2. MENTAL HEALTH/ рдорд╛рдирд╕рд┐рдХ рд╕реНрд╡рд╛рд╕реНреНрдп
The World Health Organization defines
mental health as "a state of well-
being in which the individual realizes
his or her own abilities, can cope with
the normal stresses of life, can work
productively and fruitfully, and is able
to make a contribution to his or her
communityтАЬ/ рд╡реНрдпрдХреНрддрд┐ рдХреЛ рдЕрдкрдиреЗ рдпрд╛ рдЕрдкрдиреЗ
рдЦреБрдж рдХреА рдХреНрд╖рдорд┐рд╛рдУрдВ рдХрд╛ рдПрд╣рд┐рд╛рд┐, рдЬреАрд╡рди рдХреА
рд┐рд╛рдорд╛рдиреНрдп рд┐рдирд╛рд╡ рдХреЗ рд┐рд╛рде рд┐рд╛рдордирд╛ рдХрд░ рд┐рдХрд┐реЗ рд╣реИрдВ,
рдЙрддреНрдкрд╛рджрдХрд┐рд╛ рдФрд░ рд▓рд╛рднрдХрд╛рд░реА рдХрд╛рдо рдХрд░рд┐реЗ рд╣реИрдВ, рдХрд░
рд┐рдХрд┐реЗ рд╣реИрдВ рдФрд░ рдЕрдкрдиреЗ рдпрд╛ рдЕрдкрдиреЗ рд┐рдореБрджрд╛рдп рдХреЗ рд╕рд▓рдП
рдПрдХ рдпреЛрдЧрджрд╛рди рдмрдирд╛рдиреЗ рдХреЗ рд╕рд▓рдП рд┐рдХреНрд╖рдо рд╣реИ .
3. тАв Mental health describes either a level
of cognitive or emotional well-being or an
absence of a mental disorder (рдордиреЛрд╡рд┐рдХрд╛рд░)/
рдорд╛рдирд╕рд┐рдХ рд╕реНрд┐рд╛рд╕реНреНрдп рдпрд╛ рддреЛ рд┐рдВрдЬреНрдЮрд╛рдирд╛рддреНрдордХ рдпрд╛
рднрд╛рд┐рдирд╛рддреНрдордХ рдЕрдЪреНрдЫреА рддрд░рд╣ рд┐реЗ рдХрдХрдпрд╛ рдЬрд╛ рд░рд╣рд╛ рд╣реИ рдпрд╛ рдПрдХ
рдорд╛рдирд╕рд┐рдХ рд╡рд┐рдХрд╛рд░ рдХреЗ рдЕрднрд╛рд┐ рдХрд╛ рдПрдХ рд╕реНрддрд░ рдХрд╛ рд┐рд░реНрдгрди .
4. MALADJUSTMENT/рдХреБ рд┐рдорд╛рдпреЛрдЬрди
тАв It refers to
тАв рд▓рдпрднрдВрдЧ/disharmony between the person
& his environment. It results from the
frustration/рдХреБрдВ рдард╛ of the needs.
Maladjusted person is not able to
establish proper relationship between
his ability & environment. It is failure to
adapt & is faulty adjustment.
5.
6. ROLE OF EDUCATION TO PREVENT
MALADJUSTMENT
1. Observation of special problems/
рд╡рд┐рд╢реЗрд╖ рд┐рдорд╕реНрдпрд╛рдУрдВ рдХрд╛ рдЕрд┐рд▓реЛрдХрди
2. Good Relationship/рдЕрдЪреНрдЫреЗ рд┐рдВрдмрдВрдз
3. Building morale & foundations of
good habits/рдордиреЛрдмрд▓ рдФрд░ рдЕрдЪреНрдЫреА
рдЖрджрддреЛрдВ рдХрд╛ рди рдВрд┐
4. Carefully planning the role of
competitions/рдкреНрд░рддрддрдпреЛрдЧрд┐рддрд╛рдУрдВ рдХреА
рднреВрд╕рдордХрд╛ рдХреА рдпреЛрдЬрдирд╛ рдмрдирд╛
8. CONFLICT/ рд┐рдВрдШрд╖рдг
Barney & Lehner (1953) : defined it
as тАЬ Psychological conflict is a stage
of tension brought by the presence,
in the individual of two or more
opposing desiresтАЭ
рдордиреЛрд╡реИрдЬреНрдЮрд╛рдирдирдХ рд┐рдВрдШрд░реНрд╖ рджреЛ рдпрд╛ рдЕрдзрд┐рдХ рд╡рд╡рд░реЛрд┐реА
рдЗрдЪреНрдЫрд╛рдУрдВ рдХреЗ , рдЙрдкрдХреНрд╕реНрдердирд┐ рджреНрд╡рд╛рд░рд╛, рд╡реНрдпрдХреНрддрд┐ рдореЗрдВ
рд▓рд╛рдпрд╛ рдЧрдпрд╛ рд┐рдирд╛рд╡.
