Healthy, long term love relationships require commitment, communication, care and periodic shots of inspiring fun. Merry Lovemaking covers the topics of: 1) Women's body image. 2) Sensuality and the arousal of the senses. 3) The importance of touch. 4) The role of affection. 5) Ideas to inject loving surprises.

1. Build a resilient coupleship

2. 1. Calm Body Image Scrimmage
We’re all given a body
different sizes and
shapes!

3. Body Image Challenge
Who has
the body
image
challenge?
She fusses
that she
has
“no chin!”

5. Twenty years ago the
average fashion model
weighed 8% less than the
average woman. Today,
she weighs 23% less.
PLUS Model Magazine

6. There are 3 billion women
who don’t look like supermodels and
only 8 who do.
Lou Paget

7. 2003 Dove research
3200 women
• 2% women from 10 countries
considered themselves beautiful
• 1% of Canadian women
considered themselves beautiful

8. One of these women
was a model in the
Dove Campaign.
Which one?

9. Willendorf
Goddess
Estimated to have
originally been
carved in 24,000–
22,000 BC.
This carving was
done by Les Morgan,
Patricia’s hubby.

10. If she can be called
Goddess isn’t time
we accepted our
lumps, bumps and
sags just the way
they are?
Compliments of Patsy

11. A woman may develop wrinkles and
cellulite, lose her waistline, her
bustline, her ability to bear a child,
even her sense of humor, but none
of that implies a loss of sexuality,
her femininity.
Barbara Gordon

12. There is no
SEXpiration
date!
Patricia Morgan

13. A) Your
sexy
nick name?
Old Fart’s Tart
is not allowed!

14. B) Who is your sexy role model?

15. Your Mom?

16. • What about her is
sexy or sensual?
• What do you imagine
her doing in the
name of love?
• What about you?

17. FACT: Different men are attracted to
different women’s body shapes.

18. Sexual energy is created by a woman
enjoying her body!

19. 2. Use Sensuality to Arouse
Pleasure your
and
your partner’s
senses.

20. • Sight
• Sound
• Touch
• Smell &
• Taste

21. 3. Plan Pleasuring & Tender Touch

22. Usually start here
Tenderly
touch
Sensate Focus

23. Masturbating?
Quickies?
Fantasy?

24. Don’t criticize in the sack. Discuss
constructively later.
Ruth Westheimer
Darling,
I love
the stroking.

25. I’m suggesting a new name
for sex and it should include
everything from kissing
to sitting closer together.
Sher Hite

26. 4. Be Forever Affectionate
He wants you to:
• Desire time with him.
• Let him take care of you and to
pamper you.
• Let him protect you from . . .
• See him as a contributor to your
happiness & success.

27. 5. Create
Sexy
Surprises

28. Avoid
The Love Rut

29. The Love
Rut is not a
pretty sight!

30. Surprise!!!
Patsy is here.

31. How do I love thee?
Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and
breadth and height
My soul can reach,
when feeling out of sight.
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of every day's
Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
Elizabeth Barrett Browning, 1844

32. Personalize
How do I love thee?
Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the sound of the
Toilet seat going down.
And receiving your support
Though often I frown.
I love cuddling in bed as we grow old,
With ‘ner a grumble re my feet, ice-cold.

33. Hand craft a personal card.

34. PUSSY
You’ll have to
ask me about
this idea.
Call 403-2427796

35. Best
floor play
there is.
Sometimes
women are truly
just too tired.

36. Lunch is
ready!
And I am
the
appetizer.

37. Hanky makes
a pick up.
Meet him
at the airport.

38. Patsy makes
a pick up.
Meet him again.
Temporary Tattoo

39. Surprise!!!
Initiate
Just Do It!!!

40. You
SEXY
Thing!!!

41. Remember!!!
You, too,
are a
SEXY
THING!!!

42. Patricia Morgan lightens
your load, brightens your outlook
and strengthens your resilience.
Watch her in action at
SolutionsForResilience.com
Contact her for your
next event at
403-242-7796
Music by Jason Dirks
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