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Healing Power
1. Healing Power
Ten Steps to Pain Management
and Spiritual Evolution
Dr. Phil Shapiro
Founder and Director
Northwest Institute for Healing Power
2. Integrative Medicine
Separate tracks
Healing principle in health care
Community Psychiatry
Healing principle in religion
Spiritual Seeker
Single track
Dr. Herbert Benson
• Integrative Medicine
• Mind-Body Medicine
Personal, private spiritual experience becomes
medically relevant
3. Integrative Medicine
Biological high-tech medicine
Has great power but alone can be
reductionistic, often leading to symptom
management without getting to the root
causes of disease.
Integrative medicine
Includes biopsychosocial and spiritual aspects.
Look for the root causes of disease and
healing here.
4. Integrative Medicine
Four evidence based healing universes
1. Biological
a. Traditional Medicine
b. CAM: Complimentary and Alternative Medicine
2. Psychological
3. Social
4. Spiritual
a. Mind-Body Medicine
5. Mind-Body Medicine
Mind-body Medicine
The spiritual aspect of cognitive-behavioral
therapy
Belief systems impact disease and healing.
The mind can be used for:
1. Expansion of healing power
2. Pain control
3. Spiritual evolution
6. Mind-Body Medicine
Evidence-based: The Data
People with an active faith or belief system have
better outcomes in medicine, surgery, mental
health, and addiction
Includes cancer, coronary artery
disease, cerebrovascular
disease, hypertension, asthma, COPD, infections
disease, kidney disease, and more.
Lower medication rates
Lower length of stay
Higher quality of life
Much more
7. Mind-Body Medicine
Evidence-based: The Data
Suggested reading
Herbert Benson M.D., Timeless healing
Jeff Levin PhD: God, Faith and Health
David Larson M.D.
Larry Dossey M.D.
Dale Mathews M.D.
Harold Koenig M.D.
James Gordon M.D.
Deepok Chopra M.D.
8. Mind-Medicine
Evidence Based: The Data
What the data tells us:
There is no separation between mind and
body.
The mind is connected to every cell in the body
through electromagnetic and chemical waves.
In some yet to be determined way, thoughts
have leverage in the inner workings of our cells
having to do with disease and healing.
9. Mind-Body Medicine
The Mechanism
Community: support from like-minded people
Behavior: good habits such as no
smoking, drinking, or drugs; healthy diet
Thought: the power of positive thought--
faith, hope, belief, optimism, and much more
Feeling: the healing power of positive emotion—
peace, love, joy, compassion
Spiritual practice: expansion of healing power
from yoga, meditation, mindfulness, and prayer
10. Mind-Body Medicine Principles
The scientific connection between spirituality
and healing has been made.
Spiritual belief systems have a role in healing
mind, body, and soul.
When we activate or intensify our spiritual
belief systems, healing power expands.
There is healing power on the table.
11. Mind-Body Medicine Principles
Healing Power
Healing Power
A magnificently intelligent healing power
operates every cell in the body.
It is incomparably brilliant.
We know how to make it grow and shrink.
We know where the leverage points are.
The key leverage point: how we manage our
pain.
12. Mind-Body Medicine Principles
Pain Management
Skillful pain management
To tap into the expanded reservoir of
healing power, we must become more
skillful pain managers.
How we manage our pain determines
whether we move forward, backward, or
stay stuck in this life.
13. Mind-Body Medicine Principles
Pain Management
Pain Management
The fear factor: we are afraid of
suffering, disease, disability, the unknown, and
death.
This mental distress slows down healing and
makes the pain worse.
When disease persists, we can teach people to
slow down and relax so they can stay in charge
and get their lives back.
14. Mind-Body Medicine Principles
Pain Management
Pain Management
Often we cannot take disease away but we can
always help with pain management.
Pain is both physical and psychological.
All pain is experienced in the mind and can
therefore be modulated by the mind.
We can contain and reduce or expand and magnify
the pain.
We can control pain so pain does not control our
lives.
15. Mind-Body Medicine Principles
Spiritual Evolution
Spiritual Evolution
If we manage our pain skillfully, healing power
expands and we evolve spiritually.
Spiritual qualities such as
compassion, understanding, forgiveness, pat
ience, peace, love, and joy grow.
We feel better.
We become better people.
16. Mind-Body Medicine Principles
When we activate or intensify our spiritual
belief systems, we harness the untapped
power of the mind for:
1. Expansion of healing power
2. Pain Control
3. Spiritual Evolution
This is very good news but there are many
barriers.
17. Problems Entering the Spiritual
Domain
We don’t work with Spirit.
We are not comfortable talking about religion.
We have no language or map.
We ignore or refer to spiritual counselors.
Lack of training.
Belief systems are personal, intimate, complex.
Many have a traumatic religious history.
Fierce feelings and defensiveness.
