Cunning Minx and LustyGuy's painless poly dating class, first given at Seattle's Center for Sex Positive Culture

1. Dating
101
Cunning Minx & LustyGuywww.polyweekly.com
Painless
Poly
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2. Dating
101
Cunning Minx & LustyGuywww.polyweekly.com
Painless
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3. Dating
101
Cunning Minx & LustyGuywww.polyweekly.com
Painless
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4. HELLO.
@cunningminx @polyweekly
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5. HELLO.INTRODUCTIONS
@cunningminx @polyweekly
“Solo;” frequently dates someone in an existing
couple
MINX
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6. HELLO.INTRODUCTIONS
@cunningminx @polyweekly
“Solo;” frequently dates someone in an existing
couple
MINX
Married for over 30 years and has dated both in a
triad and ver
LUSTYGUY
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7. HELLO.INTRODUCTIONS
@cunningminx @polyweekly
“Solo;” frequently dates someone in an existing
couple
MINX
Married for over 30 years and has dated both in a
triad and ver
LUSTYGUY

8. BEFORE YOU DATE.
@cunningminx
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9. BEFORE YOU DATE.Get yourself in emotional shape
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10. BEFORE YOU DATE.Get yourself in emotional shape
It’s best to date when you are the best and happiest
version of yourself.
BEST SELF
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11. BEFORE YOU DATE.Get yourself in emotional shape
It’s best to date when you are the best and happiest
version of yourself.
BEST SELF
KNOW YOURSELF
It’s easiest to date when you know who you are and
what you want.
@cunningminx
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12. BEFORE YOU DATE.Get yourself in emotional shape
It’s best to date when you are the best and happiest
version of yourself.
BEST SELF
KNOW YOURSELF
It’s easiest to date when you know who you are and
what you want.
BE A DECENT HUMAN
Before you start dating, do a reality check: will you
be able to offer agency to a new partner?
@cunningminx
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13. BEFORE YOU DATE.Get yourself in emotional shape
It’s best to date when you are the best and happiest
version of yourself.
BEST SELF
KNOW YOURSELF
It’s easiest to date when you know who you are and
what you want.
BE A DECENT HUMAN
Before you start dating, do a reality check: will you
be able to offer agency to a new partner?
@cunningminx
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14. BEFORE YOU DATE.Get yourself in emotional shape
It’s best to date when you are the best and happiest
version of yourself.
BEST SELF
KNOW YOURSELF
It’s easiest to date when you know who you are and
what you want.
BE A DECENT HUMAN
Before you start dating, do a reality check: will you
be able to offer agency to a new partner?
@cunningminx

15. BEFORE YOU DATE.
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16. BEFORE YOU DATE.Think about your philosophy
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17. BEFORE YOU DATE.Think about your philosophy
What kind of person are you?
SELF
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18. BEFORE YOU DATE.Think about your philosophy
What kind of person are you?
SELF
WHY
Why are you dating?
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19. BEFORE YOU DATE.Think about your philosophy
What kind of person are you?
SELF
WHY
Why are you dating?
GOALS
What are you looking for and why?
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20. BEFORE YOU DATE.Think about your philosophy
What kind of person are you?
SELF
WHY
Why are you dating?
GOALS
What are you looking for and why?
@cunningminx
What are you not looking for but open to?
OPEN
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21. BEFORE YOU DATE.Think about your philosophy
What kind of person are you?
SELF
WHY
Why are you dating?
GOALS
What are you looking for and why?
@cunningminx
What are you not looking for but open to?
OPEN
What are your hard limits?
LIMITS
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22. BEFORE YOU DATE.Think about your philosophy
What kind of person are you?
SELF
WHY
Why are you dating?
GOALS
What are you looking for and why?
@cunningminx
What are you not looking for but open to?
OPEN
What are your hard limits?
LIMITS