9. TYPES OF CONFLICTS
APPROACH-APPROACH CONFLICT
Individual is faced with the problem of
making a choice between 2 or more
positive goals almost equally motivating &
important. Eg. Reading a book & playing
cricket./ Choice for marriage-when 2
equally good, qualified & respectable
offers are there.
10. AVOIDANCE- AVOIDANCE/ рд╡рдЬрд╖рди
CONFLICT
Individual is caught in a situation where he
has to choose between two or more
possible negative courses of action. Eg. A
child does not want to study & at the same
time does not to displease his parents by
failing.
11. APPROACH-AVOIDANCE
CONFLICT :
One is faced with the problem of choosing
between approaching & avoiding
tendencies/choices at the same time. Eg.
An adolescent wishing to wear western
outfits belonging to an orthodox family.
12. METHODS OF ADJUSTMENT/рд┐рдорд╛рдпреЛрдЬрди рдХреЗ рд┐рд░реАрдХреЗ
To lead a healthy, happy & satisfying life,
one has to learn the various ways of
adjustment (рд┐рдорд╛рдпреЛрдЬрди), i.e. coping(рд┐рд╛рдордирд╛
рдХрд░рдирд╛) with oneтАЩs environment as
effectively (рдкреНрд░рднрд╛рд┐ рд░реВрд┐ рд┐реЗ) as possible. Also
he has to safeguard(рдмрдЪрд╛рд┐/рд┐реБрд░рдХреНрд╖рд░реН) his self
against turning into a maladjusted
(рдХреВ рд┐рдорд╛рдпреЛрдЬрди) & abnormal (рдЕрд┐рд╛рдорд╛рдиреНрдп)
Personality. To cope with oneтАЩs
environment & the anxieties (рдЧрдЪрдВрддрд╛рдУрдВ),
pressures(рджрдмрд╛рд┐), conflicts(рд┐рдВрдШрд╖рдг) and
stresses(рддрдирд╛рд┐) of life, there are two
methods :DIRECT METHOD INDIRECT
METHOD
13. 1. DIRECT METHODS(рдкреНрд░рддреНрдпрдХреНрд╖ рд╡рд┐рдЧрдз) : ARE
THOSE METHODS WHICH ARE
EMPLOYED BY THE INDIVIDUALS
INTENTIONALLY(рдЬрд╛рдирдмреВрдЭрдХрд░) AT THE
CONSCIOUS(рд┐рдЪреЗрдд) LEVEL(рд╕реНрддрд░). THEY
ARE RATIONAL (рддрдХрдг рд┐рдВрд┐рдд),
LOGICAL(рдиреНрдпрд╛рдпрд╕рд┐рджреНрдз) & GET
PERMANENT SOLUTION(рд╕реНрдерд╛рдп
рд┐рдорд╛рдзрд╛рди) FACE BY INDIVIDUAL IN A
PARTICULAR SITUATION (рд╡рд┐рд╢реЗрд╖ рдХреНрд╕реНрдерддрдд).