Fear of unravel to the abyss (The Cheeseburger)
Enormous variation and level of commitment.
There is no time-brief appointments, paper work.
How to enter without losing life, limb, or property.
18. Guidelines for Approaching
Belief Systems
1. Access: we need models that give us
safe, efficient, and effective access to the
territory of belief systems.
Map: how to get there.
Language: how to talk to each other and our
patients about religion and spirituality.
Keys: to enter the territory of belief systems so we
can get in and out safely and effectively.
An efficient delivery system: so we can help our
patients learn how to do this work when we are
already too busy.
19. Guidelines for Approaching
Belief Systems
2. Universal and inclusive
Look for universal or near-universal spiritual
healing principles, methods, and qualities.
Design models that can work for as many as
possible.
Include atheist, agnostic, religious, and
spiritual persons.
20. Guidelines for Approaching
Belief Systems
3. Individualize
Stay in religion of origin and expand practice
Build your own program
Cafeteria of options
4. Root cause and solution
Look for root causes and solutions to our deepest
suffering.
5. User-friendly
Remain user-friendly and non-invasive as possible
21. Guidelines for Approaching
Belief Systems
6. Biopsychosocial-spiritual
We think of high-tech medicine as real and mind-
body principles as touchy-feely. This is
reductionistic and wrong.
We are biopsychosocial and spiritual beings. A
disturbance in any one of there leads to a
disturbance in the others.
Therefore, comprehensive treatment planning
includes biopsychosocial and spiritual
interventions.
22. Guidelines for Approaching
Belief Systems
7. Self-help and Skills Training
There is an explosion of knowledge and models
having to do with healing in each of the four
domains: biopsychosocial and spiritual.
There is no time to do it all: managed care, fifteen
minute appointments, paper work and so on.
How can we activate healing power in all four
domains given the limitation of time and system
problems?
Good news: it can be done through skills training
and self help.
23. Guidelines for Approaching
Belief Systems
Self-help: much of the healing in the
psychosocial-spiritual domain is self-help.
Skills training:
classes, groups, books, manuals, tapes, CD’s,
DVD’s, Internet
Self-healing: we can teach people how to
increase healing power while in the comfort
of their own homes or during the day while
performing their routine activities.
There are many ways to do this. No one way
works for all people.
24. Universal Spiritual Healing
Models
I will present two models
Brutal Reality and the Illusion of
1.
Safety, Security, and Immortality (1980)
2. Healing Power: Ten Steps to Pain Management
and Spiritual Evolution (2005)
25. Personal Spiritual History
Before discussing the models, a brief personal
history
From personal to universal
To enter the spiritual domain, we need to learn
how to move with facility from our personal
religious or spiritual experience to the universal.
In that light, I will share with you a very brief
history of my religious-spiritual journey as it
relates to professional work.
As you listen, find yourself and your patients in
these stories and models.
26. Personal Spiritual History
Seventh month of fetal life: an early
introduction to brutal reality
Conservative Judaism
The dynamics of unraveling a belief system
The Cheeseburger
The Chess game: The King goes down.
The Abyss: the unknown, the great mystery of life
27. Personal Spiritual History
Whether we stay in our religion of origin or
not, belief systems remain monumentally
important.
The meaning and purpose of life
Story and metaphor
Cultivation of spiritual qualities
Inspiration
Protection and guidance
Truth
Healing
Community and service
Much more
28. Personal Spiritual History
The Seeker
Mining the great religious fields for pearls
Studies in
Christianity, Hinduism, Buddhism, Judaism, Nativ
e American Spirituality, others
Review the lives of
saints, sages, teachers, masters, gurus
The scientific method in metaphysics: direct
personal experience
Develop a spiritual practice:
meditation, mindfulness, affirmations, prayer
29. The Scientific Method in
Metaphysics
We can decipher spiritual fiction from fact.
How to do this without lab tests or x-rays?
We can put profoundly important questions to
the test of direct personal experience in the
laboratory of life.
Does compassionate service to humanity give us
peace of mind and strength?
Does meditation work?
Do higher states of consciousness actually exist?
Does the body-temple harbor the God of the universe?
30. The Scientific Method in
Metaphysics
Test a theory by practicing a spiritual method.
1.
Assume the agnostic position.
2.
Do not accept of reject the theory.
Stay open and receptive.
The body is the test tube.
3.
The experiment is on the life force
4.
itself, consciousness, energy, thought, feeling, desire, and
behavior.
Prove or disprove it to yourself through direct personal
5.
experience.
If a method or concept works, we keep it and teach it to our
6.
patients. If not, discard it.
We trust our ability to tell the difference.
7.
31. Brutal Reality and the Illusion of
Safety, Security, and Immortality
Dual Diagnosis process group at Harlem
Hospital
The emergence of a model
Criteria
Brutal reality and higher states of consciousness
Connect the dots between pain and healing
AA meetings and psychotherapy
What do you do when you are in pain?
