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FORGIVENESS
Helping Hurting
People Ministry
Phyllis Davis and Jackie Dorn
Prayer Breakfast – April 14, 2013
Morning Star Baptist church
OBJECTIVES
• Define Forgiveness
• What the Bible says about
Forgiveness
• Learn the Power of
Forgiveness
• Consequences of Forgiveness
• How to Forgive
• Healing from Forgiveness
• I FORGIVE YOU
FORGIVENESS Defined
• To Pardon or Release (grant
pardon without harboring resistance)
• The act of excusing a mistake
or offense
• Ceasing to feel resentment or
anger because of an offense
committed (free the offender from
the consequences of it) Psalm 103:8-12
THE WORD ON FORGIVENESS
• Psalm 86:4-5 For you, O Lord, are good and forgiving…
• Isaiah 55:6-7 God will abundantly pardon…..
• Matthew 6:14 Forgive others because you love the Lord and he forgives you…
• Luke 7:47-48 he who is forgiven little, loves little…
• Luke 17:3-5 If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive
him…
• Acts 10:42-43He who believes in him receives forgiveness of sins through his name…
• 2 Corinthians 2:5-8 Stand ready to forgive, reaffirm love …
• 2 Corinthians 5:18-19 Reconciliation…
• Ephesians 1:7-10 In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of
our trespasses…
• Ephesians 4:31-32 Put away bitterness anger and wrath …
• Colossians 1:13-14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins…
• Colossians 3:13 Lord is good and forgiving abounding in steadfast love…
Consequence of FORGIVENESS
Mathew 5:22-24
“But I say to you that whoever is angry with his
brother without a cause shall be in danger of the
judgment. And whoever says to his brother, ‘Raca!’
shall be in danger of the council. But whoever says,
‘You fool!’ shall be in danger of hell fire. 23 Therefore
if you bring your gift to the altar, and there
remember that your brother has something against
you, 24 leave your gift there before the altar, and go
your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and
then come and offer your gift.”
Raca is used to express contempt or disdain. It means
empty, vain and worthless. It signifies lack of intellect.
HEALTH OF FORGIVENESS
• Healthier relationships
• Greater spiritual and
psychological well-being
• Less anxiety, stress and hostility
• Lower blood pressure
• Fewer symptoms of depression
• Lower risk of alcohol and
substance abuse
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/forgiveness/MH00131
HOW TO FORGIVE
• PRAY
• Forgive by faith;
• Forgive and Forget;
• For a lifetime Mathew 18:21-22;
• Do it for yourself to get well and move on;
• Value forgiveness for importance in your life;
• Reflect on the facts of the situation, how you've reacted, and how
this combination has affected your life, health and well-being;
• When you're ready, actively choose to forgive the person who's
offended you;
• Move away from your role as victim and release the control and
power the offending person and situation have had in your life;
• Acknowledge the wrongs you've done and how those wrongs have
affected others; and
• Speak of your sincere sorrow or regret, and specifically ask for
forgiveness — without making excuses
HEALING POWER OF FORGIVENESS
• Forgiveness creates freedom
• Choose to ask for Forgiveness
• Release to take hold of emotional
healing
• Slow Process 21 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord,
how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till
seven times? 22 Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until
seven times: but, Until seventy times seven. (Mathew 18:21-22)
• Heal by Seeking Forgiveness from
GOD
• Embrace healing through restitution
• Find Forgiveness by Forgiving yourself
I AM A FAN OF FORGIVENESS
THE LORD FORGAVE ME!
I FORGIVE YOU!
FORGIVE ME!
I FORGIVE MYSELF!
PRAYERS OF FORGIVENESS
• This is a suggested prayer to pray as you "talk" to each person:
Because I am forgiven and accepted by Christ, I can now forgive and
accept you, _____________, unconditionally in Christ. I choose now
to forgive you, _____________, no matter what you did to me. I
release you from the hurts (take time to name the hurts), and you
are no longer accountable to me for them. You are free.