These methods include :
a) Increasing or improving efforts/ рд┐реБрдзрд╛рд░ рдХреЗ
рдкреНрд░рдпрд╛рд┐
b) Making proper choices & wise decisions
/ рдЙрдЧрдЪрдд рд╡рд┐рдХрд▓реНрд┐ рдФрд░ рдмреБрджреНрдЧрдзрдорд╛рди рддрдирд░реНрдгрдп
16. RATIONALIZATION/ рдпреБрдХреНрддрддрдХрд░рд░реН
тАв Occurs when we tell an
element of the truth, but
deny the larger truth of the
matter.
тАв For example, тАЬI could
have won the race but the
track was wet.тАЭ The larger
truth was that someone
was faster.
тАв тАЬI got fired, but the boss
was a jerk. supplying a
logical or rational
reason as opposed to
the real reason
17. REPRESSION/ рджрдорди
тАв The person forces the
unacceptable or
threatening feeling out of
awareness to a point
where he/she becomes
unaware of it.
тАв Examples could be a
simple reprimand or as
serious as a rape.
тАв A person is asked, тАЬhow
do you get along with your
motherтАЭ and he responds,
тАЬjust fineтАЭ as he turns pale.
Negative feelings about
the mother are so
unacceptable that they
block his awareness.
18. SUBLIMATION/ рдЙрдЪреНрдЪ рдмрдирд╛рдиреЗ рдХреА рдХреНрд░рд┐рдпрд╛
тАв Transformation of
negative emotions or
instincts into positive
actions, behaviours, or
emotions.
тАв for example, playing a
heavy contact sport such
as football or rugby can
transform aggression
into a game
тАв Many great artists and
musicians have had
unhappy lives and have
used the medium of art
of music to express
themselves.
19. COMPENSATION/ рдкреНрд░рддрддрдХрд╛рд░
тАв A perceived deficit is
compensated for by
skill or success in
another area.
тАв A physically
handicapped boy is
unable to participate
in football, so he
compensates by
becoming a great
scholar.
20. REGRESSION/ рд┐рд╛рд┐рд┐
тАв When adult defense
mechanisms stop
working for us, we
regress to a
personality we had at
childhood.
тАв For example, when
an adult doesnтАЩt take
responsibility, he
says, тАЬItтАЩs not my
fault, itтАЩs her fault.тАЭ
тАв Immature patterns of
behavior emerge
such as bragging.
21. DAY DREAMING/ рджрджрд╡рд╛ - рд╕реНрд╡рдкреНрди
тАв A fantasy is a
situation imagined by
an individual that
expresses certain
desires or aims on the
part of its creator.
тАв Daydreaming allows
people to separate
themselves from
everyday reality and
desolation.
тАв A lonely person may
dream he has lots of
friends.
25. PERSONA ( LATIN ) тАУ MASK/рдореБрдЦреМрдЯрд╛
яГи Criticized / рдЖрд▓реЛрдЪрдирд╛on three aspects / рдкрд╣рд▓реБрдУрдВ :
яГи a) We play many roles/ рднреВрд╕рдордХрд╛ (student, teacher,
mother, father, sister, brother, uncle, aunt, etc.)
яГи b) Role is synonymous with reputation & this is
not PERSONALITY/ рдкреНрд░рдирд┐рд╖реНрдард╛ рдХреЗ рд┐рд╛рде рдкрдпрд╛рд╖рдп рдмрди рдЧрдпрд╛
рдФрд░ рдпрд╣ рд╡реНрдпрдХреНрддрд┐рддреНрд╡ рдирд╣реАрдВ рд╣реИ..
яГи c) Outward aspect of individual.
26. PERSONALITY-DEFINITION
G.W. ALLPORT :- Personality is the dynamic
organization of those psycho-physical
systems that determine his unique
adjustments to his environment/ рдЙрди
рдордиреЛрд┐реИрдЬреНрдЮрд╛рддрдирдХ рд╢рд╛рд░реАрд░рд░рдХ рдкреНрд░рд░реНрд╛рд╕рд▓рдпреЛрдВ рдХреЗ рд┐рддрддрд╢ рд▓
рд┐рдВрд┐рдарди рд╣реИ рдХрдХ рдЕрд┐рдиреЗ рд┐рдпрд╛рдгрд┐рд░рд░реН рдХреЗ рд╕рд▓рдП рдЕрд┐рди рдЕрдиреВрдареА
рд┐рдорд╛рдпреЛрдЬрди рддрдирдзрд╛рдгрд░рд░рдд. .