Healing power: where is the leverage?
32. Brutal Reality and the Illusion of
Safety, Security, and Immortality
1. People
2. Activities
3. Belief System
4. Self-knowledge
5. Brutal Reality
6. The Illusion of Safety, Security, and
Immortality
33. Belief Systems
Spiritual, religious, political, national, cultural, ra
cial, familial, psychological, personal
Mechanism of perpetuation in health or disease
Thought repetition with denial and repression of
conflicting data
The Cheeseburger Effect: a single countervailing
thought or action has the potential to unravel an
entire belief system, thrusting the individual into the
unknown, the abyss. This is equivalent to
psychological annihilation or death.
34. Belief Systems
Defense and resistance
The Living Room
Simple fixed belief systems
Eclectic synthetic belief systems
The abyss between simple fixed and eclectic
synthetic systems
Intra-psychic battle for healing
35. A Universal Prescription for Any
Problem, Pain or Symptom
Tell your patients they can enhance healing
when these four domains are active and
positive:
People
Activities
Belief System
Self-knowledge
You can prescribe these with confidence.
Each is evidence based.
36. A Quick Assessment for the Busy
Practitioner
A quick, efficient, and safe entry into the
psychosocial and spiritual domain for the
busy practitioner:
People: Who is in your life that you can really
1.
talk to?
2. Activities: What is your day like?
3. Belief system: Do you have a spiritual activity
such as church, prayer, personal system, etc.
4. Self-knowledge: How do you handle emotions
such as anger, depression, fear, and guilt?
37. Brutal Reality and the Illusion of
Safety, Security, and Immortality
Exercise
1. Describe how the six components weave the
fabric of your life.
Focus on how you use people, activities, belief
system, and self-knowledge to shift from brutal
reality to a feeling of safety. You might want to
use the handout to help you diagram your story.
2. Describe how the six components drive the
lives of
patients, family, friends, strangers, and
enemies.
38. Mind-Body Medicine
Herbert Benson M.D.
Conference in Chicago on spirituality and
healing in medicine
Day one: science
Day two: religion
Day three: applications
39. Mind-Body Medicine
Herbert Benson M.D.
Day one: scientific proof
People with an active faith or belief system
have better outcomes in
medicine, surgery, mental health, and
addiction.
40. Mind-Body Medicine
Herbert Benson M.D.
Day two: religion
Rabbi, priest, Hispanic Pentecostal, Florence
Nightingale mystic, Tibetan Buddhist PHD—
former secretary of the Dalai Lama, Islamic
professor and teacher
Each discussed healing principles, methods, and
qualities from their great faith traditions.
41. Mind-Body Medicine
Herbert Benson M.D.
Day three: application
Extract and organize healing principles from the
great faith traditions into cognitive behavioral or
mind-body medicine practices.
Practice these ourselves and teach them to our
patients.
42. Cascadia: Spirituality and
Healing Group
Clinic survey
Create a group and manual using the criteria
described earlier.
Two groups:
One was consumer run
The other is ongoing at the Northwest Institute
for Healing Power
The Ten Steps
43. Healing Power: Ten Steps to Pain
Management and Spiritual Evolution
Deconstruct: religion into discrete pieces
1.
Eliminate: dogma, ritual, and other non-essentials.
2.
Extract: the wisdom of the ages—the elegant essence
3.
of religion.
Organize: into doable practical steps and tools
4.
• Ten steps, 12 methods, 100 spiritual qualities
• Cafeteria of options
Any person: atheist, agnostic, religious, spiritual
5.
Anywhere, any time: home, work, play
6.
Any problem: physical, mental, emotional, spiritual
7.
Self-help
8.
Self-Healing
9.
44. Healing Power: Ten Steps to Pain
Management and Spiritual Evolution
Some advice as you listen
Take what you need and leave the rest.
Nuke offensive language and substitute your own.
The Higher Power as you understand it
God, Buddha, Consciousness, Mystery
Stay in your own lane.
Do not proselytize.
Discuss without debate.
Reform yourself, not others.
45. The Ten Steps
1. The Core Drive 6. The Seeker
2. Duality and Brutal 7. Soul and Spirit
Reality 8. The School of Life
3. The Compromise 9. Spiritual Practice
4. Habits 10. Spiritual Experience
5. Tools Become
Barriers
46. Ten Steps
Steps 1-5 Steps 6-10
The evolution of Spirituality and
suffering healing
Unskillful pain Skillful pain
management management
Descend Ascend
47. Ten Steps
Follow the pain
Pain management is the swing point between
descent and ascent.
How you manage your pain determines
whether you move forward, backward, or stay
stuck in this life.
Turn the tables on the pain: use the pain to
heal.
48. Step 1: The Core Drive
We want:
Unlimited peace, love, joy, and safety
No suffering
Immortality: more time
This is our motivation whether robbing a
bank or serving the poor.
