Throughout history, the terms gender and sexuality have been used interchangeably. An individual's gender is a product of social construct, while their reproductive system decides whether they are biologically male or female. The gendering of sexes has led to differential experiences with their sexuality and presumed sexual orientation. Therefore, sexual intimacy is experienced differently by men and women due to multiple factors.​

1. Gender Differences in
Experiencing Sexual
Intimacy: How Is It Different
for Men and Women?
Throughout history, the terms gender and sexuality
have been used interchangeably.Anindividual'sgender
is a product of socialconstruct, whiletheir reproductive
system decideswhether they are biologicallymaleor
female.The genderingof sexes has led to differential
experienceswith their sexuality and presumed sexual
orientation.Therefore, sexual intimacyis experienced
differentlyby men and women due to multiplefactors.
Let's discussthe gender differencesinsexuality and
how men and women experience intimacydifferently.

2. The Role of
Hormones
and Brain
Chemistry in
Men's and
Women's
Sexual
Experiences
• Thus far, psychological research on the difference between
gender and sexuality has asserted that sexual response to
intimacy remains the same in both genders. Both men and
women follow the same stages in intimacy and sexual
arousal- sexual excitement, plateau, orgasm, and revolution.
However, if you move beyond response and the process,
differences can be mapped out in the sexual nature of both
men and women. The fact remains that a different sexual
orientation may arise because of a conflict between one's
gender and biological sex.
• The higher sex drive in men is due to the presence of
Testosterone (T), a sexual hormone that contributes to their
sexual urges and desires. Additionally, Estrogen, the primary
sex hormone in women, also affects men's sexual health.
Reduced Testosterone in men can result in erectile
dysfunction and increase the chances of accumulating body
fat.

3. Impact of Societal Expectations and
Stereotypes of Men's and Women's
Sexuality
• Women grow up to be sex-averse compared to men, as society normalizes the
idea of male masturbation and sexual pleasure.Women's sexual desires are
denied or delayed in the name of customs, traditions, and values.The sexual
double standards reflect on the intimate experiences of women, who tend to
pursue physical pleasure mostly in committed or romantic entanglements.
• Masturbation experiences have a gender bias to them as well. Men
masturbate more than women to satisfy their sexual desires, and the use of
porn for visual cues varies for both genders.

4. Impact of Trauma and Mental Health on
Men's and Women's Sexual Experiences
• Traumaticexperiences, such as sexual abuse or assault, can lead to fear, guilt, shame, and anxiety that can
negatively impact one's sexual relationships. Mental health issues, such as depression or anxiety, can also
affect one's sexual experiences, leading to decreased desire and sexual dysfunction. However, in our society,
the impact of men's sexual abuse remains largely neglected and overlooked. Men experience more shame or
guilt around sexual trauma, while women may experience more physical pain or difficulty with arousal
hindering their sexual satisfaction.
• Studies have revealed that women's sexual abuse led to more cognitive associations in the form of body
image and self-esteem issues, sympathetic nervous system activation, and sexual self-schemas. Violence
towards men and women prevails to date, and it is imperative to assess their impact on sexual experiences
and establish ways to recover from it. Recovery can be aided by the assistance of your loved ones and medical
specialists such as gynecologists, obstetricians, and sexologists.
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5. The Role of Education and Open
Communication in Closing The Gender Gap
in Sexuality
• Studies have shown that sex education, when imparted in adolescent years through
direct and open communication, makes students more considerate, comfortable,
and accepting towards sexuality and equality among other genders. TThe role of a
comprehensive sex education system (CSE) lies in changing the gender implications
and perception towards sexuality and relationships. Openly communicating about
sexuality would reduce sexual double standards, where different sexually appropriate
expectations would not be imposed on different genders. Communication and
awareness might be the key to weakening the endorsement of conventional gender-
related sexual attitudes.
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6. The Gender Divide in Sexual Health:
Understanding The Challenges Men and
Women Face
• The gender divide and types of sexualities in sexual health refer to the
differences in the experiences, needs, and access to sexual health services and
information between men and women.Women's sexual health lacks both
prioritization and empirical research in contemporarysociety. Women lack
knowledge, and instead of pleasure, they are burdened with the sexual
responsibilities of their partner.The over-emphasis on a man's role during
physical intimacy also results in performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction,
which is frowned upon and ultimately takes a toll on their mental health.
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