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Lawyers as clients
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J. Richard Kulerski and Kari Cornelison http://civilizeddivorce.com/
What Do Divorce Lawyers Do In Their Own
Divorces?
Posted: 02/ 6/2012 12:30 pm
What do divorce lawyers do in their own divorces?
They try to stay out of court. Despite their familiarity with the system, and despite any perceived
advantage they are believed to have, they do everything they can to settle their case before it
reaches the court system.
Divorce insiders try to resist the inclination to fight. They think going to court is a losing
proposition. It wastes energy, time, and money and is a last resort; it is something they will
consider only when there is no other choice.
Why are the pros more reluctant to fight than the public is? What do they know that the average
person does not know?
They know what the divorce legal system looks like from the inside; and they see fighting it out
in court as a waste. They are not misled by Hollywood, and the various lawyer shows on
television, which have traditionally depicted courtroom justice as being clear-cut, instantaneous,
and sure.
They regard litigation (taking the case to court) as a counter-productive force that destroys their
chances of achieving a healthy negotiation climate.
They know the system doesn't run on time and doesn't have the magic that the public thinks it
has. They know there are no winners in a divorce battle, and that the outcome of a divorce trial
can only define the extent of how much they will lose.
Their experience is that everyone leaves the litigation process feeling frustrated, disillusioned,
and poorer. They see going to trial as an emotional vampire that sucks the spirit out of people;
they liken it to mental cruelty all over again.
3. Divorce insiders know that over 90 percent of all divorce cases settle before trial, with many
settling on the very eve of trial. It makes no sense to them to spend months (and lots of dollars)
gearing up for a trial that, statistically, isn't going to happen. They would prefer to spend their
energy and family funds working toward an early out-of-court settlement, rather than following
the typical pattern of waiting until the end of the case to begin serious negotiations.
Because more than nine out of every 10 divorcing spouses reach a settlement before they ever
get before a judge, insiders realize they will not get to vent and speak their minds in court. They
will be deprived of the opportunity to tell the judge about the injustices, the dishonesty, the
betrayal, the adultery, the lies, the pain, the unfairness, and most of the other things that the
public thinks the judge should hear.
They know their emotions, feelings, and pain do not count in a courtroom. Instead, when
deciding a case, the judge is duty-bound to stick to the facts and the applicable law. The judge is
likely to be prohibited from considering their underlying humanity, which is the very fulcrum
upon which they base their sense of justice and entitlement.
Even if they are the one out of ten litigants who do get the opportunity to testify in court, they
know they still won't be able to say what all they want to say. They will be allowed to speak only
when answering questions put to them by the lawyers, and the rules of evidence will limit what
the lawyers can ask.
Most people look to the judge to mete out the justice that their spouse has long withheld. Divorce
professionals, however, know there is no back pay in divorce and that the court cannot consider
misconduct in determining monetary or property awards.
In other areas of law, litigation puts an end to the problem. Divorce does bring legal closure, but
it often causes additional family problems. The emotional devastation caused by litigation can
last for decades.
Some people believe that divorce is where the guilty go free. To insiders, litigation does not
provide any satisfaction to the disputants and only makes sense when there is a genuine need for
it.