49. Step 2: Duality and Brutal
Reality
Life on the physical plane is dual and brutal.
Duality
The ups and downs of life
Pleasure and pain, good and evil, health and
disease, success and failure, wealth and poverty, gain
and loss, praise and blame, joy and sadness, love and
hate, war and peace, and so on
Brutal Reality
Death, pain and suffering, and the unknown
The down side of duality
50. Step 3: The Compromise
There is a collision between the core drive
and duality.
We can’t get everything we want on the
physical plane.
We compromise by creating the illusion of
safety through relationship and activities.
In the compromise, we may feel comfortable
and safe.
51. Step 3: The Compromise
However, suffering is unavoidable.
Often we do not accept the inevitable
suffering of life.
Instead, we make a desperate attempt to
eliminate all of our suffering through faulty
mechanisms such as the cultivation of bad
habits.
52. Step 4: Habits
We seek eternal love and safety in a world
where impermanence and limitation are the
rule.
In a mighty but misguided effort to eliminate
suffering, we develop bad habits.
Bad habits have a profound effect on our
health and our response to health care
interventions.
53. Step 4: Habits
Work Alcohol
Codependency Drugs
Activity Sex
Materialism Power
Computers/Internet Gambling
TV Money
Food Violence
Shopping Crime
54. Step 5: Tools Become Barriers
We use six tools to achieve the core drive
While these tools are useful in helping us find
some measure of peace, love, safety, and
pain relief, they become problems
themselves and add to our suffering.
55. Step 5: Tools Become Barriers
The six tools are:
1. Mind
2. Emotion
3. Desire
4. Body
5. Activity
6. Ego
56. Step 5: Tools in Alignment
1. Mind: when positive, calm, and focused, it is
brilliant at solving problems and shaping
meaning.
2. Emotion: a source of self-knowledge
3. Desire: health, prosperity, and love
4. Body: engage life, the doer of all of our
activities, the source of our potential liberation
and enlightenment
5. Activity: work, recreation, culture, hobbies
6. Ego: establish our place in the world of work
and relationships.
57. Tools Become Barriers
The Ego
The ego is the CEO of physical plane
consciousness.
It’s job is to satisfy the core drive.
To do this, the ego surreptitiously takes over the
control rooms of thought, feeling, desire, body
and activity.
It uses these tools in its desperate search for
unlimited peace, love, joy and safety, more
time, and no pain.
The search is in vain however as the ego runs
into the brick wall of limitation and inevitable
suffering on the physical plane.
58. Tools Become Barriers
The Ego
But the ego does not give up so easily.
It counters with an insatiable desire for
success, power, money, recognition, and things.
The ego’s desperate attempt to achieve the core
drive on the physical plane is like driving a car
into a ditch.
It tries to get out by pressing harder on the
accelerator which only serves to heat up the
motor, spray mud around, and dig a deeper rut.
With the ego in charge, the tools go out of
alignment.
59. Step 5: Tools out of Alignment
Reactivity
The six tools out of alignment=reactivity.
Mind: restless, relentless, a life of its own
1.
Emotion: high emotional reactivity
2.
Desire: excessive material desire resulting in
3.
attachments and bad habits.
Body: heavy, tired, hurts, disability, death
4.
Activity: hyperactivity
5.
Ego: separation, selfishness, territorial, self-
6.
important
60. Step 5: Tools Become Barriers
The Ego
The six tools out of alignment:
The universal problem: does anyone not have
this?
Fixation: pin us to the mat of the status quo
Root cause: the root cause of much of our
suffering
Add on: the suffering that we add to the inevitable
suffering of life
61. Step 5: Tools Become Barriers
Getting the Tools Back in Alignment
We can get the six tools back in alignment by
developing a spiritual practice (step 9)
This is where the leverage is.
We do the work here.
Spiritual backbone-spinal column
Spiritual chiropractor
Day to day, hand to hand combat (9 to 5)
Grind it out spiritual work
Soul qualities slowly replace the ego.
62. Summary of Steps 1-5
Two levels of suffering
The inevitable suffering of life: steps 1-3
The six helpful tools spin out of control:
step 5
We cannot control duality and brutal
reality—the inevitable suffering of life.
63. Summary of Steps 1-5
However, we can control how we respond.
We can intervene at step 5.
A comprehensive program must address step
5.
The great religions tell us how.
This is very good news as we add a lot of
suffering to the inevitable suffering of life.
64. Step 6: The Seeker
Step 6: The Seeker
The two layers of pain comingle.
Our pain deepens.
We may develop symptoms that invade
functioning.
Our suffering leads to a period of questioning.
We recognize the need to get help.
We become seekers.
65. Step 6: The Seeker
Our search takes us to spiritual belief
systems.
World religions delve into the heart of the
mystery of life and suffering and emerge with
a prescription for our difficulties.
