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1. Body Intelligence for Love
Our bodies have infinite intelligence. The body's wisdom is designed to help guide us towards
happiness and fulfillment. Each area of the body speaks for a different part of our psychology.
We tend to be most comfortable with using our minds to give us rational understanding and to
draw conclusions and make decisions. However different parts of our bodies can give us an
even more accurate reading about a given situation if we learn how to utilize it.
The heart, sexual and spiritual centers can be instrumental in helping one decide if a
prospective intimate relationship would be right or not. In modern history the heart has been
regarded as a voice of relationship intelligence. Literature, music and romantic films have
spun numerous accounts of someone lead by their heart towards an object of love or fleeing
from a partner because their heart has been broken.
We can utilize the hearts intelligence to discover if someone is a good love match for us by
observing what emotions we feel in our heart when we are around or think of a potential love
partner. Are we experiencing love, happiness, and laughter or are we feeling tense,
uncomfortable, and insecure in the heart? One may feel a combination of emotions which
means that spending more time with that person will be essential to getting a clear reading
and making a wise decision.
Our sexual center can also provide us valuable information and insight into choosing an
appropriate partner. We can tune in to our sexual emotional body wisdom to discern its more
subtle messages for sexual relationships. The sexual organs will either initially exhibit
attraction, what some refer to as chemistry, or repulsion towards a potential partner. But that
is only an initial indicator of whether someone may be an appropriate sexual match. If we
observe a sexual attraction objectively, the sexual center will also share broader feelings with

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For instance; we can learn to detect what sensations are present in the sexual center when
we see or think of a potential partner. Are there feelings of openness, relaxation, and
positive energy, or are there feelings of resistance, numbness, discomfort and pain in the
sexual center? We may feel some of both. Mixed sensations would indicate that you will need
more information before you can get a clear reading, about a potential partner.
Spiritual Connection is deeply important to developing a sacred relationship. The spiritual
center in the body is between the crown of the head and the third eye point between the
eyebrows. One can tune into the spiritual energy in a potential partner through two ways. First
communicate, share your values, beliefs, and the experiences that are meaningful to you and
ask questions about theirs. Be aware if there is harmony in those values and beliefs, and if you
perceive that you can grow and be supported in your spiritual nature and chosen path. The
spiritual aspect dictates how long and to what capacity the partnership could nurture each
souls personal evolution. One can also observe the spiritual energy emanating from a potential
partner and be aware of how their energy feels with yours. Does their spiritual energy make
you feel light, serene, comforted, inspired or does it make you feel heavy, disturbed, cold,
confused? Time and observation are the best tools for this analysis.
To make the best decision of whether a relationship will be right for you or not; the heart,
sexual and spiritual energies have to be accounted for. When an intimate relationship is a
sacred match our heart, sexual and spiritual centers will feel equally good and in unanimous
agreement. When it is not right they will unanimously disagree. The tricky part is when these
voices are experiencing different things which are in conflict. One may feel love for someone
that may not be the appropriate partner to bond with sexually. A person that you feel a great
sexual attraction towards may not be the appropriate partner to open and share your heart
with. One may feel a deep spiritual connection with someone that they do not feel love or
sexual chemistry for. In this case it is best to reflect on the subtle messages in your heart,
sexual and spiritual centers before making a decision.
There are other factors that contribute to great relationships including respect, honesty
generosity, receptivity and having compatible desires and needs for relationships. However,
discovering how to listen to the heart, sexual and spiritual voices and tune into them together
is key to good relationship decision making. Continued practice will help one learn to clearly
evaluate their signals and trust their guidance. When the heart, sexual and spiritual centers
meet in approval; you will gain more trust in your own emotional body wisdom to help you
choose sacred joyful, loving relationships.
Karinna Kittles-Karsten, The Love Educator, is the founder of SacredLove.com an online
dating, love school and fun couples membership site. She is also an internationally recognized
relationship expert, speaker, author of the best-selling book, Intimate Wisdom, The Sacred Art
of Love, and the creator/host of the popular DVD Sacred Love-Making. Visit
http://sacredlove.com.