Chapter 7 in our book, Real Communication by Dan O'Hair and Mary Wiemann, 2nd Edition

1. Developing and
Maintaining
Relationships
REAL COMMUNICATION
BY DAN O’HAIR AND MARY WEIMANN
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2. Interpersonal Relationships
Interconnections
and
interdependence
between two
individuals.
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3. Interpersonal
Communication
Exchange of
verbal and
nonverbal
messages between
people who have
a relationship and
are influenced by
each other’s
messages.
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4. Types of Interpersonal
Relationships
family
friendship
love
online relationships
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5. Interpersonal Relationships
Friendship is a
close and caring
relationship
between 2 people
that is mutually
beneficial and
satisfying.
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6. Interpersonal Relationships
available
caring
honest
confidential
loyal
empathic
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7. Interpersonal Relationships
Love is a
relationship which
you have a deep
affection, intimacy,
passion, and
commitment.
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8. Interpersonal Relationships
eros
ludus
storge
pragma
mania
agape
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9. Interpersonal Relationships
Social Information
Processing Theory
says people use
unique cues in
online
relationships.
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10. Interpersonal Relationships
Hyperpersonal
communication
can be present in
online
communication as
much as in
person.
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11. Why do we form
relationships?
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12. We want
companionship and
have a need for
inclusion.
Inclusion
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13. We have a need for
mental, emotional,
and physical
stimulation.
Stimulation
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14. Some use
relationships to
fulfill a practical or
psychological goal.
Goals
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15. Interpersonal Attraction
Proximity or nearness is
one reason we form
relationships
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16. Interpersonal Attraction
Attraction-similarity
hypothesis says that
when we project
ourselves on other
people, we are more
attracted to them.
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17. Interpersonal Attraction
Matching hypothesis says
we are attracted to
those who have similar
levels of attractiveness.
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18. Interpersonal Attraction
Genetic-similarity
hypothesis says we tend
to favor relationships
with those who appear
genetically similar.
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19. Costs and Rewards
are the advantages
and disadvantages
that we have in all
relationships.
Relationship Dynamics
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20. Theory says that
when they meet,
their main focus is
on reducing
uncertainty.
Uncertainty Reduction
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21. Relational dialectics
theory says those
tensions are
contradictory
feelings that we
have in every
relationship.
Dialectical Tensions
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22. Self-Disclosure
Social Penetration
theory
Communication
Privacy management
theory
Strategic Topic
Avoidance
Other terms that you should know from this chapter.
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23. Stages of a Relationship
Initiating
Exploratory
Intensification
Stable
Declining
Repair
Termination
Reconciliation
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