23. BEFORE YOU DATE.
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24. BEFORE YOU DATE.Set dating goals independent of others
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25. BEFORE YOU DATE.Set dating goals independent of others
Set five dates a month
YOUR BEHAVIOR
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26. BEFORE YOU DATE.Set dating goals independent of others
Set five dates a month
YOUR BEHAVIOR
YOUR ATTITUDE
Feel pretty at least twice this month
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27. BEFORE YOU DATE.Set dating goals independent of others
Set five dates a month
YOUR BEHAVIOR
YOUR ATTITUDE
Feel pretty at least twice this month
YOUR PROCESS
Spend one hour a week on OKC/FetLife
@cunningminx
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28. BEFORE YOU DATE.Set dating goals independent of others
Set five dates a month
YOUR BEHAVIOR
YOUR ATTITUDE
Feel pretty at least twice this month
YOUR PROCESS
Spend one hour a week on OKC/FetLife
@cunningminx
Plan two fun girls’ nights this month
BETTER YOU
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29. BEFORE YOU DATE.Set dating goals independent of others
Set five dates a month
YOUR BEHAVIOR
YOUR ATTITUDE
Feel pretty at least twice this month
YOUR PROCESS
Spend one hour a week on OKC/FetLife
@cunningminx
Plan two fun girls’ nights this month
BETTER YOU
Give myself credit for being a good, smart, hot date
after each date
YOUR REWARD
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30. BEFORE YOU DATE.Set dating goals independent of others
Set five dates a month
YOUR BEHAVIOR
YOUR ATTITUDE
Feel pretty at least twice this month
YOUR PROCESS
Spend one hour a week on OKC/FetLife
@cunningminx
Plan two fun girls’ nights this month
BETTER YOU
Give myself credit for being a good, smart, hot date
after each date
YOUR REWARD

31. BEFORE YOU DATE.
@cunningminx
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32. BEFORE YOU DATE.Think about your metamour approach
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33. BEFORE YOU DATE.Think about your metamour approach
How and when do you want to meet your
metamours?
MEETING
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34. BEFORE YOU DATE.Think about your metamour approach
How and when do you want to meet your
metamours?
MEETING
YOUR APPROACH
Will you be cautious, neutral, welcoming?
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35. BEFORE YOU DATE.Think about your metamour approach
How and when do you want to meet your
metamours?
MEETING
YOUR APPROACH
Will you be cautious, neutral, welcoming?
YOUR SPACE
What do you have room for? What will you make
room for?
@cunningminx
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36. BEFORE YOU DATE.Think about your metamour approach
How and when do you want to meet your
metamours?
MEETING
YOUR APPROACH
Will you be cautious, neutral, welcoming?
YOUR SPACE
What do you have room for? What will you make
room for?
@cunningminx

37. STRATEGIZE SELF CARE.
@cunningminx
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38. STRATEGIZE SELF CARE.Your strategy for when your parter is on a date
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39. DISCUSS
Talk about any insecurities
with your partner in
advance. Own your shit!
STRATEGIZE SELF CARE.Your strategy for when your parter is on a date
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40. DISTRACT
Plan for self-care: take a
bubble bath, go out with
your friends
DISCUSS
Talk about any insecurities
with your partner in
advance. Own your shit!
STRATEGIZE SELF CARE.Your strategy for when your parter is on a date
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41. DO
Reconnect with your
partner afterwards
emotionally and/or
sexually
DISTRACT
Plan for self-care: take a
bubble bath, go out with
your friends
DISCUSS
Talk about any insecurities
with your partner in
advance. Own your shit!
STRATEGIZE SELF CARE.Your strategy for when your parter is on a date
@cunningminx
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42. DO
Reconnect with your
partner afterwards
emotionally and/or
sexually
DISTRACT
Plan for self-care: take a
bubble bath, go out with
your friends
DISCUSS
Talk about any insecurities
with your partner in
advance. Own your shit!
STRATEGIZE SELF CARE.Your strategy for when your parter is on a date
@cunningminx

43. DATING THE APPROACH
@cunningminx
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44. DATING THE APPROACH
@cunningminx

45. DATING THE APPROACH
@cunningminx

46. GETTING STARTED.
@cunningminx
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47. GETTING STARTED.Two key tips
@cunningminx
Best way to meet people is to go out and do the
stuff you love and be your best self.
DO WHAT YOU LOVE
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48. GETTING STARTED.Two key tips
@cunningminx
Best way to meet people is to go out and do the
stuff you love and be your best self.
DO WHAT YOU LOVE
Do not assume you can convert someone to a
relationship style that wasn't their idea.
DATE YOUR SPECIES
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49. GETTING STARTED.Two key tips
@cunningminx
Best way to meet people is to go out and do the
stuff you love and be your best self.
DO WHAT YOU LOVE
Do not assume you can convert someone to a
relationship style that wasn't their idea.
DATE YOUR SPECIES
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50. GETTING STARTED.Two key tips
@cunningminx
Best way to meet people is to go out and do the
stuff you love and be your best self.
DO WHAT YOU LOVE
Do not assume you can convert someone to a
relationship style that wasn't their idea.
DATE YOUR SPECIES

51. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.
@cunningminx
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52. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.Profile photo
@cunningminx
Your profile shot should show you at your best:
crazy, fun, sexy, geeky, pensive.
HEADSHOT
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53. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.Profile photo
@cunningminx
Your profile shot should show you at your best:
crazy, fun, sexy, geeky, pensive.
HEADSHOT
Your profile shot should show at a glance who you are
and how you interact with people.
FIRST IMPRESSION
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54. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.Profile photo
@cunningminx
Your profile shot should show you at your best:
crazy, fun, sexy, geeky, pensive.
HEADSHOT
Your profile shot should show at a glance who you are
and how you interact with people.
FIRST IMPRESSION
Photo courtesy Mollena
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55. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.Profile photo
@cunningminx
Your profile shot should show you at your best:
crazy, fun, sexy, geeky, pensive.
HEADSHOT
Your profile shot should show at a glance who you are
and how you interact with people.
FIRST IMPRESSION

56. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.Profile photo
@cunningminx
Your profile shot should show you at your best:
crazy, fun, sexy, geeky, pensive.
HEADSHOT
Your profile shot should show at a glance who you are
and how you interact with people.
FIRST IMPRESSION

57. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.Profile photo
@cunningminx
Your profile shot should show you at your best:
crazy, fun, sexy, geeky, pensive.
HEADSHOT
Your profile shot should show at a glance who you are
and how you interact with people.
FIRST IMPRESSION

58. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.Profile photo
@cunningminx
Your profile shot should show you at your best:
crazy, fun, sexy, geeky, pensive.
HEADSHOT
Your profile shot should show at a glance who you are
and how you interact with people.
FIRST IMPRESSION
Photo courtesy Anita Wagner

59. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.
@cunningminx
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60. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.Photo gallery
@cunningminx
Primarily you, your work and your hobbies/fun.
DO SHOW
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61. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.Photo gallery
@cunningminx
Primarily you, your work and your hobbies/fun.
DO SHOW
Cheesy snapshots of the last 20 girls you beat or who
sucked your cock.
DO NOT SHOW
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62. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.Photo gallery
@cunningminx
Primarily you, your work and your hobbies/fun.
DO SHOW
Cheesy snapshots of the last 20 girls you beat or who
sucked your cock.
DO NOT SHOW

63. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.
@cunningminx
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64. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.List your fetishes and/or answer questions
@cunningminx
It’s polite to list out your fetishes in the fetish section
for easy scanning.
LIST YOUR FETISHES
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65. TELL US WHO YOU ARE.List your fetishes and/or answer questions
@cunningminx
It’s polite to list out your fetishes in the fetish section
for easy scanning.
LIST YOUR FETISHES
The more questions you answer on OKC, the better
match rate you get
ANWER QUESTIONS

66. HOW TO APPROACH.
@cunningminx
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67. HOW TO APPROACH.Do your homework first
@cunningminx
Read a user’s profile thoroughly before approaching
him/her.
READ THOROUGHLY
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68. HOW TO APPROACH.Do your homework first
@cunningminx
Read a user’s profile thoroughly before approaching
him/her.
READ THOROUGHLY
Check for contraindications. Use third-grade
reading skills.
PAYATTENTION
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69. HOW TO APPROACH.Do your homework first
@cunningminx
Read a user’s profile thoroughly before approaching
him/her.
READ THOROUGHLY
Check for contraindications. Use third-grade
reading skills.
PAYATTENTION

70. HOW TO APPROACH.Do your homework first
@cunningminx
Read a user’s profile thoroughly before approaching
him/her.
READ THOROUGHLY
Check for contraindications. Use third-grade
reading skills.
PAYATTENTION
Not seeking new partners right now

71. HOW TO APPROACH.Do your homework first
@cunningminx
Read a user’s profile thoroughly before approaching
him/her.
READ THOROUGHLY
Check for contraindications. Use third-grade
reading skills.
PAYATTENTION
Not seeking new partners right now
www.practicalpolyamory.com