31. Self-Efficacy рдЖрддреНрдо рдкреНрд░рднрд╛рд╡рдХрд╛рд░рд░рд┐рд╛
тАв What Is Self-Efficacy?
тАв According to Albert Bandura, to manage prospective
situations self-efficacy is "the belief in oneтАЩs capabilities to
organize and execute the courses of action required ." In
other words, self-efficacy is a personтАЩs belief in his or her
ability to succeed in a particular situation. Bandura
described these beliefs as determinants of how people
think, behave, and feel (1994). рдЕрд▓реНрдмрдЯрд╖ Bandura рдХреЗ рдЕрдиреБрд┐рд╛рд░,
рд┐рдВрднрд╛рд╡рд╡рд┐ рдХреНрд╕реНрдердирд┐рдпреЛрдВ рдЖрддреНрдо рдкреНрд░рднрд╛рд╡рдХрд╛рд░рд░рд┐рд╛ рдХрд╛ рдкреНрд░рдмрдВрд┐рди рдХрд░рдиреЗ рдХреЗ рд╕рд▓рдП рдПрдХ
рдХреА рдХреНрд╖рдорд┐рд╛рдУрдВ рдореЗрдВ рд╡рд╡рд╢реНрд╡рд╛рд┐ рдХреЛ рд┐рдВрдЧрджрдард┐ рдХрд░рдиреЗ рдФрд░ рдЖрд╡рд╢реНрдпрдХ рдХрд╛рд░рд╖рд╡рд╛рдИ рдХреЗ
рдкрд╛рдареНрдпрд┐рдореЛрдВ рдкрд░ рдЕрдорд▓ рдХрд░рдиреЗ рдХреЗ рд╕рд▓рдП "рд╣реИ . рджреВрд┐рд░реЗ рд╢рдмреНрджреЛрдВ рдореЗрдВ, рдЖрддреНрдо
рдкреНрд░рднрд╛рд╡рдХрд╛рд░рд░рд┐рд╛ рдПрдХ рд╡рд╡рд╢реЗрд░реН рдХреНрд╕реНрдердирд┐ рдореЗрдВ рд┐рдлрд▓ рд╣реЛрдиреЗ рдХреЗ рд╕рд▓рдП рдЕрдкрдиреЗ рдпрд╛
рдЙрд┐рдХреА рдХреНрд╖рдорд┐рд╛ рдореЗрдВ рдПрдХ рд╡реНрдпрдХреНрддрд┐ рдХрд╛ рд╡рд╡рд╢реНрд╡рд╛рд┐ рд╣реИред Bandura рд▓реЛрдЧреЛрдВ рдХреЛ
рд▓рдЧрд┐рд╛ рд╣реИ, рд╡реНрдпрд╡рд╣рд╛рд░ рдХрд░рд┐реЗ рд╣реИрдВ, рдФрд░ (1994) рдХреИ рд┐реЗ рдорд╣рд┐реВрд┐ рдХреА рдирдирд┐рд╛рд╖рд░рдХреЛрдВ
рдХреЗ рд░реВрдк рдореЗрдВ рдЗрди рдорд╛рдиреНрдпрд┐рд╛рдУрдВ рдХрд╛ рд╡рдгрд╖рди рдХреНрд░рдХрдпрд╛ред
32. The Role of Self-Efficacy
тАв Virtually all people can identify goals they want to
accomplish, things they would like to change, and
things they would like to achieve. However, most
people also realize that putting these plans into action
is not quite so simple. Bandura and others have found
that an individualтАЩs self-efficacy plays a major role in
how goals, tasks, and challenges are approached.
