devote immense energy to watching, interpreting and worrying about even the smallest moves their superiors make People tend to interpret what they see the boss do in a negative light
  • 10. The Fallacy of Centrality The assumption that because one holds a central position, one automatically knows QuickTime™ and a decompressor are needed to see this picture. everything necessary to exercise effective leadership.
  • 11. High Powered Danger source: Karolinska Institute and Stockholm University, 2008 10 year study of 3,100 men aged 19-70 Those with “bad” bosses had QuickTime™ and a decompressor are needed to see this picture. 24% increased risk of heart disease (<4 years exposure) Long term exposure increased to “Now that we know that 64% risk abusive bosses cause heart (>4 years) disease, we’re taking action. We’re putting defibrillators in Risk was independent of other every department.” risk factors (smoking, etc.)
  • 12. What Employees Want According to Employers: High Pay Opportunity for Advancement Job Security
  • 13. What Employees Want According to Employees: Recognition for the work they do To feel a valued part of the organization To know that someone cares about them personally
  • 14. Why Employees Leave From: The 7 Hidden Reasons Employees Leave, by Leigh Rivenbark, 2005 Employees quit bad relationships more than bad jobs 90% leave because of issues with their job, QuickTime™ and a decompressor manager, culture or environment. are needed to see this picture. 90% of managers believe employees stay or go mostly for the money Top reason for leaving: feeling unappreciated.
  • 15. The Recognition Gap 65% of American workers surveyed reported that they had experienced NO recognition for work in the past year (Gallup, 2004)
  • 16. The Cost of Disengagement 22 million workers are extremely negative or “actively disengaged” QuickTime™ and a decompressor are needed to see this picture. $250-300 billion a year in lost productivity As high as $1 trillion with work injury, illness, turnover, etc. or 10% 0f GDP -According to Gallup
  • 17. The Power of Focus “We found that one person, specifically the manager in this context, can eliminate almost ALL of the active disengagement in the workplace if he or she focuses primarily on an employee’s strengths.” -Tom Rath, How Full Is Your Bucket?
  • 18. We Tend to Get What We Focus On JOY PAIN Everything that happens in life places us somewhere on our personal continuum between joy and pain. Except for the relatively rare extremes of tragedy and triumph, we get to decide what each experience means. That’s the amazing ability of being human.
  • 19. The Power of Shared Laughter Is associated with Joy Is a Coping tool Reduces Stress Connects people like almost nothing else
  • 20. The Humor Response Smile (the primary humor response) Laughter Violent Laughter Finally …you pee
  • 21. The workplace environment of: In a Value of TRUST Strong trust Weak trust More committed to their High levels of active organization disengagement 4% completely satisfied 58% completely satisfied with their job with their job 7% would be willing to 63% happy to spend spend entire career rest of career there Just 3% look forward to 50% look forward to coming to work coming to work
  • 22. Worth a Fortune Positive emotions are perhaps more powerful than negative emotions One person’s QuickTime™ and a happiness continues to decompressor are needed to see this picture. have a significant impact at a third degree of separation Fowler, J.H. & Christakis, N.A. (2008)
  • 23. Words and Looks Attitudes and Feelings in Face-to-Face Communication Words = 7% Voice = 38% Physical = 55% Dr. Albert Mehrabian, UCLA
  • 24. The Magic Ratio A 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative interactions can predict a successful marriage Workgroups with a 3 to 1 + ratio were significantly more productive At 13 to 1, production worsens. John Gottman, 1992
  • 25. The Power of P.R.A.I.S.E. P ersonal Meaningful and specific praise is vastly superior R ecognition and more useful than general and platitudinous A ppropriate recognition. Individuals I ndividual crave attention and respond to it most S pecific positively when it is personal, specific and E arnest sincere.
  • 27. What it Means to be a Leader “The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say ‘Thank you’. In between the two, the leader must become a servant and a debtor. That sums up the progress of an artful leader.” -Max De Pree, Leadership Is an Art
  • 28. The Cost of Employee Dissatisfaction “Research [...] shows that employees who perform better and have more training, education and ability are the most likely to quit if dissatisfied.” -Anthony J. Nyberg and Charlie O. Trevor, Harvard Business Review, June 2009
  • 29. Herb Kelleher on the Business of Business “The business of business is people. The synergy in our opinion was simple: Honor, respect, care for, protect and reward your employees regardless of title or position. And in turn they will treat the external customers in a warm, caring and hospitable way. This causes external customers to return, thus bringing joy to the shareholders.”
  • 30. Words and Looks The Golden Rule “Do Unto Others as You Would Have Them Do Unto You” The Platinum Rule “Do Unto Others as THEY Would Have You Do Unto Them” Tony Allesandro - The Platinum Rule
  • 31. A Short Course in Leadership Ph.D in leadership. Short course: Make a short list of all the things done to you that you abhorred. Don’t do that to others. Ever. Make another list of all the things done to you that you loved. Do them to others. Always. -Dee Hock, founder of Visa
  • 32. Things Slight and Insignificant Whether a manager focuses on strengths, weaknesses, or nothing makes all the difference to whether or not workers are engaged and positive. No focus on strengths or weaknesses = 40% chance of A.D. Focus on weaknesses= 22% chance of A.D. Focuses on strengths = 1% chance of A.D.
