2. Keep Calm
If you're busy, stressed and easily
frustrated, either due to
circumstances at home or in the
office, this will have a negative effect
on your child too. If you're stressed,
it is bound to pass onto their mood
too. So it is essential that you do not
let your agitations get to you.
3. Make them Aware of their own Emotions
It is very important for you to talk to your
child and ask them to start expressing
emotions which they may find difficult. By
allowing them to express themselves and be
emotionally aware, this in turn prevents
emotions from building up inside them,
ultimately helping in gradually tapering
down the angry outbursts.
4. Don’t Get Physically Aggressive
The physical aggression would not only
make the child distance themselves from
you, it has been shown that children
subjected to physical aggression have
more of a tendency to "rebel" and show
anti-social behaviour as they grow up.
Though the reason for your outburst may
be due to their indiscipline, the best way,
still, is to remain calm.
5. Explain the Consequences of Poor
Behaviour
Your child needs to be told that whilst it is
acceptable to get angry, it is not acceptable
to show aggressive behaviour. For example,
if a child is angry that they were not served
their favourite dish and they start throwing
the cutlery around, tell them calmly, do not
shout, that it is fine to be disappointed at
the dish, but be stern and say it is not
acceptable to throw the cutlery as it is
dangerous and poor behaviour.
6. Recognise and Appreciate Improvement
Whilst they do say that praising your child
and rewarding them consistently can lead
to a sense of pampering and poor parenting,
it is not necessarily the case, anything in the
right proportions is not bad. Do not start
materialising their improved behaviour by
awarding expensive gifts or more TV time
as this in turn can have its consequences,
particularly if they keep demanding more
and you "do not keep your word".
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