тАв рд▓рд┐рднрд┐ рд┐рдн рд▓реЛрд┐реЛрдВ рдХреЛ рд┐реЗ рд╣рд╛рд╕рд┐рд▓ рдХрд░рдирд╛ рдЪрд╛рд╣рддреЗ рд╣реИрдВ рд┐реЗ
рд┐реВрд░рд╛ рдХрд░рдирд╛ рдЪрд╛рд╣рддреЗ рд╣реИрдВ рд▓рдХреНрд╖реНрдпреЛрдВ, рд┐реЗ рд┐рд░рд░рд┐рддрдгрди рдХрд░рдирд╛ рдЪрд╛рд╣рддреЗ рд╣реИрдВ
рдмрд╛рддреЗрдВ, рдФрд░ рдЪ рдЬреЛрдВ рдХреА рд┐рд╣рдЪрд╛рди рдХрд░ рд┐рдХрддреЗ рд╣реИрдВред рд╣рд╛рд▓рд╛рдВрдХрдХ,
рдЬреНрдпрд╛рджрд╛рддрд░ рд▓реЛрд┐реЛрдВ рдХреЛ рдн рдХрд╛рд░рдгрд┐рд╛рдИ рдореЗрдВ рдЗрди рдпреЛрдЬрдирд╛рдУрдВ рдбрд╛рд▓
рдХрд╛рдлреА рдЗрддрдирд╛ рдЖрд┐рд╛рди рдирд╣реАрдВ рд╣реИ рдХрдХ рдПрд╣рд┐рд╛рд┐ред Bandura рдФрд░
рджреВрд┐рд░реЛрдВ рдХреЗ рдПрдХ рд╡реНрдпрдХреНрддрдд рдХреА рдЖрддреНрдо рдкреНрд░рднрд╛рд┐рдХрд╛рд░рд░рддрд╛ рд▓рдХреНрд╖реНрдпреЛрдВ,
рдХрд╛рдпрдг рдФрд░ рдЪреБрдиреМрддрддрдпреЛрдВ рд┐реЗ рд┐рдВрд┐рдХрдг рдХрд░ рд░рд╣реЗ рд╣реИрдВ рдХрдХ рдХреИ рд┐реЗ рдореЗрдВ
рдПрдХ рдкреНрд░рдореБрдЦ рднреВрд╕рдордХрд╛ рддрдирднрд╛рддрд╛ рдиреЗ рд┐рд╛рдпрд╛ рд╣реИ рдХрдХ
33. People with a strong sense of self-efficacy: рдЖрддреНрдо
рдкреНрд░рднрд╛рд╡рдХрд╛рд░рд░рд┐рд╛ рдХрд╛ рдПрдХ рд┐рд╢рддрд┐ рднрд╛рд╡ рдХреЗ рд┐рд╛рде рд▓реЛрдЧ
тАв View challenging problems as tasks to be mastered
тАв Develop deeper interest in the activities in which they
participate
тАв Form a stronger sense of commitment to their interests
and activities
тАв Recover quickly from setbacks and disappointments
тАв рдХрд╛рдпреЛрдВ рдореЗрдВ рдорд╣рд╛рд░рдд рд╣рд╛рд╕рд┐рд▓ рд╣реЛрдиреЗ рдХреЗ рд░реВрд┐ рдореЗрдВ рдЪреБрдиреМрдд рд┐реВрд░реНрдг рд┐рдорд╕реНрдпрд╛рдУрдВ
рджреЗрдЦреЗрдВ
тАв рд┐реЗ рднрд╛рд┐ рд▓реЗрддреЗ рд╣реИрдВ, рдХреНрдЬрд┐рдореЗрдВ рд┐рддрддрд╡рд┐рдЧрдзрдпреЛрдВ рдореЗрдВ рд┐рд╣рд░реА рд░реБрдЧрдЪ рд╡рд┐рдХрд╕рд┐рдд
тАв рдЙрдирдХреЗ рд╣рд╣рддреЛрдВ рдФрд░ рд┐рддрддрд╡рд┐рдЧрдзрдпреЛрдВ рдХреЗ рд╕рд▓рдП рдЕрд┐рди рдкреНрд░рддрддрдмрджреНрдзрддрд╛ рдХреЗ
рдПрдХ рдордЬрдмреВрдд рднрд╛рд┐рдирд╛ рд┐рдЪрд╛рдг
тАв рдЕрд┐рдлрд▓рддрд╛рдУрдВ рдФрд░ рддрдирд░рд╛рд╢рд╛рдУрдВ рд┐реЗ рдЬрд▓реНрджреА рд┐реЗ рдареАрдХ рд╣реЛ
34. People with a weak sense of self-efficacy рдПрдХ рдХрдордЬреЛрд░
рдЖрддреНрдо рдкреНрд░рднрд╛рд╡рдХрд╛рд░рд░рд┐рд╛ рдХреЗ рднрд╛рд╡рдирд╛ рдХреЗ рд┐рд╛рде рд▓реЛрдЧ :