  • 33. Coaching as Teaching One day we visited six or seven restaurants in South Central L.A. These were workplaces where employees typically didn’t get a ton of praise or thank-yous. At each one, I’d go behind the counter, get on the food prep line and catch an employee doing something right. I’d say, ‘Great job-that’s the perfect way to portion that taco’ and then turn to the next person down the line and ask, ‘Did you see how well this was done?’ Or I’d stand in the middle of the restaurant and half shout, ‘Who did the walk-in today?’ There would be silence and then someone would say, ‘I did.’ And I’d compliment him on the job and ask the people in the kitchen to gather around so they could see what had gone right and what could be done even better next time. -Julia Stewart, CEO, DineEquity
  • 34. Leadership Models “We’ve been looking at video of Herb Kelleher just walking down the hallway at Love Field in Dallas and it’s as though there were a circle of good feeling radiating around him wherever he went. Everyone, passengers, personnel, you know, passers-by all of a sudden light up and beam because he was someone who engaged people, was positive and who let you know that he was tuning into you and was doing it with such positivity that it was contagious.” -Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence and Social Intelligence
  • 35. Fezziwig’s Inventory 1. How does your organization practice the Fezziwig principles? 2. How do you as a leader demonstrate Fezziwig’s virtues? 3. Which leader, in your view, is the clearest example of the Fezziwig Principle and why? 4. Laughter is bonding. Share a funny story from your own experience at work or home. 5. Brainstorm to come up with at least one concrete action, change or initiative to make your leadership more joyful, compassionate, and people-centered.
  • 36. Things Slight and Insignificant “When we think about leaders and the variety of gifts that people bring to institutions, we see that the art of leadership lies in polishing and liberating and enabling those gifts.” -Max De Pree, Leadership Is an Art

Hinweis der Redaktion

  1. 1.My job/Boeing/FAA 2. Why-to (smoking) 3. VSC/All life 4.Leadership: long-term/principled/proactive/open/invested in people/success as a by-product 5. Your leadership challenges
  2. VSC - “It’s ALL LIFE.” Most ethical companies are generally also some of the most consistently successful. Ford, Campbells Soups, GE, Starbucks, T-Mobile, Adobe, Symantec, pepsico and the Cleveland Clinic
  3. 1. Open books to section with Fezziwig (Stave 2) 2.Fezziwig and Scrooge: Characteristics
  4. 1. Trust is a perception 2. Korean POW camps: 38% death rate (highest of any war) -How Full Is Your Bucket? p.7
  5. 1. Perception is reality: Markets, the economy, politics, personal levels of stress 2. What is “real” is subjective and can create results even if not objectively real: Sharks 3. the smart leader strives to understand perceptions and works to change them at the root level
  6. Joy - humor Skillet
  7. Michael in The Office is clueless about how he comes across.
  8. Lack of self-awareness and lessened attention on others plus increased scrutiny from below that tends to be negatively interpreted = Toxic Tandem
  9. DOL survey : What do your people want? Employers/employees
  10. DOL survey : What do your people want? Employers/employees
  11. What is the impact of a great leader/teacher/mentor? The power of focus. Story: Computer freeze
  12. 1.The power of focus - Heigh-ho story 2. Our focus is affected by input
  13. Read Chute Dogging from Happiness Is a Funny Thing
  14. 1.Tom Rath Gallup 15 million employees- positive emotions more powerful than negative. Recognition and praise: +productivity +engagement +loyalty +satisfaction +longevity +safety records 2. Just one person can infuse pos. emotions into an entire group.
  15. Is it possible to be too positive and praising? Yes, but it’s rare. Barney syndrome (millenials?) List a behavior that you had to address as a leader. Think of that individual. Can you come up with 3 positive behaviors or traits?
  16. Brain research on learning shows the emotional nature of human brain. Emotions trump reason in a learning situation. 1st priority: Survival data, 2nd priority: emotional data 3rd (distant) new learning. We are emotional creatures first: feeling precedes doing
  17. Reading list available with two new additions: This Is Water by David Foster Wallace and Joy Rules by Filomena Warrihay, PhD
  18. 1. Attributes of a great employee: Attitudes/Skills
  19. We tend to lose the best people first. High potentials know they have options. 1 in 3 admits not putting forth best efforts, 1 in 4 expects to leave within a year, 1 in 5 believes his/her aspirations don’t match what the organization has planned, 40% have little confidence in co-workers and less in leadership (Corporate exec. board, Sept. 2009)
  20. Leadership: look long-term, seek understanding, be a visionary, a teacher, a coach, a mentor, and a cheerleader, take more of the blame, less of the credit.
  21. Get out your Fezziwig surveys. Draw a line between your reponses and determine whether it is generally to the right (Fezziwig!), zigs and zags from middle to the right (close to Fezziwig), hovers in middle (potential Fezziwig), to the left (probably unaware of their impact)
  22. The opposite of love isn’t hate, it is apathy. Perhaps negatively focused leaders are getting some success (22% chance of AD) which is better than 40% AD with apathy, but much worse than positive focus (1% AD)
  23. Positive focus and recognition in action
  24. 1.Group work - leader/scribe
  25. ACTION STEPS- Make a list of the principles