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3. Note
Any managers, situations, and examples used in this presentation are either the products of our
imagination or used in a fictitious manner. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or
actual events is purely coincidental.
NOT :)
4. Let’s play a round of…
MISUNDERSTANDING OUR MANAGERS
5. Whatever kind of manager you have,
you have the ability to influence them
by understanding them
● Step 1: Understand what kind of manager
you have and what drives them
● Step 2: Use that understanding to
contextualize their actions and thinking and
their “good intent framework”
● Step 3: Create an influence plan based on
that understanding and context
14. Scenario 1: “The Reluctant Manager” is
letting your projects / career languish
Feels like
● Your manager is good at their main
job but not consistently focused
on you or your projects
● However, they may “swoop and
poop” when external pressures
arise
A good plan
● Be clear with what kind of
feedback you’re asking for and
getting
● Direct your manager’s product
brains to specific aspects of your
project
A bad plan
● Blame your lack of progress on
their lack of attention (will result in
defensiveness and reverse blame)
● Try to do it without their input (you
will end up accumulating debt that
is hard to payoff)
15. Scenario 2: “Lost in Translation” is
slowing down your roadmap
Feels like
● Short term discussions are
plentiful. Long term ones are
lacking
● Great feedback and development!
● No coherent strategy at a level
above you
A good plan
● Be excellent in areas they care
about
● Get feedback on longer term
strategy from other mentors within
the company
● Get wins across the organization
and bring your manager along
● Bring them along while flipping to
ego “You probably already thought
about this. What if we approached
it this way?”
A bad plan
● A direct mutiny or put down
● Treat their product feedback as an
annoyance
16. Scenario 3: “The Problem” is playing
politics and information control
Feels like
● You cannot trust your manager.
● They throw you under the bus, hold
back info, play you against your
peers, or complain about you
behind your back.
● Their product vision is not strong
A good plan
● If you don’t think you can be
successful, consider exit options -
internal and external
● State your concerns in the form of
how you could deliver more if you
had more visibility, alignment, etc
A bad plan
● Directly accuse or go over your
manager’s head (may result in
nasty retaliation)
17. Scenario 4: Hitting the accelerator with
“the Unicorn”
Feels like
● You are learning in every meeting
● You are meaningfully challenged
(sometime too much)
● “Impostor syndrome”
A good plan
● Clarifies your career aspirations
with your manager; tell them
exactly how you want them to
coach you
● Recognize their blind spots
A bad plan
● Tries to “win” at all costs
● Puts your ego against your
manager’s ego
19. Bringing It All Together
● Assess your manager, and reverse engineer them
to understand their assessment of themself
● Use your manager’s mental model and “good
intent framework” as context for discussions and
requests with them
● When you have a big discussion scheduled with
your manager, invest the time in thinking it
through, and use this worksheet as a tool to
organize your thoughts