• When you have finished praying through the hurts you have
suffered, pray this prayer of faith: "Lord Jesus, by faith, I receive
Your unconditional love and acceptance in the place of this hurt,
and I trust You to meet all my needs, I take authority over the
Enemy, and in the name of Jesus, I take back the ground I have
allowed Satan to gain in my life because of my attitude toward
_____________. Right now I give this ground back to the Lord Jesus
Christ to whom it rightfully belongs."

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Fan of forgiveness rev 4 12-13

  • 1. FORGIVENESS Helping Hurting People Ministry Phyllis Davis and Jackie Dorn Prayer Breakfast – April 14, 2013 Morning Star Baptist church
  • 2. OBJECTIVES • Define Forgiveness • What the Bible says about Forgiveness • Learn the Power of Forgiveness • Consequences of Forgiveness • How to Forgive • Healing from Forgiveness • I FORGIVE YOU
  • 3. FORGIVENESS Defined • To Pardon or Release (grant pardon without harboring resistance) • The act of excusing a mistake or offense • Ceasing to feel resentment or anger because of an offense committed (free the offender from the consequences of it) Psalm 103:8-12
  • 4. THE WORD ON FORGIVENESS • Psalm 86:4-5 For you, O Lord, are good and forgiving… • Isaiah 55:6-7 God will abundantly pardon….. • Matthew 6:14 Forgive others because you love the Lord and he forgives you… • Luke 7:47-48 he who is forgiven little, loves little… • Luke 17:3-5 If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him… • Acts 10:42-43He who believes in him receives forgiveness of sins through his name… • 2 Corinthians 2:5-8 Stand ready to forgive, reaffirm love … • 2 Corinthians 5:18-19 Reconciliation… • Ephesians 1:7-10 In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses… • Ephesians 4:31-32 Put away bitterness anger and wrath … • Colossians 1:13-14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins… • Colossians 3:13 Lord is good and forgiving abounding in steadfast love…
  • 5. Consequence of FORGIVENESS Mathew 5:22-24 “But I say to you that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment. And whoever says to his brother, ‘Raca!’ shall be in danger of the council. But whoever says, ‘You fool!’ shall be in danger of hell fire. 23 Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.” Raca is used to express contempt or disdain. It means empty, vain and worthless. It signifies lack of intellect.
  • 6. HEALTH OF FORGIVENESS • Healthier relationships • Greater spiritual and psychological well-being • Less anxiety, stress and hostility • Lower blood pressure • Fewer symptoms of depression • Lower risk of alcohol and substance abuse http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/forgiveness/MH00131
  • 7. HOW TO FORGIVE • PRAY • Forgive by faith; • Forgive and Forget; • For a lifetime Mathew 18:21-22; • Do it for yourself to get well and move on; • Value forgiveness for importance in your life; • Reflect on the facts of the situation, how you've reacted, and how this combination has affected your life, health and well-being; • When you're ready, actively choose to forgive the person who's offended you; • Move away from your role as victim and release the control and power the offending person and situation have had in your life; • Acknowledge the wrongs you've done and how those wrongs have affected others; and • Speak of your sincere sorrow or regret, and specifically ask for forgiveness — without making excuses
  • 8. HEALING POWER OF FORGIVENESS • Forgiveness creates freedom • Choose to ask for Forgiveness • Release to take hold of emotional healing • Slow Process 21 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? 22 Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven. (Mathew 18:21-22) • Heal by Seeking Forgiveness from GOD • Embrace healing through restitution • Find Forgiveness by Forgiving yourself
  • 9. I AM A FAN OF FORGIVENESS THE LORD FORGAVE ME! I FORGIVE YOU! FORGIVE ME! I FORGIVE MYSELF!