тАв Avoid challenging tasks
тАв Believe that difficult tasks and situations are
beyond their capabilities
тАв Focus on personal failings and negative outcomes
тАв Quickly lose confidence in personal abilities
тАв рдЪреБрдиреМрд┐реАрдкреВрдгрд╖ рдХрд╛рдпрд╖ рд┐реЗ рдмрдЪреЗрдВ
тАв рдХрджрдарди рдХрд╛рдпреЛрдВ рдФрд░ рдХреНрд╕реНрдердирд┐рдпреЛрдВ рдХреЛ рдЕрдкрдиреЗ рдмреВрд┐реЗ рдХреЗ рдмрд╛рд╣рд░ рдХрд╛
рдорд╛рдирдирд╛ рд╣реИ рдХреНрд░рдХ
тАв рд╡реНрдпрдХреНрддрд┐рдЧрд┐ рдЕрд┐рдлрд▓рд┐рд╛рдУрдВ рдФрд░ рдирдХрд╛рд░рд╛рддреНрдордХ рдкрд░рд░рдгрд╛рдореЛрдВ рдкрд░ рдзреНрдпрд╛рди
рдХреЗрдВ рджрд┐рд┐
тАв рдЬрд▓реНрджреА рд╡реНрдпрдХреНрддрд┐рдЧрд┐ рдХреНрд╖рдорд┐рд╛рдУрдВ рдореЗрдВ рд╡рд╡рд╢реНрд╡рд╛рд┐ рдЦреЛ рджреЗрд┐реЗ рд╣реИрдВ
35. Self-Esteem рдЖрддреНрдорд┐рдореНрдорд╛рди
тАв Self-esteem is how we value ourselves; it is how we
perceive our value to the world and how valuable we think
we are to others. Self-esteem affects our trust in others,
our relationships, our work тАУ nearly every part of our lives.
Positive self- esteem gives us the strength and flexibility
to take charge of our lives and grow from our mistakes
without the fear of rejection.
тАв рдЖрддреНрдорд┐рдореНрдорд╛рди рд╣рдо рдЕрдкрдиреЗ рдЖрдк рдХреЛ рдорд╣рддреНрд╡ рджреЗрд┐реЗ рд╣реИрдВ рдХреНрд░рдХ рдХреИ рд┐реЗ рд╣реЛрд┐рд╛ рд╣реИ; рдпрд╣
рд╣рдо рджреБрдирдирдпрд╛ рдХреЗ рд╕рд▓рдП рд╣рдорд╛рд░реЗ рдореВрд▓реНрдп рдорд╛рдирд┐рд╛ рд╣реИ рдФрд░ рдХреИ рд┐реЗ рдореВрд▓реНрдпрд╡рд╛рди рд╣рдо
рд╣рдо рджреВрд┐рд░реЛрдВ рдХреЗ рд╕рд▓рдП рдХрд░ рд░рд╣реЗ рд╣реИрдВ рд▓рдЧрд┐рд╛ рд╣реИред рд╣рдорд╛рд░реЗ рдЬреАрд╡рди рдХреЗ рд▓рдЧрднрдЧ рд╣рд░
рджрд╣рд╕реНрд┐реЗ - рдЖрддреНрдорд┐рдореНрдорд╛рди рджреВрд┐рд░реЛрдВ рдХреЛ, рд╣рдорд╛рд░реЗ рд┐рдВрдмрдВрд┐реЛрдВ рдореЗрдВ рд╣рдорд╛рд░реЗ рд╡рд╡рд╢реНрд╡рд╛рд┐,
рд╣рдорд╛рд░реЗ рдХрд╛рдо рдХреЛ рдкреНрд░рднрд╛рд╡рд╡рд┐ рдХрд░рд┐рд╛ рд╣реИред рд┐рдХрд╛рд░рд╛рддреНрдордХ рдЖрддреНрдорд┐рдореНрдорд╛рди рд╣рдореЗрдВ
рд╣рдорд╛рд░реЗ рдЬреАрд╡рди рдХрд╛ рдкреНрд░рднрд╛рд░ рд▓реЗрдиреЗ рдФрд░ рдЕрд╕реНрд╡реАрдХреГ рдирд┐ рдХреЗ рдбрд░ рдХреЗ рдмрдмрдирд╛ рдЕрдкрдиреА
