2. On Being a Doctor PDSA Cycle Rejuvenates a Marriage
will it lastâa week or two?â I resisted a rebuttal in my The critical aspect of my 10-point change plan was
defense. I could see that I was faltering in my performance: getting feedback from my wife by asking her, âHave I been
I could not reach above a 7 on most days. The second deïŹcient?â
weekâs average was 7.7, only slightly better. After 3 weeks, she became annoyed by the question.
I persisted. But my wife had not ïŹinched from her âCan you stop asking me that meaningless question?â
perception. I avoided detailed conversations. I achieved an While I believed I was being genuine, she felt I was being
impressive 8.8. At this stage, I had mastered the art of condescending.
washing dishes. I had the kids hanging up their jackets and I took a more subtle approach: âAnything else you
putting their shoes in the closet. need help with?â Now the answer was a more pleasant
âWhatâs up with Dad?â the teenager asked, eyes rolling âNo.â In the course of change, it is important to get feed-
in deïŹance. back and quickly readjust. It is not necessary to get all of
âJust do it,â I replied. the components right at the ïŹrst shot.
My policy was clear. No dish left behind. No paper I pressed on with my spreadsheet chart. My wife now
unturned. The buck stopped here (all dishes, newspapers, seemed impressed with my persistence in being engaged
and clutter must be put away). Taking full responsibility with the family. I enjoyed my new priority. The PDSA
made me proud to see a clean living area and kitchen. I did cycle had helped me make focused, appropriate improve-
not want praiseâjust a change in perception and perspec- ments, rather than random stabs at change.
tive from my wife. But I was still far from it. Two months later, I offered âI love youâ while on the
My action plan had brought one more quality beneïŹt. cell phone.
I was now fully engaged with the details of my kidsâ lives. âMe too,â she said. It hadnât come automatically. She
Car conversations revealed my teenagerâs soap opera life in was signaling that something had changed for the better.
school. âBeth-Ann did not invite Kyle to her party. . . . Mar- âMe too, what?â I coaxed.
garet is dating Josh.â I learned about tween fads from my With a giggle she replied, âI love you, too.â
11-year-old, along with the lyrics of âHigh School Musi- Iâd made it.
cal.â And ïŹnally, I commiserated with the fears of my
second grader: âCan the police really put you in jail for not Manoj Jain, MD, MPH
washing your hands?â QSource, Tennesseeâs Quality Improvement Organization
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had to gear down my load, set a lower bar, and make fewer
Requests for Single Reprints: Manoj Jain, MD, MPH, QSource, Ten-
commitments. I was not shy to talk about my new priori- nesseeâs Quality Improvement Organization, 3175 Lenox Park Boule-
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tion of spending more time with my family. I did not
mention that I was using the PDSA cycle. Ann Intern Med. 2008;149:209-210.
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