72. HOW TO APPROACH.Do your homework first
@cunningminx
Read a user’s profile thoroughly before approaching
him/her.
READ THOROUGHLY
Check for contraindications. Use third-grade
reading skills.
PAYATTENTION
Not seeking new partners right now
www.practicalpolyamory.com
Conversation starter: True Blood,
Dexter, Grey’s Anatomy

73. HOW TO APPROACH.
@cunningminx
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74. HOW TO APPROACH.Start a conversation
@cunningminx
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75. HOW TO APPROACH.Start a conversation
Make a statement or observation based on the
user’s profile.
STATEMENT
@cunningminx
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76. HOW TO APPROACH.Start a conversation
Make a statement or observation based on the
user’s profile.
STATEMENT
DISCLOSURE
Reveal something personal about yourself based on
the user’s profile.
@cunningminx
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77. HOW TO APPROACH.Start a conversation
Make a statement or observation based on the
user’s profile.
STATEMENT
DISCLOSURE
Reveal something personal about yourself based on
the user’s profile.
INVITATION
Ask to chat, coffee, scene (if not contraindicated).
@cunningminx
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78. HOW TO APPROACH.Start a conversation
Make a statement or observation based on the
user’s profile.
STATEMENT
DISCLOSURE
Reveal something personal about yourself based on
the user’s profile.
INVITATION
Ask to chat, coffee, scene (if not contraindicated).
@cunningminx
Hey, Dexter is cool. Serial killers are
awesome, especially when they are
working for good.
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79. HOW TO APPROACH.Start a conversation
Make a statement or observation based on the
user’s profile.
STATEMENT
DISCLOSURE
Reveal something personal about yourself based on
the user’s profile.
INVITATION
Ask to chat, coffee, scene (if not contraindicated).
@cunningminx
Hey, Dexter is cool. Serial killers are
awesome, especially when they are
working for good.
I’m not a serial killer, but I’d like to play
one on TV.

80. HOW TO APPROACH.Start a conversation
Make a statement or observation based on the
user’s profile.
STATEMENT
DISCLOSURE
Reveal something personal about yourself based on
the user’s profile.
INVITATION
Ask to chat, coffee, scene (if not contraindicated).
@cunningminx
Hey, Dexter is cool. Serial killers are
awesome, especially when they are
working for good.
I’m not a serial killer, but I’d like to play
one on TV.
I’m not looking for a partner, and I see
you’re not, either. Want to platonically
geek out about Dexter over coffee some
time?

81. GREAT DATE 101.
@cunningminx
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82. GREAT DATE 101.Before the date
@cunningminx
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83. GREAT DATE 101.Before the date
Meet with your partners and review and adapt safer
sex guidelines
SAFER SEX
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84. GREAT DATE 101.Before the date
Meet with your partners and review and adapt safer
sex guidelines
SAFER SEX
WHERE
Choose a public place where you feel safe
@cunningminx
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85. GREAT DATE 101.Before the date
Meet with your partners and review and adapt safer
sex guidelines
SAFER SEX
WHERE
Choose a public place where you feel safe
SAFETY CALL
Arrange a friend or partner to call you as a safety
check
@cunningminx
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86. GREAT DATE 101.Before the date
Meet with your partners and review and adapt safer
sex guidelines
SAFER SEX
WHERE
Choose a public place where you feel safe
SAFETY CALL
Arrange a friend or partner to call you as a safety
check
@cunningminx

87. GREAT DATE 101.
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88. GREAT DATE 101.Before the date
@cunningminx
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89. GREAT DATE 101.Before the date
Review and reveal your relationship status and his/
hers/theirs
RELATIONSHIP STATUS
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90. GREAT DATE 101.Before the date
Review and reveal your relationship status and his/
hers/theirs
RELATIONSHIP STATUS
GROOMING
Shower. Nose and ear hair. Brush teeth. Deodorant.
@cunningminx

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HOW TO START.
@cunningminx

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HOW TO START.Starting a conversation with anyone
@cunningminx

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HOW TO START.Starting a conversation with anyone
Make a statement or observation based on what you
know
STATEMENT
@cunningminx
I saw on your profile that you’re really
into knitting.

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HOW TO START.Starting a conversation with anyone
Make a statement or observation based on what you
know
STATEMENT
DISCLOSURE
Reveal something personal about yourself based on
the user’s profile.
@cunningminx
I saw on your profile that you’re really
into knitting.
So is my wife!

