5. Not what you hope to do but
what you realistically expect to do
Not what you tell others but your
innermost thoughts about your
realistic capabilities,
Not pride in past deeds but a realistic
judgment about what you are able
to do
7. Staying in urs comfort zone,fearing failure and so
avoid taking risks.Some Points are
“I can’t find happiness.” This is the paradox that
confuses even the smartest people. You need to
learn how to set yourself up so that success and
happiness find you.
“Life has nothing more to offer me.” This
statement is another mistake that people make. It
is a mistake because the statement is inside-
out, in reverse. Instead it should read: “What do I
have to offer life?”
8. Make Decisions with Absolute Confidence
At Optimal Self-Trust you’ll learn how to:
Release self-doubt and replace it with self-confidence
Make crisis-time decisions with swift and total clarity.
Stop beating yourself up about past choices.
Listen to what you want instead of needing others’ approval.
Take a leap of faith and let go ... you’ll discover you can fly
9. Often we come across people who are self
confident i.e. egotistic and
stubborn.Generally these people have the so
called ‘Superiority Complex’
15. People Start Looking
at Themselves as
Failures,not realizing
that failing does not
equal to ‘Failure’
16.
17. Readthe life histories of People who
have turned a Negative into Positive.
18. The one-second tip for when you’re feeling
nervous and unconfident is simply to smile! You
don’t just smile because you are happy and
confident – you can smile to make yourself feel
better. The act of smiling is so strongly
associated with positive feelings that it’s almost
impossible to feel bad while smiling.
19. If you believe in a higher power, whether God, or
another spiritual force, it can be a real boost to self-
confidence to say a silent prayer.
“Dear God, thank you that you
love and accept me as I am …
please help me to do the same …
and help me to grow to become
the person you want me to be so
that my God-confidence and
self-confidence will increase
greatly—all for the glory of your
20. Accept Yourself as You Are….!!
Undersatnd „Experience is what You get when
You don‟t get what You want.
22. What You Say to Yourself Mattes the Most.
Its all how You See Yourself.
23. The Process of giving without
Expectations in returns raises one’s
Self Confidence.
24. As well as smiling, meet the eyes
of other people in the room. Give
them your smile; you’ll almost
certainly get one back, and being
smiled at is a great self-
confidence boost. Like
smiling, eye contact shows
people that you’re confident.
Staring at your shoes or at the
table reinforces your feelings of
27. Have Patience and Keep doing the good
thing.Even though result may not be
visible,Something is happening.
28. A Small Boy-the fifth among seventh siblings
was selling newspapers in small village to
earn his living .
He was not exceptionally smart at school but
was facinated by Religion and Rockets.
The first Rocket he built crashed.
The missiles he built crashed multiple times.
But his “Self Confidence” and get going sprit
in him made him script the book “The Space
Odyssey of India Single Handedly.”
30. A School teacher scolded a boy for not
paying attention in mathematics.
For not solving a simple problem
And said that he would not become
anybody in life.
But his mother’s confidence in him
made her coach him mathematics.
And the Boy went on to become
31.
32. A Winner is not
the one who never
fails but…..the one
who never
quits…!!