We can heal ourselves, religion teaches, if we
learn how to manage our pain more skillfully
by developing a spiritual practice.
But first, we must define the nature of the
soul and spirit.
66. Step 7: Soul and Spirit
Soul or Higher Self
Spiritual qualities: religious traditions point to
spiritual qualities as the nature of soul and Spirit
and recognize these as the goal of all spiritual
work.
Spiritual alphabet
Periodic table of spiritual elements
67. Step 7: Soul and Spirit
Soul or Higher Self
Extract the essence from the texts and stories of
the sacred traditions and summarize in one-word
qualities
Perfume: The Elegant Essence of Religion
Call it
Love, Truth, Power, Wisdom, Knowledge, Soul, Th
e Buddha, Atman, The Image of God, Higher
Self, Spiritual Qualities, or whatever you prefer
70. Step 7: Soul and Spirit
You have an army of 100 spiritual qualities.
The jewels of this life
The habits of a sage
The healers
Broker and buffer the pain
USA: unconditional, spontaneous, automatic
As these slowly grow to USA, the locus of
control shifts from outside to inside.
71. Step 7: Soul and Spirit
Spirit or Higher Power
• Atheist, Agnostic, Spiritual, Religious
1. The God of your understanding
• Omniscient, Omnipotent, Omnipresent
• The God of Love
• Christ, Buddha, Krishna, Rumi, Bal Shem Tov
• The Infinite Mysterious Unknown
• Many other concepts, images, aspects
2. Higher states of consciousness
3. Higher or true self
4. Higher meaning and purpose
72. Step 8: The School of Life
Turn the tables on the pain and make it
work for you.
When pain comes, school is in session:
1. Life is school.
2. Pain is the teacher if we let it be.
3. Lessons have to do with the cultivation of
spiritual qualities.
73. Step 9: Spiritual Practice
External
Synagogue, church, mosque
Rituals
Sermons, singing, chanting
Organizational work, committees
Social gatherings
Community service
74. Step 9: Spiritual Practice
Internal
Affirmations 7. Prayer
1.
2. Habits 8. Mindfulness
3. Breathwork 9. Practicing the
Presence of God
4. Progressive muscle
relaxation 10. Service
5. Contemplation 11. Yoga
6. Meditation 12. The Transformation of
Emotion
75. Spiritual Practice
Step 9
Recall the purpose of spiritual practice
• Reduce reactivity
• Getting the six tools back in alignment
1. Mind: positive, calm, strong
2. Emotion: self-knowledge
3. Desire: contentment, satisfaction
4. Body: a temple housing God/Consciousness
5. Activity: stillness, silence, serenity
6. Ego: replaced by soul qualities
• Discipline, life long practice
• Persevere and the reward is great
76. Step 10: Spiritual Experience
The Promise: Spiritual Experience
• Cultivate spiritual qualities
• Feel better
• Become a better person
• Negative → Positive → Stillness → Higher States
of Consciousness
• Conquer the inner world
• Become master of yourself
77. Step 10: Spiritual Experience
Expansion of spiritual qualities in four stages:
1. No change is noticeable. Spiritual qualities are
expanding but the increase is subtle and
imperceptible. Many people quit here.
2. You feel better. There is a tangible experience of
ever-expanding
peace, love, strength, courage, compassion, and
other qualities from the spiritual alphabet.
3. Transformation of consciousness: the peace that
surpasses understanding pure love, ecstatic
joy, intuitive wisdom, a feeling of oneness with
everything, and other wonderful expressions of
Spirit.
4. Mastery: a sustained state of superconsciousness.
78. Key Principles of the Ten Steps
Steps 1-3: We want permanent love and safety in
an uncertain world where suffering is inevitable.
Steps 4-5: We manage our pain poorly and make
it worse.
Steps 6-7: The wisdom of the ages found in the
world’s great religious traditions offers a solution
to this dilemma.
Step 8: Religions teach us how to use the
inevitable suffering of life to cultivate
peace, power, and strength.
79. Key Principles of the Ten Steps
Step 9: Pain is the route to healing if we
develop a spiritual practice.
Step 10: Spiritual qualities such as
love, compassion, courage, strength, and
humility are the healers. They help us broker
and buffer the pain of this life.
Steps 1-10: Through a series of painful
lessons, life teaches us that the
peace, love, and joy we seek in the outer
world, can and must ultimately be found
within.
80. Key Principles of the Ten Steps
Spiritual work results in a shift in the locus of
control from the outer world of
people, places, and things to the inner world of
peace, power, and strength.
Skillful pain management (step 8) and spiritual
practice (step 9) lead to the discovery of the soul
and Higher Power (step 7) as the peace, love, and
joy we crave (step 10) (Universal Wheel).
Step 10 is The Core Drive resurrected, but now
we understand that getting the peace, love, and
joy we crave, necessitates a shift in the locus of
control from outside to inside.