95. HOW TO START.Starting a conversation with anyone
Make a statement or observation based on what you
know
STATEMENT
DISCLOSURE
Reveal something personal about yourself based on
the user’s profile.
INVITATION
Invite to elaborate.
@cunningminx
I saw on your profile that you’re really
into knitting.
So is my wife!
What have you been working on lately?

96. HOW TO START.
@cunningminx
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97. HOW TO START.Conversation starters
@cunningminx
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98. HOW TO START.Conversation starters
What was your favorite book when you where 12?
CHILDHOOD
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99. HOW TO START.Conversation starters
What was your favorite book when you where 12?
CHILDHOOD
FAMILY
What did your parents never find out about you?
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100. HOW TO START.Conversation starters
What was your favorite book when you where 12?
CHILDHOOD
FAMILY
What did your parents never find out about you?
TEEN DREAM
What did you want to be when you were 15?
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101. HOW TO START.Conversation starters
What was your favorite book when you where 12?
CHILDHOOD
FAMILY
What did your parents never find out about you?
TEEN DREAM
What did you want to be when you were 15?
@cunningminx
What is the worst thing your last ex would tell me
about you?
RELATIONSHIPS
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102. HOW TO START.Conversation starters
What was your favorite book when you where 12?
CHILDHOOD
FAMILY
What did your parents never find out about you?
TEEN DREAM
What did you want to be when you were 15?
@cunningminx
What is the worst thing your last ex would tell me
about you?
RELATIONSHIPS
How is the date going so far?
CHECK-IN
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you date to date Before After Review
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103. HOW TO START.Conversation starters
What was your favorite book when you where 12?
CHILDHOOD
FAMILY
What did your parents never find out about you?
TEEN DREAM
What did you want to be when you were 15?
@cunningminx
What is the worst thing your last ex would tell me
about you?
RELATIONSHIPS
How is the date going so far?
CHECK-IN

104. HOW TO START.Conversation starters
What was your favorite book when you where 12?
CHILDHOOD
FAMILY
What did your parents never find out about you?
TEEN DREAM
What did you want to be when you were 15?
@cunningminx
What is the worst thing your last ex would tell me
about you?
RELATIONSHIPS
How is the date going so far?
CHECK-IN
How do you do polyamory?
REALITY CHECK

105. HOW TO END.
@cunningminx
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106. HOW TO END.
As the date closes, don’t wonder!
Say how you think it’s going and
ask for what you want.
Be OK with hearing “no.” And be
prepared to hear “yes”!
Review
and next steps
@cunningminx
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107. HOW TO END.
As the date closes, don’t wonder!
Say how you think it’s going and
ask for what you want.
Be OK with hearing “no.” And be
prepared to hear “yes”!
Review
and next steps
@cunningminx
I think this has gone really well; I kinda
like you and would love to
[go for coffee]
[see you again]
[go to my place and fuck].
What about you?

108. AFTERCARE.
@cunningminx
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109. AFTERCARE.Do the work!
@cunningminx
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110. AFTERCARE.Do the work!
Call, text, message as appropriate to thank for the
date.
DATE
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111. AFTERCARE.Do the work!
Call, text, message as appropriate to thank for the
date.
DATE
PARTNER
Check in with your partner for emotional and/or
sexual aftercare.
@cunningminx
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112. AFTERCARE.Do the work!
Call, text, message as appropriate to thank for the
date.
DATE
PARTNER
Check in with your partner for emotional and/or
sexual aftercare.
SELF
Reward yourself for the risks you took, regardless of
the outcome.
@cunningminx

113. YOURTURN.
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114. Q&A
YOURTURN.U CAN HAZ QUESTIONS?
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115. Q&A
YOURTURN.U CAN HAZ QUESTIONS?
@cunningminx

116. followMINX.
@cunningminx

117. followMINX.social links
FACEBOOK
WWW.FACEBOOK.COM/cunningminx
TWITTER
WWW.TWITTER.COM/cunningminx
WWW.POLYWEEKLY.COM
BLOG
GOOGLE+
WWW.GPLUS.TO/CUNNINGMINX
SLIDESHARE
WWW.SLIDESHARE.NET/cunningminx
@cunningminx
TWITTER
WWW.TWITTER.COM/polyweekly