1. I’m NOT Talking to a Grief Therapist: How to Work with Grieving Teens Monica Coreman MA, PCC-S Grief Counselor Hospice of the Western Reserve 216-486-6250 [email_address]

2. … a community-based grief support program that provides services throughout Northern Ohio to anyone who has experienced a loss due to death

4. Barriers to Grief Counseling

7. Grief comes in waves. Frequency of “grief attacks” decrease over time.

8. Characteristics of Teen Grief

9. Intense all or nothing emotions Characteristics of Teen Grief

16. It’s okay if they don’t tell YOU everything, BUT…. help them identify others they may use as supports.

17. What not to do… a.k.a. How to not dig a big hole

18. Specific Interventions Creative Ways to Process Feelings

19. Groups

22. Relaxation Exercises

24. Books

25. Art/Projects Trust the process.

26. Comments, Criticisms, Witticisms…

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