81. The Car
Build a car worthy of the spiritual journey.
The Car
Body of the car:
atheist, agnostic, religious, spiritual
Universal Wheel: problem, method, quality
Traction Devices: the stuff of the religions.
82. The Universal Wheel
Problem, Method, Quality
The Universal Wheel
Problem: any problem of body, mind, or soul.
1.
2. Method: choose any one or combination of the 12
methods.
3. Qualities: choose any one or combination of 100
spiritual qualities in response to your problem.
Example:
1. I am anxious.
2. I practice meditation and mindfulness.
3. I cultivate peace of mind.
83. The Universal Wheel
The Universal Wheel
The essence of spiritual work
Cannot reduce any further
Buddhism
Necessary and sufficient
Roll the wheel
84. The Universal Wheel
For many the universal wheel is:
enough
least invasive, threatening, or toxic.
there is no theology here.
addresses the root cause of much of our
suffering.
For others, the universal wheel is not enough.
85. Traction Devices
Some people need theological traction
devices
The stuff of the religions
Story, metaphor, language
Concepts, images, aspects
Rituals
86. Traction Devices
Omniscient, Omnipotent, Omnipresence
The God of Love
A personal God as
Father, Mother, Friend, Beloved, Teacher, Gui
de, Protector, Confidant
Saints, sages, masters, teachers, and gurus
Christ, Buddha, Krishna, Rumi, Bal Shem Tov
87. Traction Devices
An impersonal God as
peace, love, joy, power, wisdom, or other
combinations of spiritual qualities
Nature, reason, the subconscious
Collective unconscious and archetypes
The Mystery
88. Traction Devices
Karma and reincarnation
Grace
Mystical experiences: eternal peace, pure
love, ecstatic joy, intuitive
wisdom, protection, guidance, prophetic
dreams, many others
And more
89. Inclusion and Individualization
One person’s traction device is the next
person’s gag reflex.
Take what you need and leave the rest.
Don’t let language knock you out of the
game.
Nuke offensive language and substitute your
own
Inclusion: all of the options cited above are
referred to in the ten-step model.
90. How to Use the Book
Overview
The book is an instruction manual for
developing a spiritual practice.
There are ten steps, 15 methods, and 100
spiritual qualities.
10 qualities have their own chapter.
The first 89 pages set the stage for the rest of
the book.
Chapter 3-6: The Ten Steps
91. Getting Started
Chapter 7: eight suggestions p. 50
The ego versus the soul p. 27 & 53
A battle between the ego and the soul for
control over
thought, feeling, desire, body, and activity
92. Getting Started
Soul: tools in
Ego: tools out of
alignment alignment
Thought Thought
Feeling Feeling
Desire Desire
Body Body
Activity Activity
93. The Serenity Prayer
Will and Surrender p. 59
Will: How to develop will power—from spark
to bonfire p. 60
Surrender: learning to live with what we
cannot change p. 67
Managing problems with will, surrender, and
a combination of both p. 70
94. A Universal Method
A ten-step method for working with any pain
or problem p. 75
Will and grace
The mystery of evil and suffering
4 options p. 83
The formula for success p. 85
Define your Higher Power p. 85
Install the image for duality and brutal reality
A constant no matter what the world or body does
95. A Universal Method
One pointed calm concentration p. 87
All your heart, mind, might and soul
24/7 for all techniques
Stay in the present p. 87
Start slow p. 88
Continuous practice p. 88
Pace yourself p. 88
Do your best and leave the rest p. 89
96. Spiritual Practice
The purpose of spiritual practice
Reduce reactivity
Getting the six tools back in alignment
1. Mind: positive, calm, focused, resilient
2. Emotion: self-knowledge
3. Desire: contentment, satisfaction
4. Body: a temple housing the actual God of the
Universe or higher states of consciousness
5. Activity: stillness, silence, spaciousness, serenity
6. Ego: replaced by soul qualities
97. Step 9: Spiritual Practice
Internal
Affirmations 7. Prayer
1.
2. Habits 8. Mindfulness
3. Breathwork 9. Practicing the
Presence of God
4. Progressive muscle
relaxation 10. Service
5. Contemplation 11. Yoga
6. Meditation 12. The Transformation of
Emotion
98. Affirmations
The power of thought
We are always affirming something.
Thoughts are like glasses through which you see the
world.
Framing and reframing
The Subconscious
Lipstick on a pig
Technique p. 99
JapaYoga p. 100
Note cars p, 101
One word affirmations p. 34 the spiritual alphabet
100. How To Eliminate Bad Habits
Habits rule destiny
Cocaine addict
Householder
Spiritual seeker
Highly conscious sage
Change your habits and you change the
course of your life.
101. How to Eliminate Bad Habits
The thought manifests as word.
The word manifests as deed.
The deed develops into habit.
