This document discusses being proactive versus reactive. It explains that when one is proactive, they make choices about how to respond to things in a calm manner and are prepared, while being reactive means exploding easily when things do not go their way. It encourages focusing on things within one's control, like attitude and treatment of others, rather than outside factors. It suggests carrying one's own weather or happiness with them to have a good day regardless of what happens. The goal is to make positive changes and differences through being proactive.