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EX - 02
Communicate
like
Churchill
Learning to Speak and Lead through Listening
Randy Wilburn
AEC Consultant/Trainer
Know the difference between
hearing and Listening.
Are you an Active
Listener?
7 Deadly Listening Sins
1. Interrupting
2. “One-upping”
3. Interrogating
4. Daydreaming
5. Requesting a repeat
6. Environmental
distractions
7. Only waiting your turn
to speak
There is nothing so
annoying as having
two people talking
when you are busy
interrupting.
- Mark Twain
8 Active Listening Skills
1. Open-ended questions
2. Minimal encouragers
3. Effective pauses
4. Reflecting/Mirroring
5. Emotion labeling
6. Summarizing
7. Paraphrasing
8. “I”-Statements
Whether delivering to One or One Thousand
your Message should never sound canned
“When I get ready to talk to
people, I spend two thirds of the
time thinking what they want to
hear and one third thinking
about what I want to say.”
Structure a Winning Message
Create a strong Opening and Closing
statement.
Tell stories early and often. People will
remember stories.
Begin with the end in mind and work
backwards
You don’t have to memorize your
message but you should create and
memorize your key points.
Communication Skills
Pace, Tone, Pitch and simplified
language is key.
Visual Aids
Don’t try to capture your whole
message on a Powerpoint, ditch
the bullet points where possible,
use more pictures than words.
Body Language
Eyes that see
everything
Attention spans and
getting to the point
when speaking
Ask questions where
and when possible
Avoid filler words and
“Uhm!” Slow down
and take your time
Body Language
Finish Strong!
A good speaker is done talking
before the audience is done
listening.
Writing and Journaling
W
Writing Tips
1. Use Active Voice
2. Use Simple Words
3. Know Your
Audience
4. Use Online Tools
5. Edit frequently
6. Practice
Two Things…
Listen with intentionality,
own your message, and be
willing to share.
Finally, please don’t forget to
take the Survey on the Deltek
Insight Mobile App for this
session
Thank You!

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Communicate like Churchill

  • 1. EX - 02 Communicate like Churchill Learning to Speak and Lead through Listening Randy Wilburn AEC Consultant/Trainer
  • 2.
  • 3.
  • 4. Know the difference between hearing and Listening.
  • 5. Are you an Active Listener?
  • 6. 7 Deadly Listening Sins 1. Interrupting 2. “One-upping” 3. Interrogating 4. Daydreaming 5. Requesting a repeat 6. Environmental distractions 7. Only waiting your turn to speak
  • 7. There is nothing so annoying as having two people talking when you are busy interrupting. - Mark Twain
  • 8. 8 Active Listening Skills 1. Open-ended questions 2. Minimal encouragers 3. Effective pauses 4. Reflecting/Mirroring 5. Emotion labeling 6. Summarizing 7. Paraphrasing 8. “I”-Statements
  • 9. Whether delivering to One or One Thousand your Message should never sound canned
  • 10. “When I get ready to talk to people, I spend two thirds of the time thinking what they want to hear and one third thinking about what I want to say.”
  • 11. Structure a Winning Message Create a strong Opening and Closing statement. Tell stories early and often. People will remember stories. Begin with the end in mind and work backwards You don’t have to memorize your message but you should create and memorize your key points.
  • 12. Communication Skills Pace, Tone, Pitch and simplified language is key.
  • 13. Visual Aids Don’t try to capture your whole message on a Powerpoint, ditch the bullet points where possible, use more pictures than words.
  • 14. Body Language Eyes that see everything Attention spans and getting to the point when speaking Ask questions where and when possible Avoid filler words and “Uhm!” Slow down and take your time Body Language
  • 15. Finish Strong! A good speaker is done talking before the audience is done listening.
  • 16.
  • 18. Writing Tips 1. Use Active Voice 2. Use Simple Words 3. Know Your Audience 4. Use Online Tools 5. Edit frequently 6. Practice
  • 19.
  • 20. Two Things… Listen with intentionality, own your message, and be willing to share. Finally, please don’t forget to take the Survey on the Deltek Insight Mobile App for this session Thank You!