And habit hardens into character
So watch the thought and its ways with care,
And let it spring from love
Born out of concern for all beings.
The Buddha
102. How to Eliminate Bad Habits
The needle of attention
• Attention feeds the habit
• Activates the brain groove
• Releases
thought, impulse, fantasy, feeling, desire
, and action.
Brain groove and neurocircuits
103. How to Eliminate Bad Habits
The brain is malleable.
We can form new brain grooves that hold
new good habits:
1. Constructive meaningful activities
2. The habits of a seeker
Twelve spiritual methods
3. The habits of a sage
100 spiritual qualities
104. Habits
Assume a virtue if you have it not.
Refrain tonight,
And that shall lend a kind of easiness
To the next abstinence, the next more easy;
For use almost can change the stamp of nature,
And either lodge the devil or throw him out
With wondrous potency
Shakespeare, Hamlet
105. Morning, Evening, and Day
Program
Morning and evening program
program Mindfulness
1.
Progressive Muscle Practicing the
1. 2.
Relaxation presence of God
Breath work Service
2. 3.
Contemplation Yoga
3. 4.
Meditation The Transformation
4. 5.
of Emotion
Prayer
5.
Daily activity
106. Morning and Evening Program
Progressive Muscle Relaxation p 121
• Energize and relax the body
Breathworkp. 127
• Using the breath to heal mind, body, and soul
Contemplation p. 133
• Letting wisdom catch up with you
107. Morning and Evening Program
Meditation
• Stop the world
• Stop the body
• Stop the senses
• Stop the mind
• The Room of Stillness
• Burn up problems in the Room of Stillness
• Wait patiently
• The door of stillness opens
• The Ocean of Stillness
• Ecstasy
• Other worlds
108. Morning and Evening Program
Prayer p. 153
• Communion with your Higher Power
• Will
• Action
• Surrender
• Grace
• Peace
109. Day Program
Mindfulness p. 163
• “I am awake”
• Ordinary consciousness: mindlessness
• Spiritual consciousness: mindfulness
• Place the needle of your attention here:
1. Witness
2. School
3. Service
4. Warrior
5. Entertainment
6. Ritual
7. Create your own: focus on any aspect of Spirit
110. Day Program
Practicing the Presence of God p. 177
• A personal relationship
• The sacred meaning of story
• Phenomenon
• Have a conversation with God
• Hide and seek
• Find and keep
• If everything is God, how would you behave?
• If I am Buddha and you are Jesus, what would
change?
111. Day Program
Service p. 191
• Adding our light to the sum of the light
• The Bodhisattva’s Vow
• Love and service in a daily routine
• Maintaining balance
112. Day Program
Yoga p. 201
• BhaktiYoga: devotion
• Karma Yoga: service
• JnanaYoga: wisdom
• Raja Yoga: stillness
• Eight steps of Patanjali
• Chakras and prana
• Material consciousness: energy down and out
• Spiritual consciousness: energy in and up
113. Day Program
Yoga
• Raja Yoga
• Be still and know that I am God.
• God is stillness.
• God is in the stillness.
• Stillness is the doorway between this world and the
next.
• God is beyond the stillness
• The Yogi in the school of life
114. Day Program
The Transformation of Emotion p. 213
The Guest House: Rumi
A technique for converting emotional pain to
self-knowledge
• Let the story unfold
• Spiritualize the story
115. Deep Inner Work
The two deepest inner program
1. The Transformation of Emotion: Self-
knowledge
2. Meditation: stillness
• These two work together
• Some cannot do this
116. Change Your Destiny
The Cultivation of Spiritual Qualities
Perfume Bottle
The elegant essence of religion
Wake up a Buddha, Christ, or Krishna
118. Change Your Destiny
A Balanced Healing Program
When you are in pain, check the alignment of the
six tools:
1. Thoughts: repetitive, negative, relentless, a
life of its own
2. Emotions: highly reactive
3. Desires: attachments and bad habits
4. Body:
heavy, hurts, tired, disabled, disease, death
5. Activity: hyperactivity
6. Ego: fear, insecure, worry, doubt
119. Change Your Destiny
A Balanced Healing Program
Develop a spiritual practice
Drive your car up the spiritual mountain
Roll the Universal Wheel
Problem: any problem of body, mind, or soul
1.
Method: any one or combination of 15 spriitual
2.
methods
Horizontal Axis 1-3
Vertical Axis 3-15
Horizontal → Vertical → Horizontal
Quality: cultivate one of a combination of 100
3.
qualities from the spiritual alphabet
120. Change Your Destiny
Spiritual Evolution
No matter what the world or your body does, you can
respond by cultivating any one or combination of 100
spiritual qualities.
When you fill the body temple with
love, compassion, understanding, forgiveness, patience,
courage, and peace,
You feel better.
You become a better person.
