11. Social psychology is on
our side
• Most customers are
“unrecognized experts”
• We love to sound smart
• We love to be helpful
• We love to feel in control of
our destiny (make things
better in our lives)
12. People do not care about
• Your credentials
• Your personal history
• Your product (don’t sell me
#@*%!)
13. My name is
[name]
and I’m trying to solve
[problem]
and I’d love to learn
from you because
[reason].
Could you talk with me
for 20 minutes?
14.
15. Getting people to talk (a
lot):
• Thank you!
• I’m going to talk as little as
possible
• Nothing you say will be boring
16. Getting people to talk (a
lot):
• Tell me about the last time…
• 60 seconds of silence
• No “yes/no” questions
• Who / What / When / How / Why
26. I’ve learned so much from you!
I think we’ll have some
ideas/prototype/demo ready in a
week or two.
Can I get back in touch then and
show you something?