4. Ten Commandments of
Rock Your Family
• Commandment #1: I am the parent and
you are not
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5. Ten Commandments of
Rock Your Family
• Commandment #1: I am the parent and
you are not
• What does it look like to train/instruct and
build a relationship with your teenagers?
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7. I Am The Parent
• At 13, teens become addicted to freedom
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8. I Am The Parent
• At 13, teens become addicted to freedom
• They are becoming adults
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9. I Am The Parent
• At 13, teens become addicted to freedom
• They are becoming adults
• We should expect them to pull away
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10. I Am The Parent
• At 13, teens become addicted to freedom
• They are becoming adults
• We should expect them to pull away
• They have to
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12. I Am The Parent
• Sometimes the harder we push our values on
them, they harder they push against it
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13. I Am The Parent
• Sometimes the harder we push our values on
them, they harder they push against it
• Allow them freedom to choose their values
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14. I Am The Parent
• Sometimes the harder we push our values on
them, they harder they push against it
• Allow them freedom to choose their values
• This creates tension
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15. I Am The Parent
• Sometimes the harder we push our values on
them, they harder they push against it
• Allow them freedom to choose their values
• This creates tension
• Engage with them
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17. I Am The Parent
• This is the age when you start asking tons of
questions
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18. I Am The Parent
• This is the age when you start asking tons of
questions
• With teenagers, “Rules without relationship
equals rebellion”
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19. I Am The Parent
• This is the age when you start asking tons of
questions
• With teenagers, “Rules without relationship
equals rebellion”
• You enter their world
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20. I Am The Parent
• This is the age when you start asking tons of
questions
• With teenagers, “Rules without relationship
equals rebellion”
• You enter their world
• To engage with them means to pursue them
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