Negative → Positive → Stillness → Higher States of
Consciousness
Superconsciousness: The door of stillness opens
→ expansion → ecstasy
121. Change Your Destiny
Spiritual Evolution
Service
Quiet anonymous acts of gentle humble service to all
whom you meet
Bring your love to brutal reality. Serve there.
Superconsciousness → Service →
Superconsciousness → Service →Mastery
Mastery
Even-minded under all conditions
Ocean/Wave: In the deep still ocean no matter how
stormy the waves
122. Summary
You do not need a religion or theology.
All you need is a spiritual practice.
Drive your car up the spiritual mountain and you
will
Expand healing power
Become a more skillful pain manager
Evolve spiritually
Shift the locus of control from outside to inside
Negative → Positive → Stillness →
Superconsciousness
Quiet anonymous acts of gentle humble service to all
humanity
123. Conclusion
Healthcare professionals: can teach the ten steps
to their patients in hospitals and clinics.
The ten-step model supplements the healing
practices of all medical specialties.
Self-help groups: The model is suited for self-
help groups in the community.
Individual Study: we do not need a group or
teacher. We can do this work at home alone.
124. Group Rules
We do not promote a particular religion.
We do promote your individual approach.
We have respect and tolerance for the great variety
of ways to understand and practice spirituality.
We do not proselytize.
We engage in discussion without debate.
Take what you need and leave the rest.
We avoid giving advice or trying to fix other people’s
problems.
We are not here to change others.
We are here to change ourselves.
125. Exercise: Finding Yourself and Your
Patients in the Ten Steps
1. Are you satisfied with your spiritual life?
2. What is the next step in your spiritual
development?
3. Are you ready to take that step?
4. Are you willing to do some work?
5. What is your core drive?
6. How does step 3, The Compromise, play itself
out in your life?
7. What are some examples in your life of how
desire led to attachment and a bad habit or
two?
126. Exercise: Finding Yourself and Your
Patients in the Ten Steps
8. Would you like to be able to control your
mind but don’t know how?
9. Do you fill your waking life with continuous
activity?
10. Do you have built-in periods of retreat and
solitude for rest and regeneration?
11. Describe how your ego gets you into
trouble.
12. Has your suffering led you to search for
meaning and purpose.
127. Exercise: Finding Yourself and Your
Patients in the Ten Steps
13. What is the meaning and purpose of your life?
14. Describe how your belief system gives you
meaning and purpose.
15. What is your concept of soul or higher self?
16. Do you have a Higher Power?
17. What is your concept of Higher Power?
18. If life is school, how would you describe some of
the classes you are in at this time? What lessons
are you learning?
128. Exercise: Finding Yourself and Your
Patients in the Ten Steps
19. Do you have a spiritual practice?
20. What spiritual methods do you use?
21. Would you like to expand your practice?
22. Review the list of spiritual qualities. Which of
these would you like to grow?
23. Have you had a spiritual or superconscious
experience?
24. Discuss pain as a stimulant for the growth of
spiritual power.
129. Exercise: Finding Yourself and Your
Patients in the Ten Steps
25. Build your own car.
Universal Wheel: choose a
problem, method, and quality.
Body of the car:
atheist, agnostic, spiritual, religious
Traction devices
130. Where Do We Go From Here?
Healthcare professionals: if not interested of don’t have
enough time, refer patients to self-help books or skills
trainers.
Those who are interested can follow the data from two
sources:
1. Scientific studies on spirituality and healing
2. The scientific method in metaphysics: spiritual
practice leads to direct personal experience.
These two work together.
131. Where Do We Go From Here?
“Heal Thyself”
The Bag Lady
Healthcare professionals and
consumers, seekers, individuals in crisis, all
people
Develop a spiritual practice
Form study groups
Follow the scientific method in metaphysics
132. Change Your Destiny
Some Final Advice
Spiritual work is not easy.
It takes time to dissolve barriers.
Quick fixes are usually not real.
However, if you are patient and diligent, the
rewards are profound.
For most it takes crisis and pain to start a
practice but don’t wait.
Do your homework now.
Begin building your morning, day, and evening
program.
133. Change Your Destiny
Some Final Advice
Practice one or a combination or spiritual
methods every day.
Work on cultivating one or a combination or
spiritual qualities every day.
Even if you are very busy, try to read one or a few
pages of sacred text every day.
Above all, remain compassionate, patient, and
gentle with yourself.
Conclusion: The Great Physician prescribes Love
p. 330
135. Northwest Institute For
Healing Power
This is a self-help model.
You can and must ultimately do the work
alone.
For those who might want ongoing support
and guidance, consider forming a study
group.
You can also attend classes at the Northwest
Institute for Healing Power
136. Northwest Institute for
Healing Power
Classes: Monday evening 6:30-8:00 pm
Workshops
Personal instruction 1:1
Group supervision
Northwest Institute for Healing Power
Portland, Oregon
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