  • 10. PRAYERS OF FORGIVENESS • This is a suggested prayer to pray as you "talk" to each person: Because I am forgiven and accepted by Christ, I can now forgive and accept you, _____________, unconditionally in Christ. I choose now to forgive you, _____________, no matter what you did to me. I release you from the hurts (take time to name the hurts), and you are no longer accountable to me for them. You are free. • When you have finished praying through the hurts you have suffered, pray this prayer of faith: "Lord Jesus, by faith, I receive Your unconditional love and acceptance in the place of this hurt, and I trust You to meet all my needs, I take authority over the Enemy, and in the name of Jesus, I take back the ground I have allowed Satan to gain in my life because of my attitude toward _____________. Right now I give this ground back to the Lord Jesus Christ to whom it rightfully belongs."

Hinweis der Redaktion

  1. ADVISE NOT A LECTURE WILL HAVE YOU ALL TALK TO US INTERACTIVE HANDOUT IS YOUR TOOL TO REFER TO if you find yourself needing to forgive, to be forgiven
  2. ASK: WHAT ARE WE GOING to LEARN TODAY Have Participants read objectives: WE WANT YOU LEAVING HERE with knowledge about how serious FORGIVENESS is and how it should be apart of our Christian Walk.
  3. ASK WHAT IS FORGIVENESS (participants respond) Have participants read Decision to let go of resentment and thoughts of revenge Lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you Romans 12:19 (King James Version) Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. WARM-UP ACTIVITY
  4. Approx 50 scriptures or more on Forgiveness GOD’S FORGIVENESS OF US IS THE BASIS FOR THE GRACE TO FORGIVE OTHERS ITS OUR DECISION TO ACCEPT GOD’S GRACE TO FORGIVE A few scriptures that talk about forgiveness, many stories and more scriptures. Once I began my study and learned about how truly our GOD is a forgiving GOD, I need to sleep on top of the Bible, because the way the world is going, it is going to take a lot of forgiving, because the devil is busy trying to seek and destroy all that is good!!!
  5. JACKIE PRESENTS Matthew 5:22-24 But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire. So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift. Read more: http://www.whatchristianswanttoknow.com/bible-verses-about-forgiveness-20-encouraging-scripture-quotes/#ixzz2PcZqfAeP
  6. PHYLLIS PRESENTS What are the benefits of forgiving someone? Letting go of grudges and bitterness can make way for compassion, kindness and peace. Generally, forgiveness is a decision to let go of resentment and thoughts of revenge. The act that hurt or offended you might always remain a part of your life, but forgiveness can lessen its grip on you and help you focus on other, positive parts of your life. Forgiveness can even lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you. Forgiveness doesn't mean that you deny the other person's responsibility for hurting you, and it doesn't minimize or justify the wrong. You can forgive the person without excusing the act. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that helps you go on with life.
  7. Faith: We forgive by faith out of obedience. Since forgiveness goes against our nature, we must forgive by faith, whether we feel like it or not. (our job), by faith, until the work of forgiveness (the Lord's job), is done in our hearts. , Forgive and Forget, "When you release the wrongdoer from the wrong, you cut a malignant tumor out of your inner life. \ For a Life Time: Matthew 18:21-22 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times. (NIV)11 Forgiveness is not easy for us. It's not a one-time choice and then we automatically live in a state of forgiveness. Forgiveness may require a lifetime of forgiving, but it is important to the Lord. We must continue forgiving until the matter is settled in our heart. Consider the value of forgiveness and its importance in your life at a given time Reflect on the facts of the situation, how you've reacted, and how this combination has affected your life, health and well-being
  8. JACKIE PRESENTS We will know the work of forgiveness is complete when we experience the freedom that comes as a result. We are the ones who suffer most when we choose not to forgive. When we do forgive, the Lord sets our hearts free from the anger9, bitterness10, resentment and hurt that previously imprisoned us. Most times, however, forgiveness is a slow process.
  9. Provide explanation about the Fans. Used only as a tool to begin the process of asking for forgiveness, one still has to go to his brother if he has an “ought.” and talk to each other face to face. If you cant’ seem to bring yourself to saying the words at that moment, hold up your fan.