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Martin Seligman, positive psychologist and author of the
2011 book Flourish, developed the PERMA model, which
details the five elements that must be in place for us to
experience lasting well-being.
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The five elements of the PERMA model are:
P: Positive Emotion
E: Engagement
R: (Positive) Relationships
M: Meaning
A: Accomplishment/Achievement
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In this third installment of our PERMA model series, we'll
discuss the third element in the model, which is
Relationships.
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Human beings are social beings, which means that we
crave healthy, empowering relationships the way we
crave air, food, and water. Relationships are essential to
our well-being. In fact, many studies have been
conducted showing that people with a larger support
network often outlive those without it by 22%!
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Given how essential relationships are to our success
and happiness, it makes sense to work toward
improving our relationships at work as well, all toward
the end goal of creating a more positive and productive
culture.
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After all, good working relationships mean more
enjoyable work, more innovation and creativity (since
we're in a zone of 'flow' as opposed to a zone of conflict
with others), more collaboration, and more focus on
new ideas and opportunities (and less time wasted on
conflict resolution and overcoming social problems).
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Relationships take engagement and hard work, though,
and theyâre often strengthened only when we make an
effort to connect with other people. So how can you
make a more concerted effort of establishing healthy
and happy relationships at the workplace? Here are just
6 ways that can be incredibly effective.
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Schedule Time to Build Relationships
Devote at least 20-30 minutes a day toward relationship building.
This can look like a variety of things. Visit a colleagueâs office during
lunch, reply to peopleâs postings on LinkedIn, or ask a colleague
out for a quick cup of coffee. These little interactions help build the
foundation of positive and fruitful relationships.
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Show Appreciation
We thrive when weâre validated and when we feel that our
contribution to the overall âbig pictureâ is well-received, it brings us
a sense of well-being. Whenever you can, compliment the people
around you when they do something well. This will foster positivity
in the workplace and make people that much more committed to
continually producing exceptional work.
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Focus on Your Emotional Intelligence
Itâs always important to spend time developing your emotional
intelligence (EI). The level of your emotional intelligence informs
your ability to monitor your emotions as well as the emotions of
others in addition to labeling emotions appropriately and using
emotional information to guide your thinking and behaviour.
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Focus on Your Emotional Intelligence
People with higher EI have greater mental health and exemplary
leadership skills. With a high EI, you can more easily manage
relationships effectively to move people in a desired direction or
redirect disruptive emotions when it comes to adapting to change.
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Listen Actively
Active listening is a communication technique used in counselling,
training and conflict resolution, which requires the listener to feed
back what they hear to the speaker, by way of re-stating or
paraphrasing what they have heard in their own words, to confirm
what they have heard and moreover, to confirm the understanding
of both parties.
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Listen Actively
Practice active listening when you talk to your customers and
colleagues to limit misunderstanding and to build stronger and
more open relationships.
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Avoid Gossiping
Never gossip. Gossip, along with dreaded office politics, is an
absolute relationship killer. If youâre experiencing conflict with
someone in your group, itâs absolutely crucial that you speak with
them directly about the problem. Gossiping about the situation
with other colleagues will only exacerbate the situation. It will also
cause mistrust and animosity between you.
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Identify Your Relationship Needs
Take a hard look at your relationship needs. What do you need
from others? What do others need from you? Is there a disconnect
between what you need and what youâre receiving or between
what others need and what youâre giving? Understanding these
needs can be instrumental in building better relationships and
opening the channels of communication between you and others.
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