рдЧрд▓рдирд┐рдпреЛрдВ рд┐реЗ рд╡рд╡рдХрд╕рд┐рд┐ рдХрд░рдиреЗ рдХреЗ рд╕рд▓рдП рд╢рдХреНрддрд┐ рдФрд░ рд▓рдЪреАрд▓рд╛рдкрди рджреЗрд┐рд╛ рд╣реИ
36. Some signs of low self-esteem рдХрдо рдЖрддреНрдорд┐рдореНрдорд╛рди рдХреЗ рдХреБ рдЫ рд▓рдХреНрд╖рдг :
тАв Negative view of life
тАв Perfectionist attitude
тАв Mistrusting others тАУ even those who show signs of
affection
тАв Blaming behavior
тАв Fear of taking risks
тАв Feelings of being unloved and unlovable
тАв Dependence тАУ letting others make decisions
тАв Fear of being ridiculed
тАв рдЬреАрд╡рди рдХрд╛ рдирдХрд╛рд░рд╛рддреНрдордХ рджреГрдХреНрд╖реНрдЯрдХреЛрдг , рдкреВрдгрд╖рд┐рд╛рд╡рд╛рджреА рд░рд╡реИрдпрд╛ ,рджреВрд┐рд░реЛрдВ рдкрд░
рдЕрд╡рд╡рд╢реНрд╡рд╛рд┐- рд╕реНрдиреЗрд╣ рдХреЗ рд▓рдХреНрд╖рдг рджрджрдЦрд╛рдиреЗ рдХреЗ рд╕рд▓рдП рдЬреЛ рднреА рдЙрдирдкрд░ рднреА
тАв рджреЛрд░реН рджреЗрдиреЗ рд╡реНрдпрд╡рд╣рд╛рд░, рдЬреЛрдЦрдЦрдо рдЙрдард╛рдиреЗ рдХрд╛ рдбрд░, рдЕрд╡рдкреНрд░рдп рдФрд░ рдЕрд╡рдкреНрд░рдп рдХреА
рднрд╛рд╡рдирд╛рдПрдБ, рдирдирднрд╖рд░рд┐рд╛ - рджреЗ рджреВрд┐рд░реЛрдВ рдХреЗ рдирдирдгрд╖рдп рд▓реЗрдиреЗ рдХреЗ рд╕рд▓рдП
тАв рдЙрдкрд╣рд╛рд┐ рд╣реЛрдиреЗ рдХрд╛ рдбрд░
37. How can you raise self-esteem?
There are some simple, positive thinking
techniques that can be used to help improve
self-esteem. These are called affirmations.
Using affirmations to stop negative self-talk is a
simple, positive way to help increase self-
esteem.
Using affirmations to stop negative self-talk is a
simple, positive way to help increase self-
esteem.For example, replace the message тАЬI
made a stupid mistake, and I am no good at
this job,тАЭ with тАЬYes, I made a mistake but I have
learned from it, and now I can a better job.тАЭ
38. Begin each day by looking in the mirror and giving
yourself a positive message. The following
affirmations can help you to work toward a positive
self-image:
тАв I respect myself and others
тАв I am lovable and likable
тАв I am confident, and it shows
тАв I care about myself
тАв I am creating loving, healthy relationships
тАв I am a good friend to myself and others
тАв I accept myself just as I am
тАв I look great
тАв Life is good, and I like being a part of it